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Do you guys feel sorry for women?

I mean there are like so many things against them, that i kinda feel sorry for them. Like they have too deal with: 1. Periods and other stuff 2. they are physically weaker and tend to be more emotional 3. have to always fight to get their voice heard 4. defined by their looks and most times have to put way more effort than us guys 5. have to choose between career and home-life, like so few women can manage a balance between the two 6. Much harder to find a long term partner 7. So many women today never find love and end up single 8. their looks fade after a while 9. can't orgasm as easily as we can 10. Constantly struggling between being "feminine" and being "bossy" (like in leadership roles) 11. increasing rates of depression 12. tough lives being single and lonely 13. competition from other girls 14. judged on how their body looks by the media and people and much more :( i feel sorry for girls sometimes, man it sounds like a tough life.
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  • 1. Periods and other stuff- that means im fertile
    2. they are physically weaker and tend to be more emotional- emotions aren't bad and physical strength isn't everything
    3. have to always fight to get their voice heard- :/ my voice is pretty easily heard
    4. defined by their looks and most times have to put way more effort than us guys- not really, i'm not *defined* by my appearance unless the person is super shallow
    5. have to choose between career and home-life, like so few women can manage a balance between the two- BS i have a career and plan to take a break to take care of "home life" then go back to work when kids or older
    6. Much harder to find a long term partner- just as hard for men
    7. So many women today never find love and end up single- so do a bunch of guys
    8. their looks fade after a while- not our inner beauty tho ;) also a lot of us age well
    9. can't orgasm as easily as we can- true but when we do its 100000x better
    10. Constantly struggling between being "feminine" and being "bossy" (like in leadership roles)- im feminine and assertive, you can be both
    11. increasing rates of depression- that's a human issue in general, get meds
    12. tough lives being single and lonely- ?
    13. competition from other girls- guys get competition too
    14. judged on how their body looks by the media and people
    and much more - SO DO GUYS

    • You are right, but i still feel like the women around me have a tough time, like the guys in my office are cool and chilled and the girls look stressed as hell

    • tell them they need to chill, it's not because they're women maybe there's other factors

    • I will, but i feel something else is going on beneath the surface. Like us guys have an awesome time on weekends and most of the girls in this enitire block look like their about to pull their hair out. And one of the girls just has no time at all with her two kids and work and i try to help her out from time to time. i still feel sad tho, i wish girls looked a bit happier

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  • ya we women have it tough but men have it tough too!

    • yup, but i still feel as a guy its easier. Like the girls in my office are so stressed and have all these complex things going on in the background. They don't like they are happy

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  • sure its a hard hard life :P

    1. Biology and random hand of fate nothing we can do
    2. again biology in general terms if they wanna get stronger they can lift weights and discipline themselves emotional :)
    3. every one has to fight for their voices to be heard and taken serous that's the way of the world
    4. that's generally again females judging and giving beauty tips to other females through tier girly magazines and other forms of media such as " 10 steps to get your bad boy dream man" as a random made up example
    5. men have to also make similar choices in life also, its called sacrifice every one has to do it :P
    6. evidence needed for this claim
    7. well the back lash of the gender war :P
    8. age happens to us all :p
    9 evidence needed for this claim
    10 every boss both male and female is seen as bossy person
    11. evidence needed fro this claim
    12. part of life for men and women they will have to learn to survive :P
    13. males also compete with other males welcome to nature ::P
    14. again women judging other woman on how they look for the majority :P

    all done ! :D

    • thanks

  • Your list sounds like it takes a female point of view but it really doesn't.

    - Women don't mind being more emotional, many of them feel sorry for men "not being in touch with their emotions".

    - To be defined by your looks is not so bad if you have the looks, plus men are also stereotypically defined by genetic traits.

    - They really don't have to choose between a career and home life: dads can take care of kids too.

    - For every woman who doesn't find someone there's a man who also doesn't find someone since the population is 50/50 split.

    - Their orgasms are more intensive and last longer.

    - Men also constantly struggle between being alpha and being friendly.

    - Men face competition from other men all the time.

    - Men are judged/pressured by the media just the same.

    Women are not porcelain dolls and generally don't regret being born as girls.

    • i guess you are right too, it seems tho like its tougher for them

    • You said what I was trying to much better than I

    • Source that men are just as pressured as women by media?

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  • I feel sorry for me too 😞😔😪

    • i know, its tough for girls

    • :( Didn't expect you to say that :)

    • @HandsomeRaj Why not? Lol I feel sorry for me having. periods

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  • Women if set free will be much more awesome than guys which is why they've been controlled over the ages.

    A girl can seduce guys with one glance and have them dancing like marionettes while very few guys can do that.

    Their strengths far surpasses their 'weaknesses' - the weakness is only a cover for their strengths.

    Feel sorry? Learn to respect if not fear :)

    • hmmm, i guess me being born a male is crap.

    • In which case being born as anything is crap lol :)

  • Nope, I don't feel sorry for women. You would just as easy right a big long list of things like this about men. Women really don't have it any harder than men. They have different problems than men but men also have lots of major problems as well.

    • "write" not "right"

    • Also many of those things you have listed can be said about men to.

    • yea, you are right. I just seems girls in my area are so sad.

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  • Man you seem like a dull idiot. Yes being a woman is tough. So is being a man. So is fucking existing! Don't give women pity because they're women. Give PEOPLE pity because they need it or deserve it.

    • what are the bad parts of being a man?

    • @mistixs for one having testicles. Two having to put up with feminism constantly calling you scum fucking raping murderers because you were born with a penis, get short handed and underhanded in the legal system because you have a penis, getting fucked left right and sideways by divorce court... List goes on. Would you like me to continue or are you going to continue to challenge that being human fucking sucks?

  • Lol, it's ok man. It's not so bad. I enjoy being a woman.😊

  • It can suck sometimes, that's for sure lol

  • There's lots of equally crappy things guys have to deal with to. I see your point but some of these apply to guys also when you thing about it.

    • Can you list the bad things about being a guy?

    • @mistixs 6, 7, 8, 11, 12, & 13 (from other guys) and even 3, 5 & 14 can all be just as hard on/for guys. Periods and being more emotional I have no doubt sucks sometimes though lol. 9 & 10 I don't agree with. 9 - it can be just as hard for some guys and some women can orgasm very easily. 10 - is just a state of mind in my opinion. I don't get why it's a "struggle" I agree some women have a very hard time with it, but I don't understand why that is? In addition, guys have to deal with (I'm sure there's more but just off the top of my head); - constant rejection from most women - usually having a much higher sex drive, being "bombarded" with beautiful women daily everywhere we turn, the media, in person, everywhere and again in turn, being rejected - women generally expecting guys to not only make the first move (assume all the rejection risk), but if she says yes, plan the first date etc. Guys have all the same thoughts and insecurities women do usually but we're expected to...

    • ..."suck it up" or ignore them. - we aren't supposed to share thoughts or feelings generally as it's considered "weakness" - this is changing somewhat over time but very much still exists today, guys are expected to be the main provider financially which is a lot of pressure, especially these days and how times have changed with wages and the cost of living.

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  • Trust me when i say this periods suck

  • Studies have shown that some in the workplace find it more stressful, especially the further up they go. More women are on anti-depressants now than ever, now that more women are working. Perhaps they aren't suited to working like men. But even then, men kill themselves at 4x the rate of women, surely if women had it that much harder it would be the other way around?

    • Most studies find that stay-at-home wives are actually more stressed than working moms.

  • I don't.

    Women where I am (USA) are adults with responsibilities, just like men. They have the exact same rights.
    There is no wage gap. That has been debunked a million and one times.
    Women get more college degrees than men these days.
    Women have lucrative careers, just like men.

    Women still have favorable treatment over men in certain instances.
    e. g. no selective service upon turning 18.
    e. g. women-only gyms, women-only cab services, women-only passenger cars.
    e. g. ladies' night at bars and clubs (total BS in my opinion).
    e. g. men have to pay for dates.
    e. g. women are treated a lot nicer in family courts (alimony, child support, divorce settlements)
    e. g. domestic violence against women gets way more media coverage than men, despite men being 40% of the victims.

    Women have it pretty good here.

    Men lose much more in divorce. Almost always.
    Men do the more grueling, dangerous jobs. They are responsible for most workplace deaths.
    Men commit suicide more than women. But where's the media attention?
    Men are guilty until proven innocent in false rape accusations (the woman is automatically believed)
    Men suffer from paternity fraud, raising and paying for a child that is not his, and the woman is hardly punished.
    A man is expected to work his way to wealth or else he is a loser. A woman can choose to work, or just marry a man with money and not work at all, and still live comfortably.
    If a man and a woman are arrested for the same crime, generally the man is locked up for longer.

    That's enough examples, I think. Women have it pretty good here. Cut the men some slack, will ya?

    • Yea, i guess you are right. thanks man.

    • "e. g. women-only gyms, women-only cab services, women-only passenger cars." Because men sexually harass women in mixed-settings? "e. g. men have to pay for dates." Yes, but women pay more expenses overall (menstrual products, gyno appt, bras, etc) so men paying for dates only serves to help balance that out. "Women get more college degrees than men these days." This is because men have the PRIVILEGE of being able to get high-paying jobs without having to spend sleepless nights studying, doing work, getting in tons of debt, to get a college degree. As for your other points, MOST men aren't victims of any of that. MOST men don't do grueling jobs, MOST men don't commit suicide, MOST men don't get arrested, etc. In contrast to the disadvantages of being a woman (childbirth, periods, etc) which affect almost ALL women.

  • Sorry? no they were born women why should anyone be soryy cause a woman was born a woman that doesn't make since, emphathetic... yes sometimes i can understand what theyre going through so i decide to not give them more shit than they already have, but these days its even harder to feel "sorry" for women, the way they act and talk, and their dating habits, its just one big mess and sometimes i can't even bring myself to care alltogether, if you've seen some of the shit i've seen women do, bro you'd feel sorry for me lol.

    Do i want women hurt? no and if i can stop it i wll, but one simple fact remains, women are changing and soon it will be hard to have the same feelings for them as before.

    • i see what you mean, thanks

    • you're weclome i was just being honest.

    • I agree. I have no mercy for the trashy females I see these days. But I also know that is not every female, possibly no even the majority. Just here in my little corner of the world

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  • No, not even a little bit.
    The deck has been stacked so comprehensively in favour of women in Western civilisation that men are beginning to withdraw from interaction with women.
    See:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwPFnvniA7w

  • I really dont think women want us to feel sorry for them. Mainly because yes they have crap do deal with, but men have just as much and it is just as bad.

    • What are the bad things that men experience?

    • @mistixs - More likely to die at our job - More likely to get hurt at our job - More likely to experience violent crime - More likely to be robbed - More likely to be killed - Our vehicle insurance is higher - Men who are victims of violence are ridiculed so in most cases never come forward - Its generally expected of us to pay for everything, and be the primary bread winners. - We are objectified in media (see men's clothing models amongst others) - When it comes to divorce and child custody we always get the short end of the stick. Personal experience on that. I was given to my drug addicted, violent narcissistic sociopath of a mom over my dad when i was a child. - We by and large the ones that pay the most child support, and alimony.

    • @mistixs - Another good example is some years ago i broke my shoulder and arm, and i wasn't going to be able to work for about a year. I applied for temporary disability, The social worker (Woman BTW) Literally asked me " Are you pregnant? Do you have a vagina? If you answer no to any of those then we aren't interested in helping you." - More shelters exist for female victims of domestic violence, and when they attempt to open one they get protested so badly that they have to shut their doors. I should know i was a victim of domestic violence - Men are always seen as at fault when domestic abuse happens. When my ex hit me in the face with a pool cue with a nail in it (requiring 45 stitches leaving me bleeding so badly it almost killed me) absolutely nothing happened to her, and i pressed charges. I was the one taken to jail. Do you want more?

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  • I do respect every women until she is good for me

  • They have the world and are shot callers pretty much I have no reason to feel sorry for them. They can get what they want most of the time

  • sure do..

    i feel sorry they have to deal w/ people like me.. lol

  • That's probably not such big headache for Western women... Women in the West have it infinitely better than their counterparts elsewhere, which is good. But yeah... In places like Syria and Saudi Arabia... Yeah, a lot needs to change

  • Are you serious

    • yea, why?

    • It's a long list of insults, lol, brilliant

    • sorry man, i didn't mean it that way at all

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  • yeah i do feel sorry for them specially on the periods part.

  • no lol You must be living in a shell

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