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My crush had sex with me while I was sleep?

Last night me and another guy chase went to my crush Leo's house last night to drink a little beer and hangout. I have a HUGE Leo, everytime I'm around him I can't stop smiling and it's obvious I like him. The whole night we were flirting and giving eachother the "I wanna fuck you eyes" but at the same time I didn't wanna have sex so soon. I got tired and went laid on the couch but he suggested I sleep in his room since people were running in and out so i agreed. I remember he wasn't in the room when i fell asleep & I was still fully dressed but when i wokeup this morning it was different. I was naked from the waist down and I wasn't that buzzed so I know I didn't wakeup and take them off. I look over and he has his shirt off. We were cuddling and I pretended to go to sleep just to test him and he kept testing to see if i was awake like baby and kept shaking me. He starts to penetrate me anally and it hurt so i got up & said stop while moaning and he was like shhhh and said "im so sorry," . 15 mins later he tries to see if im up again and i hear a condom and he starts penetrating my vagina this time for only about 10 seconds and then he masturbated probably cause he was scared i would wakeup again. I was in complete disbelief... he knows if he could get some from me if he asked but why did he have to do it when im passed out? I still can't believe I wokeup naked. I think he set the whole thing up last night and purposely waited til i slept to have sex with me. Also I recently found out one other night while i was drunk after we danced he straight up picked me up and took me upstairs to his room but my friend came and got me. The weird thing about the story is one person said i was sleep and one person said i was awake.
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Also when i first wokeup i demanded my underwear & put them back on. While i pretended to be sleep after he had sex with me i felt him put them back.
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  • The first thing you need to do before you do anything else is changing this guys name and description from, "crush" to "asshole." This guy has no respect for you not as a girlfriend or a girl or a crushee but rather no respect for you as a human being. You need to wake up and realize that otherwise you are going to be taken advantage of by this guy as long as time itself exists. If you allow him to continue seeing you all being in a relationship the word is gonna get around and every guy in your neighborhood is going to try to take advantage of you because they will consider you, not a slut or a tramp or easy or anything like that but rather a naïve moron. So please heed this to be a warning..
    Next, you drink too much. It's okay to drink but it is not okay to drink to the point where you have no control over what's going on in your life.
    And yes you were set up this just didn't happen out of the blue. This is not Superman coming out of nowhere flying down changing the course of mighty rivers bending steel in his bare hand and just so happened to attempt to fuck you. I can only wonder if the guy you came with wasn't in on all of this. Perhaps he wasn't and that's okay.
    This has to be a learning experience. If you don't take something away from this, then stuff like this is going to repeat itself in your life, not exactly the same thing but other unfortunate occurrences just to let you know that I am not putting you down dumping on you while I'm claiming to be Miss goody two shoes. I'm 25 so it had to be about six years ago (never mind my age being seen as 20 in my description – I don't know how that got there) I went to a club on a Friday night. A beautifully made fake ID got me in is over 21. In such a situation one does not want to go with girlfriends. I went there to find me some penis and I didn't want anybody telling me no. Except that I only want to think I'm cool deep down inside I'm a chicken. So I sat at the bar all alone on a stool looking real hot real desirable and real horny. Figured to be cool I shouldn't drink beer. To be cool I ordered scotch – Johnny Walker Black on the rocks. In my coolness I forgot that I had never had scotch it took a little sip and almost vomited. That's bad stuff! So I ordered a strawberry margarita and sipped slowly. One margarita, twol margarita three margarita guy asked me to dance and I say yes I had a great time except I can't remember it. I was found the next day in one of those big green garbage

    • thingies, naked with no purse. Somebody call the police and I was taken to the hospital. So I'm not so bright. But never again did I allow myself to lose control in such a fashion that I had no idea what I was doing. So I learned from that I hope to God you learned from your experience also

  • Umm... You don't sound upset as you should be. You sound angry like how a girl is at her boyfriend when he does something stupid.

    He sexually assaulted you. Took off your clothes. Touched you in places without your approval. You may like him but that's not acceptable and you should report him or something

  • I would report him to the police were know who else he's done this too and how many others he's going to do it too. He violated your body and shouldn't get away with it and you have a friend who can vouch that he tried the same thing on another occasion.

  • Dont get that drunk that you have to ask people if you were Asleep or awake. Do you want to wake up also pregnant? this is irresponsible, and maybe he was drunk too... young people :s

    • Obviously you didn't read the fact that I stated that i was barely buzzed.

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  • leave him and that type of situation asap

  • I am sorry but thats rape. What I dont get is why didn't he just ask especially since you are into him and you guys had the whole "I wanna fuck u " eyes thing going on. SMH

  • Wtf?

    That is NOT okay. What the fuck is wrong with people. That is so creepy and basically sexual assault /rape. Did he drug you? Is that possibly why you got sleepy? What a loser. Press charges or never talk to him again that's disgusting. Whether you like him or not I'm sorry but that's not okay!!

  • That is not okay.
    Please report this :/

  • that sounds like rape

  • What the shit? Report that shit

  • Yeah... you got raped.

  • That's rape.

  • you were raped

    REPORT !
    if not for you then for other women... save them from that person and put him behind bars

    im so so sorry <3

  • Maybe he has a rape fetish or he was still drunk? I'd ask him about it. If he does it again call the cops seriously

    • It's still rape. Drunk? Alcohol is no excuse and it seems like he was perfectly aware of what he did. She should and can report it immediately, why would she let it happen again to report it?

  • He's a straight up sociopathic rapist. Do not be alone with him again

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