Would you rather be the little spoon or the big spoon?

Question

If you had a choice and no one would judge you for it, would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon in bed with your partner?

Curmudgeon · Accepted Answer

I am 6 foot 5 inches tall. I have to be the big spoon.

The only problem with spooning is making sure that her pillow is high enough so that when I put my right (or left) arm under her neck, the circulation is not cut off. This also applies to sleeping in each other's arms. Call it The Fourth Arm Problem.

Melcart23 · Accepted Answer

It would be kinda hard for me to find a woman big enough to be a big spoon with me lol

XRabbitHeartX · Accepted Answer

I like to be the small spoon mostly but when me and my boyfriend are actually going to sleep I like to cuddle him instead. But before and after sleep cuddling, I want to be the smaller spoon :)

BlueEyedHipsta · Accepted Answer

When I spoon my boyfriend I get a facefull of back, he likes it sometimes though but I much prefer being the little spoon.

WpCurious · Accepted Answer

I'd rather be the little spoon... because well i'm pretty petite.

cheapshotbob · Answer

little spoon since i dont think girls taller would notice notice me.

dogbert444 · Answer

I'm a big table spoon. My ideal lady would be a teaspoon. So that's how we'd be. Cuddling my little teaspoon... :-)

luvstoned4him · Answer

A big spoon

fauchelevent · Answer

I prefer being the little spoon. I like having him curled around me. Obviously being big spoon is great too and switching up is awesome, like I was big spoon this morning and it was so good, but being 5'2 and him being 6'0, it's kinda hilarious :P