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My brother tried to touch me?

Ok so I am so sorry if this grosses anyone out but I don't know what else to do i feel so stupid posting something like this on a site like this and I know it's stupid but I don't know who else to tell ! my brother is 18 and came over because my parents didn't want to leave me on my own for a whole week ( they are going away for their honeymoon) we were just watching a movie when he reached over and started touching me He put his arm across my shoulders so I couldn't get up he was doing it really hard and it hurt so bad he leant in to kiss me but I jumped up and ran away it weirded me out and I feel like it is kind of my fault I feel disgusting and guilty in some ways he is now downstairs and I am in my room i am scared to go out my room and my parents are away for week now I am not sure how I can sort this
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I forgot to say I am 13
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your brother is a product of this increasingly wicked culture and world. He focuses on his physical wants and desires (He is tricked into believing they are needs... But nobody needs sex to continue living. Although it can feel like that...)

    You are simply a woman who is "there", by him, whom he is comfortable with. Unfortunately, now you must become vigilant with him. If you let this issue fester, he may grow more bold, and may even rape you one day. Only you know what your gut is telling you.

    You should confront him. Mainly, because if he cannot with you, he may rape someone else. Unfortunately you now have a terrible burden on your shoulders. You should confront him, or your parents, but do not let this just sit.

    • Men need sex.

    • @bobbyxx If you take a man and keep him in a cell, and deny him sex, he is not going to die. Do not deceive yourself, thinking you need it is going to make you go out and do all sorts of dumb things.

  • If you're a young teen then call for help. . . an aunt, a friend's mom etc. You need to be somewhere safe. Call cops if you have to.

    If you're an older teen, stay in your room and call him. Ask "dude, WTF just happened 'cause I'm scared to death of you right now." Make him understand that that is never ever to happen again or he will be out of your life FOREVER.

    • I'm 13

    • You're young. Don't try to match wits or physical strength with an 18 yr old guy even if he's your brother. Call and talk to an aunt or a friend's mom and tell her you need a place to stay. If not, call the cops. Expect your brother to deny everything but stick to your gut feelings because they're valid.

    • You could try calling Child Welfare (Child Protective Services) before calling the police.

Most Helpful Girls

  • you're not wrong but make sure to go to someone you trust ! A neighbour / aunt or other family or friend to stay there then call your parents to let them know about your situation.
    Don't stay in the house with him !
    If you're scared then call someone to pick you up or leave the house when he's out.

  • Text or email your parents. Tell them your brother has done something bad and you're going to your aunt/uncle/cousin... whoever. If no family member, go to a friend you can trust and ask her parents if you can stay over, you don't need to tell them why. Tell your parents everything your brother has done.

    • And it's definitely not your fault. Your brother has done wrong here, not you.

  • As everyone else has said call a friend or another family member and stay there the rest of the week. Tell your parents what happened. Make sure whoever you call comes to get you, comes to the door to pick you up. Just in case he doesn't let you leave. Stay safe, everything will be OK.

    • That's the problem I am in a massive argument with my friends and they all think I am an idiot My only best friend I have lives ages away from me and he couldn't travel here at half 11

    • What about family?

    • Then call police. you have the right to have back-up, and they will make sure you have a safe place to stay.

  • Is he your blood brother? You should be careful. It's a genuine concern in today's world. Anyone would freak out. Has he ever done something like that before?

    • He is my half brother ( we each have the same mum but different dads ) His dad is very young and like irrisponsible and my dad is dead

    • You should call help. Just stay away from him. That's not at all normal or safe.

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  • Go to the police immediately. You need to report this. Your brother will not stop, trust me. Your parents will not be mad.

  • Well if this is real. You need tof call a friend or neighbor to come over right now, and possibly the police ad well.

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  • It's not your fault... is there an aunt, mother of a friend of your's that you can call. I wouldn't stay there if at all possible. I think he will probably try and do more.. worse case scenario go to the neighbors house.

  • You have to tell someone. What he is doing is very wrong. You have to tell someone before it goes out of hand. Protect yourself.

  • that's incest. You should call your local authorities because that's not right in any case or matter. I hope this works out for you.

  • Fucking white people

    • Actually he is mixed race !

  • Call them and tell them!

  • Call a friend and ask if you can stay with them and if he tries again call 911. If you need more advice feel free to PM me.

  • Go to your parents immediately. He's a sick son of a bitch!

  • If you're telling us all the details about what happened, then you did NOTHING wrong. It is NOT your fault. You just have to go talk to an adult about this.

    • All I did wrong is that we had an argument about something silly earlier that day

    • Well you didn't do anything wrong. It's not your fault.

  • that is disgusting and incest.
    he tried a chance, i hope he would ashame...

  • really disgusting.

    • Hello..! I KNOW THAT !!! That's why I need help

    • call your parent and ask for help

  • Probably want's to get sexual with you but it wouldn't be a good idea if you didn't like it or want to do it.

  • Go down stairs and say that you know what he did was wrong, say you feel violated and hurt. You are a girl and he is supposed to protect you not hurt you. Tell him that if he thinks it is okay to do that he needs help. The other part of that is to do a very braised thing, this may sound wrong but if you take everything off, and go down stairs to him and yell at him saying he only wants sex say you are hurt and him as your brother should not have let you do that. I realize that sounds odd but if he is only thinking about you sexually you need to force him to associate it with a negative.

    • I'm 13 I don't want Rosario for my brother That's what he asks me to do I am not letting him win

    • You are 13. Knowing and being aware of your limits is important. Confronting him alone is a poor idea and in my opinion, very poor advice. Get help, extended family, friend's family. and don't be afraid to call police or child protection. What he did was assault.

  • Be carecfull..

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-K7fCQlUhj0

  • What was he doing hard that hurt so bad? But you were able to jump up when he tried to kiss you?
    Is he your brother or step brother?
    Why do you think it's your fault?

    • He was touching me ' there' And he loosened his grip to kiss me as he reached for my neck so I jumped up ! He is my half brother ( we ha e the same mum) Because we had an argument earlier and he said he would get me back as I hit him on the arm

    • Oh so he was fingering you? So if he was getting you back don't worry about it he did now your even and forgot about it.

    • You call that even? I can't let him do do that He fingered me !! All I did was hit his arm !!

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  • Simple. Tell him that if he tries that again, you will kick him in the nuts and not stop until there is nothing left AND you'll tell your parents as well as the cops.

  • You did nothing wrong. I think you should either call your parents and tell them and see if they can come home, or at least call another family member to see if you can stay with them until your parents come home.

    Everything else will sort itself out when your parents get back home. Don't worry about anything else for the time being.

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