Most guys have never had a decent hj so they are not the best resource. Your best answers so far have been from the girls @kaylaS91 and @existing_not_living How sad is that? To what they said I can add
- on the upstroke, as your hand passes over his crown, give it a quarter turn.
- no real need to worry about the bottom 1/3 of the shaft, it's not well ennervated
- there are two other intensely pleasurable spots to hit on, both in the perineal area between the scrotum and the anus.
- first, finger pressure about 1" south of the anus gives his p-spot an external massage. Getting pegged without the dildo!
- even better than this IMHO is the base of the penis, right up tight agaist the back of the scrotum. Great bundle of sensory nerves right there.
- visuals matter. Somebody said topless, but I prefer hot lingerie, string bikini panties with matching bra.
- position. Side by side is nice with him on his back. Gives you the chance to add oral stimulation to his face, neck, nipples.
- position 2. He sits legs apart, you kneel between them. I am a sexual submissive so this is a bit uncomfortable for me, but it offers a great visual, plus you can use your breasts and / or mouth on him. HJ does not mean hands only! If you're bossy enough you could even make me like it.
Which brings us to oral. It's not all in rhe mouth. You can cever his cock with kisses, licks, and lip nibbles from base to tip. Again when you take him into your mouth you only need to worry about the top 1/3 of the penis, but do grip the bottom 1/2 with a hand. Can stroke him up and down with your lips and combine this with a tongue massage. Hope this helps.
I know this must be a really sensitive topic for you because you asked this Anonymously.
Here's the thing: Just go to Google Videos and type in the search box: girlfriend gives boyfriend handjob
You'll get a LOT of results and can actually watch it being done. It's not rocket science, and by seeing it done you'll gain confidence that you too can do it!
Pointer finger to your thumb, and wrap the rest or your fingers around his shaft. Move it up and down pretty delicately for starters, and gauge how he reacts to that. If he seems okay with it, ask him if he'd like you to go faster, with more pressure, etc..
If you're up for combining a handjob with a blowjob, I like to work the shaft like above or cup his ball while flicking or twirling my tongue around the head. The head is like the male equivalent of the clitoris, so I'm sure you won't hear any complaints if you do those two things together. :)
coincidentally, I just saw this page in my FB newsfeed. Which may be able to provide some useful visuals for you, as I remember that when I was trying to learn, it was pretty tough to know exactly how to put the tips to good use with no idea of how it's even supposed to look. :P
9gag.com/.../ask-a-porn-star-a-perfect-handjob
Just take your hand and wrap it around his penis. Then move it up and down the shaft at different speeds. Make sure to watch his facial expressions to see when you should move it slower or faster. Varying the speeds makes it more enjoyable for them. Also, make sure that he's a little wet or at least moist so you don't start chafing the penis, haha.
Get on you knees, open your mouth, and put it around his penis. That's the best way to give a hand job.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It is not a weird question. It is probably best to start with a handjob rather than a blowjob till you get use to how things work. First things first... get naked with each other and then gently stat fondling him. Gently stroke up and down. It is OK to talk about things during sex. Ask him to show you how he does it. (Yes all guys jerk off... but they will never admit it) The tip feels best usually the last 1-3 inches. Start iff slow and go faster as he gets turned on... he will love it!
just ask him to show you. Guys have a handjob down better then you could ever do. But we can't suck our own cock. It will be even hotter if you tell him you don't know how to do it and you want him to teach you. that will make him go wild...
Ask him for explicit instructions. We're all different how we like it
Get some lube, put hand around penis and have a reasonably good grip running up his shaft to the head. Stroke gently at first and then escalate. Talk to him while you do it. See what he likes, but for sure when he is about to go stroke hard and tighten your grip so that when he goes he blows his load well. A loose grip when he goes is no fun!
Think of some things to say beforehand LOL I did not even mean it that way but beforehand works!
Don't bother. Guys could really care less about a hand job unless your topless when doing so.
Just ask him
Some guys prefer things other guys don't, also, they're experts at handjobs usually!
there are various instructional videos on porn websites that explain how to do so. maybe it could be helpful to watch some?
Use your mouth! Handjobs are stupid, who ever invented the handjob should be slapped. I can give myself my own handjob, so can he.
The most important thing is to make sure it's wet. Otherwise it'll hurt him
But doesn't it have to be intense so it's more pleasurable even if the hand is not wet? :D
Please for the love of god don't yank it up and down and be really aggressive - inexperienced girls do this and it can hurt. Slow, gentle movements is much more enjoyable
You can ask him to teach you. Most guys find girls are sexual but helpless hot. If you're worried you're doing badly, just tell him 'it's so big' which will immediately increase your score tremendously.
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