Is this usual fuck buddy behaviour for a guy?

After 3 years of being single (I'm in my early 30s), I went online and started chatting to a guy who was looking for a FWB/**** buddy situation with the possibility of something more serious if it went that way. I had good vibes off him so we agreed to meet at a hotel to do the deed. He texted me when outside to say he was going to be up to pounce on me, rip my clothes off (we'd had a lot of dirty talk) What ended up happening was that we talked for four hours first, drinking and laughing, and seemed to click/bond - shared interests, music, films, life etc. I was thinking he didn't want sex as I figured we should have got down to it by now. He told me all about his life and how his past relationships hadn't worked out. At this point I was thinking I might either be a sounding board for his issues or someone he genuinely wanted to share this stuff with. He said he thought I was a really cool person and I said the same thing as he was pretty awesome. We ended up having sex all night long (best sex of my life to be honest) and talked and laughed or slept in parts throughout. I think we both had fun (I know I did and he seemed to). He then said he wasn't free next week but the week after if I wanted to hook up would be good. We left it at that. (he has a daughter and family responsibilities and we had never discussed a schedule - probably as I wasn't sure if this was a one-off.) It is my first foray into FWB/**** Buddies so I wanted to know: - Is this typical behaviour? (I was assuming it would be banging and gone no talking - there seemed to be some feelings, and passionate kissing a lot which I thought didn't happen with just sex deals.) - Do I text him first to meet again or wait for him to initiate? Or even text him to say I had fun/thank you for the orgasms. - Would you usually tell a fuck buddy your life story? Any advice would be welcomed as I want to tread carefully if feelings involved or it's not quite as I see it!
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Thanks for all the answers guys. I ended up texting him last night so say thanks for the amazing sex and that I had finally recovered. He sent one back saying that he enjoyed getting to know me and that I was a fantastic girl. Can't decide if that's a "you're a fantastic girl but you will never see me again" or something else. I hate my brain needing to analyse stuff!
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  • He's clearly a guy who isn't your stereotypical friends with benefits. He wants an emotional connection before he has sex. I'm the same way. I'd text him that you had a super time and that you look forward to hearing from him soon about next time so you can be sure to keep your busy schedule free.

    • Thanks for the MHG! What's the plan?

    • I texted to say thank you for the vigorous fucking and joked about only just recovering. Kept it light and fun - hopefully. He replied and said he really enjoyed getting to know me and that I'm a fantastic girl. Can't decide if that's a "this was a one off" blow off or if I just take it as he said it. I said I had a great time too getting to know him. I've not texted him since and it's gone quiet. Who knows what will happen next!

    • Whatever happens needs to come from him, IMHO.

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  • its not friends with benefits thing he is looking for relationship

Most Helpful Girl

  • lets wish for something more to happen on the way... at this age it is usually to find somewhere who can touch your feelings, and to share life with,, so why not?,

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  • Well, you might have found a soulmate.

  • He got dem feelz.