White dry spots inside the undies of my husband?

[Anonymous]

My husband came home from work and left his undies on the bed where I saw them. There were 3 white spots on the top inside, they were crusty and like a 20 cent coin. After taking a shower he put them into a washing machine. We were not intimate 2 weeks before this. He could masturbate, and I just would like to clarify if the location of the spots can tell something? These were not traces, but spots on the top of the underwear, where the penis does usually stay. Thank you

[Dargil]

If it's white and smooth, it's precum. It can flow at the slightest provocation, like watching someone attractive walk by and certainly if he looks at some NSFW on his smart phone. If it's crusty and off-white like paper paste, it's semen. If you masturbate say in the shower, you can drain for an hour into othwise fresh underwear.

[Asker]

The leakage can occur after sex as well, then. Well, it is quite strange that the spots were almost perfectly round, and there was quite a lot of semen, they were dense.

[Dargil]

Might be innocent, might not be,

[madhatters4]

well he could've been masturbating. he could've just been turned on and it could be pre-jac. it could be a condom although i don't know that condom lube and spermicides leave residue

OR i guess it could be the worse case scenario

[Asker]

Thank you. When I mentioned condom I meant that when you take the penis out from it, the top can be covered by semen (or not?) And in this case it could leave residue on the undies.

[madhatters4]

perhaps. did you ask him about it?

[Asker]

No, I did not. I don't know if he is cheating, but I hope he is not. I just don't want to let him know that this made me suspicious.

[madhatters4]

i'd look for other signs then to try and confirm what potentiall happened. it may mean just being more aware of behaviors. do you suspect aside from the residue in his underwear that he may be cheating? if not i wouldn't put much stock in it. it could be residue from pre-ejac, it could be from masturbating and post-cum, it could be sweat stains in a formation that is odd

[Asker]

Thank you so much. Well, I did not suspect him, but the fact that the undies were completely fresh except for the spots of semen (I did the laundry the day before). He should have had the undies on for 2 days (as I didn't find another pair in the laundry). That seems strange.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is big and he told me in the past when he's gotten hard in public that he's tucked his dick up in the waist of his pants so it doesn't stick out. Could have done something like that and leaked some precum onto his boxers

[AustinMan]

He got hard and it seeped. No biggie.

[godfatherfan]

It is probably precum. if a guy gets excited and starts leaking, it happens. it can happen so much it bleeds through his pants. He could have masturbated and it dripped.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. But can precum be crusty?

[godfatherfan]

its semen. when it dries out it can get that way. Without seeing it, it is hard to know. but if you think he is cheating, I don't think the lube on a condom would dry that way. But it has been 27 years since I wore a condom so I really don't know

[chintita]

precum

[Skadouchebag]

It means tht he was wanking at work and some residual juice leaked out after he pulled his pants up.

[worldscolide]

It is more than likely either precum from getting hard, he is a man and it does happen, or it could be that he fired one off and didn't clean it up all the way. In either case I doubt it was because he had sex with someone.

[jjmarvin]

Sounds like the remnants of an unwanted boner at work lol. I bet it's just precum.

[fr4nk]

He could have an infection

[Decentguy]

maybe he pre cummed

[Melcart23]

It's dry cum. Lol

[skeptic007]

masturbation
and a little bit leaks out

[stonerboner]

Could more likely be pre-cum stains. He may have looked at porn at work. That's my amateur detective work on this one.

[abc--123]

Probably just leakage

[Dantheman101]

Pre cum my boxers look like a snail done a lap in them

[Anonymous]

Yes. He's cheating on you.

Get a divorce pronto. You are a strong independent woman, you don't need no man.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he masturbates on the bus...

[Anonymous]

seems like masturbation, 2 weeks is a long time.