Is it possible for a guy to turn gay if he gets no girlfriend?

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I'm 22 now and still a virgin. I never had any girlfriend as well. I am addicted to porn and masturbation. I stay sexually frustrated always. Masturbation does not help at all. I tried 100s of times to get girls... I tried, good guy, bad guy, conservative guy every other shit. So lately I've been so frustrated that i feel suicidal at times. So lately I've been noticing that i kinda feel good wheni see some men. (not all of course). It kinda freaked me out but i thought maybe bcoz i dont get any girlfriend. But then after 10-12 weeks i started searching for gay porn. I mean i dont like men so much but I'd not mind having some fun with a guy. It grosses me out when i try to imagine things when i m sorber but when i l horny, i just get some random urge to show myself off to my male friends and i kinda stair at some attractive guys (maybe jealous as they get many girls) but i feel really weird these days.. Not that I've staoped looking at girls or getting turned on by girls. I still watch porn but sometimes i enjoy watching dicks as well. I was just worried, could this sexual frustration turn me into getting attracted to guys and eventually turn gay or bi? 
I never felt attractions towards guys before... Still i dont but sometimes when i get horny i dont mind handling dick. Is this normal? Will i be turned out as gay? I'm 22 by the way. And yet not done anything which would make people question my sexuality.

uknaked · Accepted Answer

Everybody on this planet is bisexual to some degree, so you are not unusual, there are loads of other guys like you out there, and a bit of fun with a guy you are sexually attracted to can be great.
You are not going gay! and you still prefer women, you are like most guys including me.
I recognised years ago that I was attracted to some guys, and have enjoyed many satisfying times with some nice guys over the years.
My overwhelming preference is for females, particularly for emotional and romantic interest, but like all other guys, there can be fun with the same gender.
Most guys, of course, never admit it, even to themselves, but in my view nobody, of either gender is 100% str8.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Gay is something you're born with, just like being straight. It's not a choice.

Chirinéonmä · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say so.

No one knows what exactly causes sexual attraction. We have a lot of untested assumptions about it, based on subjective experience, but we don't really know much for certain.

It does appear that sexual preference is something that can change over time in at least some people. Also some people go through a period of experimentation in their youth.

And some people are sexually attracted to both sexes. It's complicated.

But I doubt anyone would become gay just because they couldn't get a date. There is almost certainly more to it than that.

Wishing you the best of luck.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From what your saying I am guessing Bi-curious. Give it a try and see if it's something your really into or not or if your just romanticizing it so you have more options. Goodluck!

ImHere22 · Answer

No. Not getting a girlfriend doesn’t make you gay; identifying as gay makes you gay.

madhatters4 · Answer

most likely not

Soteris · Answer

No. You can not realistically change your fundamental sexual orientation. If you start finding men attractive it means you always had the foundation to think that way but for one reason or another just never realized it or more likely did not allow yourself to think that way.

Basically you were always Bi.

goldfinch23 · Answer

It can be sign you're bisexual. So you can enjoy fun with either girls and either boys. I'm sexually attracted to girls, but sometimes I love to give head to some guy. It's kinda complicated in my case. Actually oral sex is the only thing I am able to do with the same sex. Even kissing with guy is awful for me.

NerdInDenial · Answer

I think you just need some companionship. You have to be really committed to be gay. It takes a lot to actually suck a dick or have anal sex. As such, I don't think men can fake homosexuality.

charlie95 · Answer

its just porn addiction doing that, im in the same boat here. im not worried about becoming gay because you know if you're attracted to guys or not.

susancd · Answer

thinking and doing are two totaly different things.

as uknaked stated we all experance something of this nature at some point in our lives some act on it and others don't about 15 years ago i started wondering what it would be like to hold another mans cock in my hand and maybe even put it in my mouth,

it took me another ten years of thinking about what i could be missing so i eventualy took the plunge and i have never experanced anything so erotic in my life,

i don't fancy men in the slightest but love playing with a mans cock,

so if it feels right go for it if not just get on with your life as im sure you will find what is right , good luck,

Anonymous · Answer

Meh, if sexual frustration turned you gay I'd have been bangin' with the boys long ago.

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