Is size queen a new derogatory term?

[Mustachekitteh]

The other day, here on gag, a new word has come up. Apparently it's called, "Size Queen" Which is a slang term for a person, usually a gay male, who prefers their sexual partner (s) to have a larger-than-average penis. A size queen may use penis size as a major or single factor in determining a suitable partner' So now people have a new word to shame anyone who has sex or likes a dude who has a dick that's above average? What are y'all s thoughts on it?

[hellionthesage]

Does that reasoning also apply to men who wil only date girls who have large breasts/ass? Or a guy who only dates skinny girls? Or thick girls? Or any other possibile combination of traits? If we reduce a person down to one part of them, can we find that offensive? That the person is reduced to one aspect of their total being to simplify the complex or to "objectify" them? I don't think its derrogatory, it may be insulting but if it is then maybe its warrented? I mean women have no problem ripping into men who have prefferences let alone men who objectify a person down to a singular trait. So seems fair to me and not really unreasonable since we do the same to men. Personally I feel indifferent about the term, if thats what they want with their life and the people they are involved with know then I don't personally care.

[Bandit74]

It's a really old term to be honest.

Guys with small dicks are shamed for having small dicks. In response guys shame girls who prefer above average dicks.

[jacquesvol]

And guys and girls shame girls who have a 'small' cup size. Y'all are looking too much porn. :)

[Anno_Domini]

@jacquesvol There are TONS of men who love small breasts. The same is not true of small penises and women.

[jacquesvol]

@Anno_Domini As far as I know, women prefer a Mandigo sized model for a one night stand and don't care about the size of the guy they love. Quality of work doesn't depend on using a bigger tool if the mechanic is clumsy.

[jacquesvol]

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[Bandit74]

@jacquesvol LOL I don't think many guys find it flattering to know their girlfriend normally preffers "mandingo" dicks but has settled for his in a relationship.

[Anno_Domini]

@jacquesvol I don't care how much she says she loves me, if I find it out that she wanted a Mandingo for a one night stand, then she can look elsewhere for someone to love. She will cheat on me.

[jacquesvol]

@Bandit74 Did I write they 'normally' prefer? An ONS is a one time thing.

[jacquesvol]

@Anno_Domini For an ONS both sexes want something different from what they're used to. That's very human.

[Anno_Domini]

@jacquesvol doesn't change the fact that she would cheat on me.

[Bandit74]

@jacquesvol One night stands and fwbs are a better representation of what they prefer. In relationships they are more likely to settle or compromise on things like penis size and physical attractiveness. A ONS is a singular occurrence with that specific individual, but you generally have more with other people.

[jacquesvol]

@Bandit74 Not necessarily what they prefer to live with. What they dream about because they have been looking at porn.

[popsickle]

Hmm... I don't know. it sounds like a negative term like drama queen is, but then I never understood why it was okay to be a boobs man, ass man, or legs man but not okay to be a size queen.

regardless idgaf just thinking out loud lol i dont fixate on private parts, to me, it comes with the package of a good guy i'd like to be with.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Boob/ass man doesn't refer to size or quality, etc, only which part they focus on.

[popsickle]

@AllThatSweetJazz But it DOES often refer to size or quality. Non sagging, particular color or size of areola/nipples, particular size or shape of breasts... you hear it all. I've actually never heard of a boob or ass man in the context of liking all boobs and all ass though maybe that exists too.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

I didn't say it refers to liking all boobs/ass. It's just the part they focus on. Liking telling someone what genre of music you like. I'm a metalhead, doesn't mean I like all metal. I'm a boob man, doesn't mean I like all boobs. The term doesn't specify if I want only the top 5% largest boobs or say the 5% smallest boobs and if I would be harsh to anyone would couldn't meet my extreme standard. Like, you can be a dick girl without being a size queen. (Dick girl is usually used to mean something else but I think you get what I mean here)

[popsickle]

@AllThatSweetJazz i am getting lost in what we're talking about. are we disagreeing or are you just adding on to my original comment?

[AllThatSweetJazz]

"I never understood why it was okay to be a boobs man, ass man, or legs man but not okay to be a size queen." I'm trying to help you sort this part out.

[popsickle]

@AllThatSweetJazz I guess it all depends on how strict an individual man or woman is on their preference genital/breasts. I have actually never known a size queen but quite regularly bump into men who are fixated on a certain female part. I did have one roommate who found it weird that the rest of us thought Asian guys are cute because she said they have small penises. She didn't say anything more than that and we just all stared at her like who cares/why did you say that. I think men objectify us on our bodies way more than woman objectify men on their bodies. Women tend to reduce men more on their careers/money so it's not like we're all saints.

[dominiquois]

WTF is everything now a derogatory slur? LOL. People need to lighten the hell up.
Me: the sky is blue
Stupid people: You dumb bitch you're being derogatory. Can't you see the sky is BABY blue? Gosh.
Me: O_O

[CHARismatic110]

I never heard of it being used by gay guys. And I think that guys in general make up the majority of these size queens since 90% of the time they're the main ones focusing on it.

[teawrecks]

It's been around for awhile now lol.

I think people who call others size queens are just insecure about their own dick size.

[somethingoingon]

yah thats why people call them that. wow.

[somethingoingon]

when a chick says i didn't feel my bfs 7 inch cock on my first time. its not insecurity. its reality.

[Anno_Domini]

@somethingoingon what this guy said. It's a very real thing with women.

[BambooforPanda]

other: laughing my fucking ass off

[Tdieseler]

I had a totally different definition in mind.

[orphan]

she the size of a queen size bed

[Tdieseler]

@orphan not even close.

[LaurenGrace]

Its not a bad term. I call myself a size/girth queen
I like my vagina to be stretched

[somebodysaycheese]

I've only heard gay men use the term size queen irl, So to me hearing non lgbt people say it is kinda odd.

[tupperware]

It's a pretty old term. I've never heard it applied to a gay guy, but I guess why not.

[abc3643]

Why is it "shaming" to be called a "size queen"? Gay men have been calling themselves queens for generations, so that's not a big deal and, jeez, what gay man doesn't like big meat? This is a non-issue... like calling a guy into asses like Kim Kardashian's being called an "ass man".

[xXiTacoXx]

It has been around for damn near ever.

[RexCatholicissimus]

About as much as "fuckboy", I suppose.

[rgb008]

Not derogatory.

[Octavius]

That's been around for awhile. I always heard it being associated just with girls who really like well endowed guys. From what I understood it wasn't a derogatory term mostly because most people I know who are size queens self proclaimed the title.

[JustinTheGreat]

I've heard that many times and i have never heard anyone use it in a shaming kind of way. Usually I hear people use it to refer to themselves

[Skadouchebag]

That term's been on here for quite a while.

[HeresJames1]

It's a term for a woman (mainly) who only fucks with big cock, and turns down any guy who has a cock that's not up to her standards. A lot of cuckoldress are size queens as well. It's not derogatory, it's just a label.

[NotTheFBI]

Derogatory? Nah, it's just something small penis guys say to girls who like some Mandingo or Peter North in their lives... (Oh boy I could hear them screaming internally from here while they sharpen their pitchforks)

It's a pretty old term... and silly to be honest... and to those who are probably typing a reply to me like an angry puppet from Sesame Street it's a joke... not a large penis... don't take it so hard :v

[Anno_Domini]

Sure, it's funny to you, because you are hung. Guys on the other end of the spectrum get rejected and humiliated regularly.

[Ray-S]

Depends on the context. You can use it as just a description or as a way of trying to shame someone, depending on how you say it.

But then it is only shaming to someone who cares what that person is saying.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Not new. I feel like it was initially it might have been just for gay guys, then adopted in a derogatory manner to refer to women perceived as superficial for their preference for unrealistic size. But people realized that you're still allowed to have these preferences as long as you're not a cunt about it, so size queen isn't really that derogatory anymore. I still think women would still get shit for trying to shame average sized guys - and rightly so, but people will probably use more terms than size queen to hammer home that point now.

It's kind of like bitch, some will self-identify as that and essentially act proud of it. Other times people will use it as an insult with a severity based on context.

[Becky01]

I have no Idea its the first time I have heard of it

[jjmarvin]

I think only if they're mean about it or if you're going out for a while and she still thinks it's more important, then yea it's messed up. But if you're straightforward and upfront but still nice i see no problem with not being someone's preference. I think most girls would weigh me against it favorably.

[COCOCHANEL]

i haven't heard it used in such context

[lolitalulz]

lolol.

[orphan]

looked it up on urbandictionary to see how old it is... originally referred to gay guys. lol

size queen
Uh, lets be clear about this. The whole "queen" lingo lexicon was created in the gay community. A size queen is a dude who digs the massively huge penis, forsaking all others. Any reference to a woman being a size queen is great, but a secondary definition.
Dennis has a small pee-pee and Bruce, the size queen she is, would never put up with that shit.
by dudedigger January 27, 2004