My boyfriend doesn't like blowjobs?

Question

My boyfriend told me two weeks ago that blowjobs just don't do it for him. He said he's pick handjobs over blowjobs any day and that he likes doing stuff sexually that'll get his heart racing and blowjobs just don't do that for him. 

I've never given him a blowjob before (yet, anyway) and I'm just wondering is there anything I can do that can get him excited about it? I love giving head and I'm a little disappointed that he's told me he doesn't really enjoy it :/ Are there any other guys that think this way?

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

Perhaps he'll let you enjoy sucking his cock if you finish him off with a hand job? I mean having his cock sucked may not exactly "do it" for him, but is it going to hurt him to allow you to do it in order to please you? Ask him if he can compromise and indulge you / let you satisfy your desire in exchange for you satisfying his desire later or some other time.

Zendrya · Accepted Answer

You could just ask him if he would be okay with you trying it and if he is great try but if he doesn't like it there is nothing you can do about it.

Hannahcakes · Accepted Answer

Out just his head in your mouth but still stroke him with your hand. He will love that

staleyseaofsorrow · Accepted Answer

Maybe if you tell him you're really good at it and that you like it, you can somehow nicely convince him to let you try it, then he might end up liking it/liking it more. It probably depends on whether or not he dislikes it in general, or just didn't enjoy it whenever he got it previously.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Maybe you'll find a tip or clue in here that'll change the field:

i1T2daty · Answer

In your particular case I can't understand why he wouldn't like BJs. If that's your pic, there is something special about long haired (and hot) girls giving me head. I love the way their hair feels brushing my thighs while their hot, wet mouth is sucking on the head if my hard cock

NJ_Casanova · Answer

He probably had bad experiences... Teeth, etc. Does he have above average girth.. if so that's probably why. Also what a girl thinks would feel good can sometimes "not line up with what we think". I have only gotten 1 good BJ, and prefer skipping it and getting straight to the sex.

GnarCute · Answer

let it go if he doesn't like it dont enforce it on him

chintita · Answer

then give him handjobs, people are different!

Sovereignty · Answer

I used to range from strongly dislike to indifferent when it came to blowjobs.

Most girls simply give really shitty blowjobs. I've only ever had a handful of good ones and they were all from the same girl.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

sucks to be you if you like sucking dick

langolier87 · Answer

he very well may have not had an actually good blowjob.
i know women that like giving head and i just dont enjoy it from them because they are not good at doing it. if every blowjob that i ever got was like the last one that i got then i would have to agree with your boyfriend.

reptocarl · Answer

They don't do much for me either but I know it's important to some women for their satisfaction so I let them do it but me cumming from it is rare. Just tell him you like doing it and it's important to you

0112358 · Answer

From a sensation standpoint, i get more out of handjobs. Maybe i've never had a great blowjob.

From an arousal standpoint, i really like the fact its her mouth and my penis. That's the main reason i want them sometimes.

What I like least about bj is sitting back relaxed while she slowly makes me feel good. Yeah sure, that feels good. But i want to be more active. Thrusting into her mouth in a dominant position definitely 'gets my heart racing' more.

RaggaMon · Answer

Maybe he's only ever had crap head. Tell him you enjoy doing it and it turns you on, hopefully he'll agree and you can open his eyes!

AidenBlue · Answer

Wow. I could not be more opposite. Lol. There are guys like this that don't enjoy and girls who hate to give them. That 10% should get together and let the other 90% go have a good time! :-)

Casstiel · Answer

Nope I'm burning for handjob. Its about the peoples sex character ( not gender 😆 )

rufurrealz · Answer

so, you love giving head?

blackcyborg · Answer

I'm guessing that in terms of motion speed, the hand is faster (?)

MakeShiftThug · Answer

I ain't judging but why would anyone want to put a penis in their mouth?  If he don't like it, he don't like it unless you convice him otherwise through persuasion.

HGStebbins · Answer

He's weird...

slimstiffy · Answer

Some guys dont want their girls to give them bjs. Also if you really want to be with this guy it may be better not to tell him you like giving bjs. Maybe you should find something else where yiu both are sexually compatible at.