If you're not ready to put your hand on his penis/balls yet you can still touch him really low on his belly or on the inside of his thigh. Also reach around and touch his lower back, almost down to where his butt crack would start. Of course touch his chest too. All of these things are warm ups for when you actually feel comfortable touching his penis.
I did that to a guy once, (right below his belly) and he said that it was so hot that i teased him.
I didn't realize you were just 16. The pink Anonymous icon said you were 18-24. I don't comment on these kinds of questions where I know the asker is a minor.
let him feel you up a little. If you start rubbing his dick through his pants that is giving him the green light to go farther then you want to go. Unless your fine giving him a hand job or blowjob?
I find brushing my body up against his or my fingers through his hair or squeezing him and digging my nails in a tiny bit works... or simply kissing his neck and gasping quietly when he kisses mine so he hears it...
I also nibble his bottom lip...
Pull him really close to you when you kiss him, hug him tight and run your fingers through his hair. Touch his chest and stroke his back. Kiss his neck and nibble his ear.
Or, you know, just touch/grab/stroke/massage his dick.
I'm sure if he's making out w/you he is turned on. I'm confused tho, why do you want to turn him on more if you don't want to go any further with him? that seems kinda mean.
i agree with this.
@anonman32 because I feel like he's not having much pleasure as other boys and to get things in order
I'm not sure getting him turned on more is going to give him more pleasure. Sex will. I'm not saying you should do anything you're not ready to but if you turn him in too much, he may not want to or be able to stop at your limits.
... you don't turn him on while making out if you don't want to touch or stimulate his dick in any way to get him to finish.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Touch all around his penis, thighs and stomach. I like to just caress around the waist of this pants, going in just a couple inches. Also, just moving around on top of him will work. Things that turn you on will do the same for him.
Grab his crotch - simple. :P
HUH? Making out should turn him on.
I think just the making out part will likely turn him on enough. Maybe do some grinding.
You can run your fingers through his hair or give him a neck, head massage. Massage can be very sensual without touching his you know, lol. Also make sexy noises like u are enjoying it which I assume you are!
Moan, grab his dick
find a switch
Dry humo him
just feel his pants where his crotch is, and stroke his inner thigh near his crotch, that should do the trick. maybe sit on him and rub your crotch against his.
If you don't know where to touch him to turn him on, then you shouldn't be participating in this behavior. Lol
I went on youtube and learned how to kiss a guys neck right. I tried it on this guy i'm seeing and it had him groan/moan/breathe real heavy, and he really enjoyed it. ( then he did the same to me :D )
The video: "How to kiss a guys neck", by howcast
i hope this helped.
There's a switch between his legs just put it on
Put his hand on your boobs usually works since you won't rub his crotch during
Let him grab your ass
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