Girls, What is the Best Way to Sexually Satisfy a Woman?

[JRICHARDS1996]

This is a bit embarrassing, but I'm a virgin waiting until marriage and one of my greatest fears is that I will not be able to satisfy my wife because I have never had sex before. I have a very giving and self-emptying personality, so my main concern would be maximizing her pleasure even at the expense of my own. But how can I do that when I simply do not have any sexual experience or know very much about female sexuality? I study Cosmopolitan magazines religiously to get an idea of female sexuality and what women like, but I'm still pretty ignorant and afraid. I only want to bring my future wife total pleasure and satisfaction because I aim to please--I derive value from serving others--but I worry that I simply will not know how. That said, what is the best way to sexually satisfy a woman and maximize her pleasure? Are there some general rules of thumb that I should remember? Any particular positions that are best for them? Ways to help them achieve orgasm? Anything useful you can teach me?

[Anonymous]

The best advise I can give you is to not worry. No one is great when they first start. It is a learning process and if you're waiting until marriage then it's likely that that you're also looking for a virgin wife so she would not have anyone to compare you to. So keep doing what you're doing; educating yourself on sex, the female body, etc. You most likely have the basic knowledge that is needed to perform sexual intercourse.

It's also important to know that lots of foreplay is important and not even oral necessarily. Lots of kissing and touching leading up to the sex is the best, especially the first time because it makes it feel much more personal and passionate. You want her to be at ease.

Anyways, just keep educating yourself on sex and once you get married, and the timing is right, everything should fall into place.

[turkishbarbie]

The best way it to talk with her, and ask her what she likes.
There's not one way. It's not like there's one magical key that can unlock all doors. Each girl is different and has different preferences. The only way to find out is to talk.

[Notreallyhere]

Give her oral. Lots of it.

[idkwtftoputhere]

give good head