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Should I let my younger sister sleep with my boyfriend as im 8 months pregnant and I dont want him straying leaving me a single mother?

My sister wants to lose her virginity and wants it to be special and my boyfriend is an amazing lover. My sister is very pretty and my boyfriend has noticed as of course he is a redblooded male and hasn't had sex with me in a month as I can't anymore. This arrangement would suit us all as my boyfriend would get tge sex he needs, my younger sister would have an amazing sexual experience her first time losing her virginity to my man, and I would know my man is not putting it about town with some skank bringing back an STD.
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  • I am going to say "no," and I'm going to say it for two reasons:

    1) I don't like the idea that you seem to worry that if he isn't getting sex, and soon, that he'll leave. A decent guy should be more than willing to wait, especially if it isn't happening because of something like pregnancy. Sure, he's pent up, but he should have some self control.

    2) if she really wants and craves something special, it should be with someone she loves, or at least cares for, who isn't taken. If he is amazing, and she is virginal, and you are pregnant, and then recovering from pregnancy and worrying about an infant, I promise you, this won't be a one-time thing, and it will cause pain between you and him, and between you and her.

    If you were not pregnant, and if he felt fully sexually satisfied, and you trusted your sister, and not only were OK with this happening, but even wanted it to happen? Weird of a situation as that would be, I would say go for it. But that is not the situation you wrote.

    I suggest you make him understand that waiting, and just getting hand and blow jobs right now, is not the end of the world. I suggest you tell your sister she does not need to lose her virginity the day she turns 18. I suggest that, if this situation is to happen, it wait a few months, so you can give birth, heal up, be ready to enjoy sex again yourself, and have it once with your husband at least, before agreeing to allow her to share him, that you make sure they both know this is only happening because you love and trust them both, and that you will be there for it.
    I don't mean as part of a threesome. While many guys dream of sisters at the same time, that isn't what I'm saying. But sitting in a comfy chair in the corner of the room and just being there and seeing it will make it better for you. Nothing would have happened that you didn't see, and you might even be more comfortable allowing her in again in the future.

  • please tell me this is a troll attempt. it's rather disturbing to me that you'd essentially pimp out both your boyfriend and sister.

    let your sister find her own partner
    if your boyfriend can't keep it in his pants for another month of your pregnancy then you need a new boyfriend

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ok, so, this is trolling, but... tf?
    You can -- and SHOULD -- fuck, right up until the moment yr water breaks.

    The only time when you have to take it easy is AFTER the delivery. (Work on those pelvic floor / Kegel exercises girly!) At that point, yr man should be busy enough helping out with the baby that this... isn't an issue.

    The only thing that's a little... uh... exotic about third-trimester sex is that it becomes pretty much impossible to shave down there, so, if yr man is used to a nice smooth slippery surface, then he'll have to adjust a bit. (You could still get waxed at a salon -- although if that's the sort of thing you're thinking about at 8 months pg, then you have, uhm, interesting priorities.)

    But, srsly, there is NO medical reason why you can't keep fucking right up until the water breaks.

    • This is what I was thinking but it has been so long I was not sure. But as for the shaving down below, when she cannot see or reach, he can do that. I have.

    • @Red_Arrow Sure, that's a possibility (: ... although shaving yourself and shaving someone else are two different animals. A certain degree of skill is necessary, there, if you get me. I mean, this isn't the world's greatest analogy, but, I've mastered the art of giving my husband an old-fashioned hot straight-razor shave -- but I can imagine most men wouldn't want their girl just trying to do that at random.

    • I understand that. But it it actually trickier on the guy. On the gal, the hair is on the outer labia and the skin is smooth and thick. On the guy the skin is mot smooth, and it is very thin, so much so that the hair follicles stick up due to lack of depth. If you can master doing it to your husband, it is easier for him to do it to you.

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  • It's so fucked up it should be on Springer.

    If the father of your child can't go without sex for one month then you fucked up by having a baby with him. He shouldn't have to fuck someone else just to stay happy with you and the idea that you want him to fuck your sister is so disgusting I can only assume you are a troll.

    Also, perfectly fine to have sex at 8 or 9 months pregnant. Many women feel more aroused when pregnant and sex can help induce labour.

  • Take your "Maternity Vitamins" and see me in the morning.
    This is NOT a Wise idea. For if it Begins, even After the Blessed Event, it May be too Many Months later Too Late... It Could have Sealed your own Fate.
    They could End up In Love and a Bough that Might Never Break as a Mate.
    Good luck and Tell sis to go find her Own man. xx

    • Girl... i admire your enthusiasm... but it does make me LOL sometimes how you always default to nothing ever being a troll post. I don't know how you restrain yourself 100% of the time. #Kudos

    • @CheerGirl38139 lol!! Encouragement from Good friends like yourself, thanks so much, You made my day. xxoo

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  • This sounds like a perfectly natural arrangement... I am only sorry my wife didn't bring it up. Kudos to you for thinking ahead regarding STD's and such.

  • WTF! And if your boyfriend and sister are actually willing to do this - then perhaps the problem is deeper than you think! And they have no respect at all for YOU!
    At least think of your child. He/she should have responsible parents.. not a family that think with their genitals!!

  • Who brought up this idea?

  • WOW... kinda speechless. I mean, even if you're okay with it, the fact that you are worried that your man goes cheating on you and that he is okay with sleeping with your younger hotter sister doesn't really make him a good father, don't you think? I mean, shouldn't he be able to wait a little time for sex (my ex could do that and i wasn't even pregnant) while you're having your baby because he loves you and the baby?

  • That is sooooooooooooooooooo messed up. (o_o) You do realize that letting him sleep with other people (your sister included) is only going to encourage him to continue doing it, right?

  • Definitely not! This is not okay, and being pregnant can't actually prevent you from having sex anyway.

  • This is either the worst idea ever or you're the worst troll ever.

  • This is one of the most bizzare things I've ever heard, if she's not biologically related to you. It'd make this a bit less strange. If you're really okay with it, I'm not one to tell you that it's wrong.

    • Also, you do realize you could have sex when you're pregnant?

  • what the actual fuck is society coming to?

  • Are you okay with your sister continuing to have sex with him even after the baby is born and you have recovered? I ask because that is what will happen.

  • I just don't know what I just read... I must be superhigh

  • -__- ? uh i dont understand these people. seriously

  • How much younger is your sister?

  • ooohhhhhh yeah baby!

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  • I would go with if the both are willing, but losing her virginity to her someone else man is not really that special, and she might get attached to him because he would be her first, so what if she want to be with him more after it? are you okey with polyamory?

  • Just once or are you prepared for it to continue?

    Lots of complex emotions to manage with that strategy.

  • yes, let your sister take one for the team.

  • Hands down one of the best trolls I've seen on here lol

  • Only if your sister AND your boyfriend is okay with that so I voted C)

  • that's messed up... i say NO!

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