Tinder date gone good, then I gave him a bj and now what?

[Anonymous]

Hey from Sweden I'm a 18 year old girl that met this guy on Tinder (he asked me out for a cup of coffee) he was a good guy, not to pushy with anything and he was a good listener. We met each other for coffee, and he wanted to see me again, so he gave me his number and said that i should decide whether or not i wanted to see him again. Of course I did, because the first "date" went amazingly well, it wasn't awkward at all.. we didn't kiss though. We texted back and forth a bit and then a week later he invited me out for drinks. He asked if i wanted to meet him at his place (he's 20 and lives at home, but he had the place for himself). I was skeptic, but i took the chance, I straight up asked him.. "So what is the plan at your place?".. he texted "pre drinks?", when we met he could sense that i was a bit uncomfortable, so he said that we didn't have to go to his place, but I WANTED to, and so we did, and then we went out to drink. I asked if i could go back to his place after the drinks, to sober up, bc we were tipsy. We did and then we began to kiss (my first time) it was cool, then i went home. After that we met again like 3 times, before meeting at his place again where we made dinner and it ended up in a little dry humping (i'm a virgin, and i didn't want to go to far). 2 weeks later/last night we met at his place where we saw Master Of None. Then it got steamy, we began to kiss, grinding, and he got undressed in his boxers, ( i didn't want to get naked, and he respected that!) - he was rubbing me and i ended up giving him a hand-and blowjob and i really did enjoy giving it! (he kept saying how good i was at it). I ended up staying the night, and when i was headed home he kissed me and followed me out. Now i'm standing here not knowing what to do next, should i text him, how is this going to progress? i'm so confused, because he seems to like me, but i'm really conflicted on how i should handle this situation right, without blowing it up? any help is appriciated

[Anonymous]

i am so surprised you could do all that this smoothly, i am virgin too, and have a boyfriend but i am still so anxious and shy,,, you are doing well, well i think knowing you are innocent and virgin and he would be the first of everything, and he already seems to really like you, i feel he might develop more and more feelings for you

[thorthorley]

Sounds like things are going well. You can probably shoot a quick text saying thank you or something of that nature.

[Wikingguy]

You sound gross fellow Swede.

[Dantheman101]

text him got your ass back round there