Happy ending massage or not?

[Anonymous]

About a week ago my boyfriend told me that he and his ex-wife went to a "happy ending" massage parlor for a couples message and after they were given privacy to have sex. Now he is asking me to go with for to have the same experience. Although this part about him going with someone else does not bother me too much I suppose... but I am starting to have mixed feelings of this. On one hand , I am happy he asked me to go and trusted me enough to tell me this is what will exite him. Yet, on the other hand I'm thinking now that may have not been the only time he went. Has he been going to these places all along our relationship. Does he get call girls? There have been some other small things too that has made me question him. Should I go, should I not go? Is he a scumbag? Not sure, he is a good person and we live together for the last few years. It just Seems like every guy I have dated has had a different side to them.

[Sangita93]

I have never gone to any massage parlor, but have herd many dirty things about it. In a way it works like a brothel house. If you are really good friends (and might be enjoying sex with each other), you need not go to this place. you may have enjoyable time together at any comfortable place including your or his home when home-alone.

[Asker]

He says he wants to spice things up. We have a great sex life tho. I think he is wanting a free pass with me watching. Hard to trust someone who has this idea.

[SarahsSummer]

Wait! He wants you to go to the massage place and BOTH of you get happy endings? Really? How does that even work... For girls. I'm pretty sure I don't want a stranger trying to get me off!

[Asker]

Lol. No they rub u down with no happy ending, then they leave u both in a room to go at it. They just prep u

[SarahsSummer]

Ohhh, but you write happy ending massage. That means the massage girl gets him off. I've gone to spa retreats w/my guy where we get a couples massage and then lounge about with cocktails in bathrobes or use the jacuzzi and then we go back to our room for some fun. (In PRIVATE) To be in a massage parlor with a spare room for people to have sex seems really creepy and sketchy.

[LittleMissCuriousity]

If you're comfortable with it, give it a shot. If you aren't sure, talk to him.

[GingerGuy]

Don't let your mind run away with you and jump to conclusions. Sit down and have a serious talk with him about this and ask him these questions to relieve your mind. Communication is so important.

[Asker]

Yeah we did talk a little. He said the only time he went was with his ex. I told him that it was not cool whatsoever to do this by himself. He says it is for both of us. I told him I wanted a man and he said no. Go figure! I responded "why is it ok for u and not me". Therefore it is for him obviously.

[Fearless_banana]

Most of those massage places are filled with pretty disgusting women.. I don't understand how anyone could pay for that shit.

[Asker]

Never been and have no clue on how dirty or clean it is. Have u been?

[Fearless_banana]

Yeah I made a question on it a while ago I should find it for you lol. Girl tried to grab my cock 5 minutes in the massage. Asked for money and I said I'm not paying for that and she said ok and proceeding. Still finished me off anyways lol. Those places stink.. the women are generally gross.. always in a bad neighborhood too. Just a scum establishment

[7heDubz]

Ask him.

[Asker]

I did and he said no. However I highly doubt he is gonna tell me the truth. Lol

[Curmudgeon]

"Lol. No they rub u down with no happy ending, then they leave u both in a room to go at it. They just prep u"

Well, if it is just you two, than that seems fine to me.

[DodgersGM]

I don't think you understand what 'happy ending' means. LOL

[derekzoolander]

Just go get your massage!

[Decentguy]

do you know the meaning of happy ending? he's a scum bag. and when he told you to go too it sounds very awkward and weird

[Asker]

It does sound weird. Yes I know what happy ending is. I told him that I do not want to be touched or to see it being done to him because I'm not sure how it will affect the relationship for both of us. I was just describing the kind of place he wants to go to. From what he said, they give u a massage and I guess it gets u worked up and the girls leave the room and we have sex. It is almost like he has done this b4. I know he went with his ex, but was a long time ago.

[scooogy]

Sounds pretty difficult. If all the other guys before him were just like that i'd say try to make the best out of this.

[HelloEveryone123456]

Why don't you just have sex at your house?

What is the purpose of the strange woman?

[Asker]

He says he wants to spice things up. We have a good sex life and try different thing all the time. Not sure what he is up to tho. I as myself why all of a sudden he wants to do this.

[HelloEveryone123456]

I think it's weird...