Guys do you lose respect for a girl when you do anal with them?

[Anonymous]

Just curious, one of my guy friend said he totally lost respect for her girlfriend after that so is that a thing?

[roxy_362]

I think this may be true for some people...

I will approach your question from a different angle. I am a gay man and always act as a bottom while having sex with men. I thoroughly enjoy that and am proud of it. But, when I mention it to people, some express disrespect, as you also mentioned.

This is true for some women as well as some men. As a woman, would you lose respect towards a guy or a girl who gets penetrated anally?

[Cmasterson]

I dont understand why, he chose to put his dick in her ass and she probably did it because she wanted to try and and wanted to make him happy. It's mutual and consensual (most of the time) so to lose respect for someone who you engaged that with is just being a twat.

[Anonymous]

i personally find it degrading to women tbh and its not allowed in my religion anyways so GREAT ! haha was never gonna do it anyways

and you really think most guys here will tell you the truth? LOL!
that means less sex and less anal for them lol

[ARTESTJ]

Nope. I actually respect them more. Not every women is willing to do it, and since i enjoy it, that means they are willing to take my feelings into account.

[Rawrzz]

No. That's ridiculous. Apparently it is a thing if this guy said that, but I'd say he's either delusional or a douchebag or he's trying to damage or disparage her in some way.

[Hannah591]

It doesn't make sense for a guy to have anal with a girl, then say he has no respect for her afterwards, even though HE did it.

[Cloudy25]

It's just sex in a different hole, so I think it's ridiculous to lose respect for someone over that, and if he lost respect for her why tf did he do it in the first place. They're in the same boat.

[teawrecks]

Did he ask her to do it?

Did he do it?

Then he should lose respect for himself as well. It takes two to anal.

[SovereignessofVamps]

Most guys aren't like this. Your friend asked her to do it, so who is he to lose respect? He sounds odd. He put his dick in, so the people he told should lose respect for him too right?

[theguyisback]

Absolutely not.. His disrespect stems from a false ams narrow definition of what is considered "respectful"

[oldanddecrepid]

Not in my books, my respect for a person is not built on whether they will do something sexually or not, nor do I need that from her.

If she likes to do it because it feels good, then that is what I am all about. I would lose more respect for her not telling me about something she wanted to try, or do... because it means we don't have trust and openness in our relationship, whatever that may be?

[Bandit74]

Nope. Only if she did anal with other guys.

[Intraluminal]

I can't understand why he would. That's just weird.

[Philosopher_Edge]

I wouldn't lose respect for the. If they like it, and I like it... And we like it together. How is it any different than oral or normal sex, or any other types of consensual sexual behavior?

[pervertedjester]

Your friend is a tool.

[RainbowDash]

Why?
He did it, He did the anal thing too, if he lost respect for her, he should expect the same from her

[miserybusiness]

dude it should be just the opposite

I have major respect for chicks with that much confidence

[alienjedi]

only if she cheats on me

[Stppguy]

Tbh, I would not. I don't know why but it looks disgusting for me.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Not interested in anal at all

[badboy666]

No, I gain respect. I think "A women creative and bold enough to try new things."

[slimstiffy]

Thats just stupid...
Nah.. I wouldn't...
But then there are guys who will lose respect after having sex with thwir girl..
Smh

[Miezko]

No, I wouldn't loose respect for her.

[Waffles731]

Anyone who does is a major douchebag fuckwad