Good gracious!!! First off, there's a very damn good chance that most guys would be all over your chest. Second off, I know you're bi and you think you seriously relate to him on this because of it, but really and truly... It's still not the same.
Yes men are visual. Yes men have their sex drive tied to their eyes, but men are just nowhere near as critical of a woman's beauty as another woman would be. We have a much bigger latitude of what we find hot. I find roughly 80-90% of women I meet on a daily basis could make me aroused, even highly aroused, just by getting naked for me. I highly doubt even another bi girl would genuinely have a percentage that high.
I am willing to bet that your man genuinely still finds your breasts hot and wants as much play time and face time with them as he can get. And I'm also willing to bet he wants to shoot himself over his remarks, and that it's really more because he's screwed himself over because you don't want to share them with him as much as you used to than because he feels guilty. He might not understand how to say it in the direct, probably crass, way that will make you realize they're still very much his sexual fantasy fuel they have always been, and assumes that telling you he likes them because he loves you is somehow more supportive to you, but I would bet real money that another guy could get him to talk about your "tits" in truly reverent terms that would make your eyes widen at how much they make him aroused when they're brought to the party.0 0 0 0Well, people tend to get really angry and no matter what they say afterwards, they always mean what they say... When we are angry, we are as honest as we can be, so if he told you that, he really meant it, no matter that he said that he didn't mean it afterwards...
But, are breasts something to get depressed over?
He didn't leave you or anything... He loves you and the beautiful baby you've created, and he regrets it now.
Why don't let it just fly away? Believe me... Those are small things to get upset about... There are far more bigger things in this world we should care about.
Love your child and don't let small things destroy your relationship. Live to see the happines of your child/children, because as a parent, there won't be anything more fulfilling than that... 😃0 0 0 0
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(3)The truth is we really don't care about breast size as much as women think we do. What we do care about is that they're natural regardless of size or shape. Yes every once in a while you might hear a rude comment from some asshole but they're in the tiny minority
0 0 0 0The reality is that most people settle and end up with someone who is similar in attraction level. You may not feel perfect but you are the best that he can afford and he is the best that you can obtain. If your breast bothers you that much you could talk to a plastic surgeon.
0 0 0 0just relax guys dont care about breast if they love u
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