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How do I know he ejaculated? Is he trying to trap me?

Me and my long time friends with benefits ex boyfriend we have sex and he usually pulls out but there has been 3 times I was unsure one I asked him did he pull out he HESITATED to answer me then said "It wouldn't move I was gonna tell you to take a plan B "(this was 6or 7days later) and we messed around that day too and i had to ask him (feel like he had no intentions of telling me I think because we had not been very close for a while and had other gf/bf) 2nd time he nodded yes but kinda uncertain he said "it be hard to pull out you know" we had sex early in the day And it was crazy he was so dominate and passionate for bout an hr I think he came but I don't know if he pulled out he can have multiple orgasms and keep going I did she little stains on the sheets but I didn't really examine it. We had sex again all that night I'm usually very wet so I don't know if he did cum inside me once again he was very very passionate til I was so tired he just took over and took his time with me. He did get up once he had a small towel but I didn't notice anything. He was slowing down and moaning and at one point I felt his body jerk slightly as if he did came but he stopped for a few seconds n kept going he never really pulled out he slipped out a few times because of our positions but he always went rite back in usually I can't feel the cum if he pulls out sometimes in the past I've actually felt it as he went back in. what do you guys think he came and kept going trying to get me pregnant? Or maybe he didn't cum at all?
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I felt him pull out & cum the most recent time he came about 3times the reactions and sounds body movements were exactly the same as the times in question. #1 I just stopped the pill after a few months they make me feel sick. far as him trying to get me pregnant only reason would be him trying to keep me to himself because we both moved on 1.5 years but we are close so we never lose contact
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  • I think that you should stop it! Do you want to get pregnant? (Do I want to pay for it?) I'm guessing No! And if you have to ask, then yeah, it could be bad! What about just telling him wear a condom and perhaps some birth control pills or a needle-full of Depo? You're 27! I mean come-on. You know he doesn't have to cum to get you pregnant. Less likely, maybe, but uhmm... don't let him in unless he is willing to accept your terms. Period. How is there a problem? (I mean unless it's too late? but if you get lucky, then don't roll the dice anymore!) And perhaps getting rid of ejacu-trap boy would be wise. I mean what's with the silence and hesitation, then waiting to tell you get Plan-B like a week later! But why should he stop, you just say you keep going after you wonder if he came inside of you... Then what, like ten more rounds! Do you see how that might be so intelligent? Perhaps a little frustrating to hear about! Yes no question you could be pregnant, absolutely. I can't say if he did it on purpose or more ignorantly, but If your religious pray, if not, hope!

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    • OK, read. You're descriptions are all very good and well, but I don't really know what they are supposed to do to help me answer you any better. You NEED to use some REAL form of birth control! There are many different option, several forms of the pill are available or an injection of Depo-Provera or a similar longer acting compound may not make you feel sick. There are plenty of option, but should none be right, at least use a condom 100% of the time - pulling-out is fine if you really don't care so much about pregnancy! And I'll repeat this, he does not have to cum to get you pregnant - do you understand that? If you don't believe me go ahead and give him 1/2 a handy, then rub a slide on the top of his boner and shove it under a microscope... And no, what you'd be looking at are not tadpoles! And the whole wiping his junk of with a towel, that's seriously what he does (at best) then you two are at it again? Yeah, you're not gonna get pregnant! Right!

    • So when you ignore what I'm telling you, please be sure to let him know he was not an "accident", okay? And as to What does it mean about your boy-toy/ex/fuckboy/friend-w/benefits, No one is going to be able to know reasonably what his reasons are for anything, but I can tell you that he either is tricking/manipulating you in some way, or he isn't really all so concerned about you, or else he's just is kinda thickheaded. I can't tell you which one is true, but do any of these options sound like a good father? (I should be more clear, the answer is "No!")

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  • Okay first off yeah he totally came in you like you need to deffinatly be weary of getting pregnant if you are on the pill ods are your good but still if three weeks come by just duble check with a test to make sure.

    • So the pill makes you sick tell your doctor because here are other options you should know about for example an IUD which is a small device that's put in.

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  • If you don't think he is being honest and respecting your body, DO NOT CONTINUE. Why would you risk it with a guy you aren't dating and who isn't concerned about ensuring you don't get pregnant. You're the one who has to deal with it, so if you keep going, it's on you.

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  • why do u think we cum on that stomach of yours?

    evidence.

    • Evidence? Sounds like a reason that it should be avoided! Stomach acid destroys evidence...

    • @smell-my-fingers hahaahah

  • Hate to say it but you been cream pied all over them walls of yours.

  • Did you get pregnant from him?

  • I think he never had any orgasm but was all faking them.

    • Well the most recent time I wasn't into it so he came kinda fast and I felt it when he pulled out also it was the same exact body movements and sounds but this time I felt it when he pulled out the other times in question he didn't really pull out unless our position was off n slipped out

    • Why do you think he faked it? He has never been the moaning type he barely make many sounds unless he's close

  • Why would he try to get you pregnant... He'd be the one paying child support for 18 years... makes no sense.

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  • I just don't understand, condoms really don't make that much of a difference but if you hate them, why not just go bareback with the pill?

    Are pills expensive?

    • I started the pill in February then I got off 2months ago they make me feel sick

    • Will your doctor prescribe a different type, or brand? My girlfriend has a pussy-plug LOL, I think it's properly called an IUD though.

  • Why aren't you making him wear a condom?

    Or maybe you should start taking the pill?

    • I was on the pill but they make me feel sick so I stopped

    • Then condoms sweetie. Safety is everyone's responsibility.

  • It sounds like he is trying to knock you up. Maybe he just really wants kids and does not want to talk to you about it?

  • Congrats on being mom soon :)

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