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Is getting a nude massage cheating?

Thats about it. Is it cheating to receive a nude massage from someone of the opposite sex? I'm asking because this week I have a spa session including waxing, a coconut body scrub and massage. I asked when booking if I'm naked the whole time and the answer is yes. Having a Brazilian wax so obviously I'm naked then a full body scrub.. again naked then a massage. My girlfriend doesn't know about it. I don't usually go into details about my "personal" services.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Are you doing it to receive sexual satisfaction from the spa people? I'm assuming not. Is going to the doctor and getting a prostrate exam cheating? No, of course not. These are health and wellness services that are not related to seeking sexual satisfaction from someone other than your partner.

    If the reason you were doing was because you found it erotic or a turn on, then that I would consider cheating.

  • Why don't you just tell her about it? I feel like because these are professional services they wouldn't be considered as such, but at the same time if you're worried about it doesn't that say something to you?

  • LOL. You think you're girlfriend isn't going to notice that your pubes are missing? Are you gonna tell her a dude did it?

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    • She knows I get waxed but the body scrub & massage are new services..

    • Bro... you're obviously getting some sort of sexual kicks out of this scenario, so... in effect, that is "cheating" in that you're getting sexual pleasure from another female's touch (and/or seeing your junk) - that your girlfriend is unaware of.

    • Howdy there! :P

Most Helpful Guys

  • As long as the massage therapist is a certified, licensed professional, and it's a reputable business, then I don't think that's cheating. The professionals who do those services see bodies all day every day. It's really no different from a man being examined by a female doctor. It's not a sexual thing.

    • thanks for MH Guy opinion!

  • If you get a happy ending YES... but professional massages are usually done naked so unless she doesn't know about how massages work... I wouldn't mention it. Sounds like to me you would mess it up with your guilt that you shouldn't be having in the first place.

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  • unless its not your ding-a-ling getting a massage, i don't see how that could be cheating. if you want to take the edge off, you can just ask her to massage you.

  • If it's something you normally do and nothing sexual became of it then you should tell her about you getting a massage.

    My wife wouldn't see it as cheating, but she wouldn't like and it and wouldn't be comfortable with me going for that.

  • It is if you pay the extra $20!

  • Would she be okay with everything if she was invited to observe? If so, then you are not cheating. Otherwise. . .

  • No, it's not cheating.

  • If it was cheating to get a brazilian, there is a lot of women who would suddenly become cheaters...

  • They have all the privates covered, so unless you get an "extra" servicing... no.

  • You should tell your girlfriend. If your girlfriend wants to accompany you while you're there, you should let her.

  • If it includes a happy ending

  • We can't answer this question... Only your girlfriend can. Ask her.

  • Only if you did something sexual with your massage person too.

  • Getting a massage from a professional massage therapist isn't cheating 😑

  • Different people will perceive it differently.

    It's better to check with your partner first.

    Also ask yourself if you would be bothered if your girlfriend had a guy robbing his hands all over her naked body?

  • If its done by a professional and solely for the reasons of a spa aka massaging everywhere except for erotic zones - then no.

    I still can understand why a partner wouldn't like it if its done by the opposite sex for obvious reasons.

  • Dude--the only person on this earth who can answer that question is your girlfriend.

  • I would consider that cheating and I would dump your ass.

  • It's not cheating but how would you feel if it was her getting a naked massage from a guy?

  • I don't think so.

  • Nope.

  • just tell her

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