Has he always been this way? If so, sound like he is selfish lover. Does he not go down on you ever? if he used to not do this, he may be seeing someone else bc usually when your partner stops showing interests towards you and feel rejected, that means they are cheating in most cases. you don't know but you do need a mate that satisfies you in bed as well. Its not about him and he needs to realize that.
so Talk to him again and let him know that you are not happy with yalls sex life and ask why he won't please you the way you like. Even if its him, he can make that change for you if he really loves and cares about you and is not seeing anyone else0 0 0 0He would never cheat on me, he cares a lot for me and I'm sure of that... But you're right he is selfish. And no he never goes down on me, not even teases me with kisses or whatever it's straight to sex... which turns me off, so then i feel like i don't want him.
Girl, how could you even stay? you love him that much? wow i would have never got with him the first time i realize he was selfish. you are better than me to have gone this long but yeah a man a real man knows how to please a woman and wants too and the fact that he doesn't satisfy you at all is concerning
Think about it.. if you dont initiate, y'all dont do nothing in weeks. Was it like this when y'all first got together?
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It sounds to me like you probably have radically differing libidos. It sounds to me like you might consider moving on. There are some of us guys that not only will give you a ton of sex but will dominate you in the process. You might even get spanked and/or tied up.
0 0 0 0Thanks for the MHG! What did you decide?
Just going to throw this out there -- is it possible he is getting it from someone else?
0 0 0 0No, he's very loyal and committed in every relationship and I trust him.. Besides, his phone and life are VERY simple and open to me.
ok then.
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0 1He sounds like someone with low libido. :/
0 0 0 0I asked him, and he says that he doesn't and he's horny a lot... But i'm 20, so I'm at a phase where I want to have fun and be passionate all the time lol
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