French kissing is only as important as it is to the individuals in the couple.
I, for example, love french kissing or making out, so kissing would be more important to myself in a relationship in comparison to how your boyfriend would see it. Everyone expresses themselves and prefers to receive love and affection in different ways.
Don't be anxious about your virginity, either. There's really nothing about that which should make you nervous. You already know that your boyfriend is willing to wait till you're ready, and if he ever makes you feel pressured into doing something that you're not comfortable with, you'd know he's not a good match for you in the first place.
It doesn't matter how long into sex other couples have had sex, as everyone's different. I slept with my boyfriend as well as kissed him for the first time after we'd been together for a month. Then again, we knew each other since high school so... yeah. Everyone's different.
Just enjoy being with your boyfriend, doing whatever you two enjoy best, and it'll happen on it's own. :)1 0 0 0
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I don't really care for "french kissing" it's over-rated IMHO. I only french kiss when giving Oral;-) I actually prefer her kissing my neck than my lips... it just drives me crazy.
As for sex... it varies from the person to person and if it's a quickie or a romantic session. Since your a virgin... it will probably be cut short by your discomfort/pain. Masturbating will help you get use to the sensation and if you have a dildo/toy it will help you get use to the size/pressure. It can be <5min if you get him very excited and he can't control himself. It can be an hour+ (foreplay and sex) if he takes his time and paces himself.
You shouldn't think of, you not being ready... as an inconsideration to him. If he loves you.. he won't pressure you or make you feel like your being a tease. Only selfish guys that don't care about the girl... do that. If he loves you.. just being near you-seeing, kissing, caressing would mean the world... and he'll be ok with waiting.0 0 0 0A french kiss is usually reserved for when you're gonna get it on, otherwise it's a bit much. I dig it but if I had a girlfriend who hated it I'd have to learn to live without it. It depends on the people when it comes to how long it takes to bang. Some girls are selective and want to be able to trust you and bond with you before they decide it's time to let you have your freedom with them, others don't seem that bothered. If a guy really likes you he'll wait as long as it takes, as long as it'll happen one day! lol
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0 1No act, French kissing, intromissive sex, oral sex, etc. Is important, except as it affects the couple. If you're not ready for sex and he is OK with that, then that's fine. What works for your friends may not work for you and vice versa.
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