My boyfriend has a fat fetish and is trying to get me to gain weight?

[Anonymous]

So we have been dating almost a year now and im not sure what to do at this point. In the beginning i weighed about 150lbs and he showered me with food and taking me out to eat all the time and i was so happy and into the realtionship i didn't notice I gained over 20lbs like that. I started trying to lose it but he got all sad and kind of mopey and just depressed but wouldn't say why. Eventually he told me that he has a fat fetish and finds it a huge turn on when i gain weight. He said every pound makes me more attractive. He says he knows he shouldn't make me fat if i dont want it because he does see me as as person and not just a fetish. But at the same time he wants to be attracted to me in that way and said its hard. and I can understand that part. So we talked about it some more and eventually i asked him if he would like it if I gained some weight. he said yes. So i asked him how much and he said just 20lbs. I didn't really want to. but i guess it shouldn't be so hard. All i have to do is eat to make him happy. so he started encouraging me to eat way more at meals, way past the point of being full so that in the future over time it started taking more and more food to fill me up. I was also snacking all day long and would even sometimes wake up at night to have ice cream. well the 20 lbs came and then some. to be honest It was kind of fun minus the part where I outgrow all my clothes and jiggle everywhere. Im just weirded out by it and how its attractive when your girlfriends underwear is almost completely covered by rolls and she's just stuffing herself. but i reached his goal. i expected him to ask me to gain more but he didn't and he didn't have to. I was so stuck in the habbit of eating all the time now that thats kind of what kept happening. he's made me feel so sexy i haven't really noticed till now that I weigh close to 240lbs and not sure what to do. Confused as to how this is attractive and a little worried but loving how close we are and how happy.

[BiscuitesSwag]

"Feederism
An underground sexual fetish which involves one partner (the feeder) feeding the other, both to obtain sexual arousal and to encourage weight gain in the feedee. Feederism can vary in nature, from a consensual act between two people who mutually appreciate a larger body type, to non-consensual abuse, which may involve force-feeding and bondage and is undertaken with the intention of fattening up the feedee to the point of immobility and total dependence. The weight gained can also vary froma few pounds to hundreds, whilst some feeder relationships are not undertaken with the purpose of weight gain at all but for the enjoyment of food in an intimate context.

Most feedees are female (BBW or SSBBW) whilst the feeders tend to be FA males, although this is not the case, and gay/lesbian feeder relationships are not entirely unheard of.
Jamie is Debbie's feeder; she's gained 150 pounds since she met him... but she's aiming for 200."
Source: Urban Dictionary

[GreatnessRevamped]

"Source: Urban Dictionary" oh, fucking helll. lol.

[BiscuitesSwag]

@GreatnessRevamped If I'm quoting it, at least say the source, no? 😂

[RJGraveyTrain]

That doesn't sound healthy whatsoever. I think maybe you should see a doctor and first get his opinion on your weight before proceeding any further, not that I feel you should be gaining weight for the sake of a fetish, but to each their own.

See what your doctor says about your overall health and perhaps consider finding a balance between what your boyfriend finds attractive and what is actually physically good for you.

[phoenix2000]

I think he cares about u much than for himself I think

[NJ_Casanova]

I wouldn't change you're body. If he likes fat girls why did he go with you from the start?

It's your body and health.

[SlightlyCrazy]

This is selfish
He's sacrificing your health for sec

[princesschey]

this is clearly fake xxx

[Asadi]

is he attracted to u?
if yes then its ok