What should I do if my girlfriend wants to become a sex worker?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend asked me the other day what I thought of her being a sexworker or escort to make extra money on the side. I told her that I hated the idea and that I didn't want her to get hurt and plus I don't want a girlfriend of mine to be into something like that. She kinda gave me the speech that it's her body and she could do what she wants. My girlfriend is attractive and I don't know what to do anymore. I've been with her for over six years and she's the mother to my 2 year old daughter, I really love her but I don't know if I can handle somebody else making love to my girl. She said she doesn't like the idea but it's one way she can make a lot of money. I don't know she has me really confused, I know before I was with her she was a big slut in highschool she fucked like 12 guys her senior year but that never bothered me cuz I had her get tested and she was clean but now this is different. Please Help? This is her just to give an idea.

[HandsomeRaj]

1. You didn't need to post a body pic of her or anyone for this question
2. Whether she wants to be a sex worker or otherwise is her decision
3. Since she's asked you it means that she's made up her mind but since you are the formal boyfriend she's asking you for consent - you don't have a choice there (most likely)
4. You are free to say a no to her and get out of the relationship if she persists on going ahead
5. On the other hand she thinks being an escort of sex worker is a cake walk - she's highly mistaken. There are many things that can happen to her
5.1. For one she doesn't have a choice in who she bones
5.2. Once in the trade there is scarcely an out
5.3. No guarantee she'll be treated well by all her clients - she's just an object they've paid for gratification
5.4. Not every client is going to respect her as a human being
5.5. STD etc is common even if condoms are used while once naked in inside a chamber with a man (who is generally more powerful physically than a woman), she can't force him to wear one if he doesn't want to
5.6. No guarantee her client isn't a psycho of sorts
etc

[HandsomeRaj]

Thank you again GAG for the MHO :) <3 very much appreciated :)

[AustinMan]

She needs to consider the potential impact on your daughter. What if she gets arrested or contracts an STD? Get a second job and help her brainstorm on a safe, legal way make more money. Could she model?

[AustinMan]

That pic's not her, right?

[Sara413]

Perfectly reasonable to not be OK with that!! There are plenty of other ways she can make extra cash that don't involve putting her health and safety at risk. Otherwise to mention, I'd consider it infidelity and disrespectful of your relationship.

She's a good looking woman, she can make lots of cash serving tables or bartending. If she is dead set of some kind of sex work, maybe compromise on stripping?

[Cmasterson]

I mean I think she would do great, however she has a family and you guys aren't needing that as a last resort so I don't see why she has to do it, and if she does obviously you don't agree with it so you can't be supportive.

[chintita]

let the hoe go but try and reason with her first. being a sex worker isn't a great job, if she wants money then there's a million other things she can do that won't put her in harms way.

[Ginnyweasley97]

You need to talk her out of this. Once she starts there is no turning back.

[Junlian]

She's not ready to settle down or your not satisfying her enough. You can't force her. Gotta be a man ( like you are now) and tell her no, fuck awe, why does that given come cross your mind? But get ready though she might be lookin to cheat on you.

[TadCurious]

You just need to let her know in no uncertain terms that you won't stay with her if she does that, and that you'll file for custody of your child. A family court judge probably won't look very kindly on her choosing to be a sex worker, and if you are granted custody she will have a child support obligation. Your girlfriend is right: She can do with her body what she pleases. But if she becomes a sex worker that will have consequences. There's no way you should even think of putting up with that.

[Bandit74]

That's why you don't marry girls who used to be sluts in HS :p

[Protagoras]

Pretty tough situation, you have to keep reiterating her to the dangers of what she could get herself into and explain how it'll damage your relationship, otherwise you might just have to leave her.

[FakeName123]

Breakup and run. Especially if she says selfish things like "She kinda gave me the speech that it's her body and she could do what she wants."

[tyber1]

It's true that it's her body and she can do what she wants with it but it should be obvious that having sex with other men is cheating and you don't have to put up with that. If she cheats, you leave, no exceptions.

[Negrodamuss]

are you guys struggling for cash? I'd be against it too. Its her body yes, but she's naive if she thinks that this wouldn't be a problem for you, and if she actually loves/respects you, she won't do it. You might have stuck your dick in the wrong woman quite frankly

[slimstiffy]

Another story from another poor fella who wifed up the town bike. Im all out of sympathy for this stuff man. She should never have the guts to even suggest such a thing. If she does , that means she thinks you have no balls. Tell her to either abide by your rules or gtfo. And make sure your daughter doesn't grow up to be a bitch like her.

[bcromartie]

Well, I got my dose of "fucked up" for the day. Thanks for that!

[jakeofalltrades]

tell her to get a job, a regular one

[MrExtremely2Kinky]

Let her do it... It's hot having a slut for a girlfriend

[abc--123]

I'd pay to fuck those titties

[Anonymous]

Dump her

[Anonymous]

Seer this is why your should be with lose charactered sluts/ bitches... Or ever marry them !
Your are a idiot.. When you knew they she had fucked 12 guys your should have never gone for anything serious with this girl...

I mean either you are a troll or your are an idiot

[Anonymous]

Someone else is gonna be tapping that soon