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What Do You Want The First Time You Have Sex With A New Partner?

What Do You Want The First Time You Have Sex With A New Partner?
You have been dating for long enough that you finally feel ready to take the plunge. Tonight is the night! Maybe you will have a few drinks to relax and take the edge off of the nerves that you're feeling. Then, you'll start making out, groping, getting aroused, and one of you will say, "Why don't we get in bed where we'll be more comfortable?"

It's now or never! You've never seen each other naked but you know, obviously, that each of you is attracted to the other, so. . . when you get in bed, what do you want to do? Get it finished as quickly as possible? Have a very leisurely three hour naked romp under the sheets? Show off how many different positions you can do in one session?

Maybe you are nervous and worried. Will he laugh when he sees my tiny boobs? Will she be disappointed with my wee willy? I can't let him see my butt; it's so big! What if he wants to do 69 and he sees my back door?

Are you driven by fears and insecurities or is this an opportunity to perform and show your partner what a great lover you are?
I want some foreplay with hands, then missionary position, in the dark. Let's get this over with a minimum of embarrassment!
Vote A
Give me some foreplay with hands, then doggy style position for maximum penetration. . . in the dark so he can't see my behind!
Vote B
I'm hoping for lots of oral sex, but we'll do each other one at a time, then we'll have some penis-in-vagina sex
Vote C
Relax me with a full body massage/worship, front and back, followed by penis-in-vagina sex
Vote D
Leave the lights on for lots of oral followed by numerous positions - like a tryout for the sexual Olympics team
Vote E
Please! Give me something wild and kinky - light bondage, anal sex, licking food off of body parts. I hope he/she accepts me for being the freak that I am!
Vote F
I demand rough sex - spanking, hard pounding, make me your slut! Be my slut, bitch!
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • kinky sex. Ideally, I'd like her to suck my cock like she's slowly trying to escalate the depth, hoping against hope that I don't get put off by her gagging sounds. I'd like her to hesitantly ask for anal like she's crossing her fingers hoping I don't think it's gross, because she needs it. Often. I want her to look at and play with my cock after I cum in her ass, touching it, desperate to suck it, but unsure of if I'd be grossed out about it. I'd playfully grab her by the hair and pull her towards my cock. Her immediate reaction would be resistance, just because it's unexpected, but a fraction of a moment later she would become conscious of what I'm doing and give in. I would push her less hard, unsure if she's really okay with this, but she would continue to approach my cock with her salivating mouth. I would rub the leaking sperm on her lips and push it onto her tongue. I'd tell her to suck that dick, and she would.

    If this happened to me, I think I'd have to call a priest and gather some witnesses for a wedding, because I'm not letter her out of my sight.

  • What do i want? to make a good impression, certain actions, touches, and multiple orgasms tend to do that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I want soft and gentle sex for my first time. LOTS of kissing and grinding our bodies together. A few Star Wars or video game jokes to make sure we're both comfortable with each other in our marriage bed, Then we'll do stuff😁

    I'd be specific but someone would probably report my post😒

  • First time I'm able to have physical sex with my LDR boyfriend. I'm not planning anything and it's what ever first pops into our heads. Since I'm going to be extremely happy about finally seeing and touching him. I won't be thinking about what kind of kinky stuff we should do.

  • Foreplay is a must…as long as he wants (the longer the better for me). With the actual deed I don’t hold high expectations realizing the guys have different levels tolerance in new relationships. I just hope that there is no embarrassment for either of us.

  • between F and G

    • Where were you when I was 21? Oh yeah, you were probably waiting for your parents to be born, or to get out of diapers. Oh well! :)

    • Hahaa Pity isn t it

    • Yes. I am already taken! You'll need to find someone else! (Lucky guy!)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If it's someone I've been dating and really have feelings for then none of these options. Foreplay, a very leisurely three hour naked romp under the sheets with all sorts of poistions but mainly missonary with lights off then cuddles after.

  • Start off smooth but get rough and kinky and treat me like a bitch and slut

  • (laughing)
    Vote G WITH bonus edge play, although I would never demand anything.

    This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^fyi, is super, super, super RARE x 100000000000.

  • I love giving oral, and I love the lights on.

  • I want someone highly kink and raunchy.

  • Some sex.

  • I just want to lay in bed naked and cuddle. dont care about sex at this stage in my life.

    • Dude! I'm 61 and I still care about sex. I don't think I am exceptional; I think most guys my age still want to do the bump and hump on a regular basis. What's the problem?

    • inbox you...

  • Probably E.

  • I want to fuck his brains out, cowgirl position ;)

    • I like a girl who knows what she wants!

  • I prefer dominant girls, therefore, I would like her to be rough on me ;)

  • I like missionary because I get off easy, not to get sex over with. Doggystyle can fun rarely stimulates all the right places - it's not all about the dude being balls deep for us!

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