You are along in years and modesty should not be an issue. Have him get into a suitable oral sex position like this one.
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... and have him watch you do it at close range. Or... put this into your own words and have him do it.
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Thank you for telling me I am old. I didn't know that. I dont care for oral. That is not the way I orgasm... I orgasm from my g spot.
I meant no ill about years. It was only abut shedding modesty and getting what you need. I will be there soon enough. The idea of the position was to watch you finish yourself closeup. The Take combines all 4 hot spots... clitoris, V opening, g-spot and A opening. I have been with 2 girls who have never had an orgasm... until this.
I have had plenty of orgasms.. just not with this man.
Tell him to slide his finger or two around 2-3 inches in then angle his fingers in an upward curving position and if he feels a little lump he should start rubbing it in a "come here" motion. That might work.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Donit with him help his hands and fingers do the work. Or do it yourself in front of him so he can see how your doing it and how you like it
Just keep working with him and directing him until her gets it right
lie down relaxing and apply lubes first then tell him to rub outer side then go in gently and slowly increasing his speed
Of coarse , but he must be willing to learn
Have him sit behind you, then get him to enter his fingers. Then you hold your hand and then try guide him. You can also finger yourself and he can watch. Find any videos that might be similar in technique you desire, he can watch those.
a lot of practice my ex didn't get any pleasure from sex with me so I was only allowed to do oral and fingers and after a lot of practice and direction I became quite good at it
I do love sex and have multiple orgasms when we are able to have sex. But sometimes he loses it before I have an orgasm.
Oh I see well just give him advice when he is down there let him no what feels good and what doesn't. I never lost my erecting but it is just over 3 inches so I couldn't give much pleasure
Wow. Even when fingering you he's bad. Sounds very incompetent
I need advice... not criticism.
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