Should I stick to strippers and prostitutes?

[Anonymous]

I seriously do not want a relationship right now, I am not interested in being with anyone at the moment but unfortunately I have a sex drive and I am not the type of fool that would get in a relationship just for the sex. my friends and family members are not helping me out either, they keep hustling me into becoming somewhat of a useless player. they keep telling me things like... "when are you gonna get a girlfriend for once?" "are you gonna wait till your dick falls off?" "are you asexual?" "are you ever gonna start a family" and the list goes on. thanks to this I've kinda been building up an Elliot Rodgers type of mindset, of course minus the desire to do what he did before he ended his life. you know I may have a lot of skeletons in my closet but never once did I ever had the thought of killing or hurting anyone especially for my own problems in life. anyways theses same friends and family members who keep hustling me on this subject introduced me to that app Tinder. when they told me all about it I got really excited and thought I was finally gonna start meeting up women who are in the same page as me but unfornately that is not how things turned out to be. so far I've matched with over 40 women and the majority of them treat that app like a normal dating app. they write down in their statuses things like "I dont do hookups" etc. and the rest sound like they want some sort of attachments. but oh well what should I do? should I continue going to the strips and continue hiring escorts? or should I just move out of America?

[Cmasterson]

Hmm well I don't see why you can't find someone to casually sleep with and NOT hand money too, I mean you're allowed to do whatever you want but it can get really expensive. There are females that do, do hook ups I suppose you have to display yourself as that type of guy saying you're not looking for a relationship.

[Asker]

I have numerous of times and they find that pretty repulsing. they give me attitudes such as "that is not gonna happen, etc" or just leave me hanging out of the blue

[Offthelist]

just stick to prostitutes. completely agree. its better than using women.

[Anonymous]

Neither option is cheap, I guess if you can afford escorts for now stick with that until you are finally are ready for a girlfriend but I always heard tinder was good for hook ups but I guess it's changing

[Asker]

it sure is. the majority of the women there or at least the ones I been matching with are there hoping to find prince charming. oh well they better not complain when they get their hearts broken

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah true since most guys on there are for a hook up mostly

[HeresJames1]

Move out of America? Lmao like that would help you in any way. Dude just figure your shit out you're making things too complicated for yourself.

[Asker]

I'm not originally from America but when I do go visit my native country on vacation it sure as fuck makes a hell of a difference

[HeresJames1]

A difference in what?

[Asker]

for a start the women there are more open with their sexuality. they're aren't hypocrite stock ups like the women here are who say things like "I'm not a slut," "I got respect for myself," "gross I don't do that!" but always end up eating these words once they know they're gonna get something out of you in return.

[HeresJames1]

Yeah I think you're generalizing

[MyUsernameRules]

Just go to bars or clubs for casual hookups.

[Asker]

I wonder what bars/clubs those are cause here where I live there are lots of those but I never came across one that is specifically for those type of purpose

[Sidrao]

you have this thing called a right hand m8

[Anonymous]

Escorts for the win.