Why do black guys always complain about black women while dating white women? Why don't they just leave black women alone?

What is their problem? They literally spend all day bashing black girls and women, saying intraracist, colorist, sexist, basic misogynoirist shit about how black girls trashy, low class, the dark skins ugly, the worst stewards of children, stupid, complain about them wearing weave, but then in the next breath saying their natural afro hair is ugly, etc... the list goes on. What is their problem? Many black men will be on twitter, doing on Youtube, make skits, post whole documentaries about why they hate black women. I never see any other race of men do this. They look so stupid. I notice whenever black men date non-black girls, its usually not out of love or mutual respect, its because he's bitter about black women in some way shape or form and will literally, rant all day about how black women ain't shit and white women better or they suffer from some sort of self hate and see said girl as a trophy due to her skin color, even if she's ugly. Black women who date interracially rarely if ever down black men. They simply date a guy who likes them and who respects them and who loves them regardless of color. The only time black women have a problem with black men who date interracially is when they down or disrespect black women while doing so, which is 90% of the time. Also it seems a lot of black men go out of their way to make black women feel inferior. They like belittling black features, the same ones they share. If for one day black women treated black men how they treat black women, I swear it would hurt they feelings 1. I don't date dark skinned dudes. Ugly black ass. Light skins got better credit. 2. White boys is winning! They know how to take care of a woman and eat better pussy than any nigga. 3. Black men are useless af. Only good for one thing. Their dicks. 4. Black dudes better watch out, white boys getting big dicks too #replaceable 5. I love it when white boys sag their pants, when black guys do it they look ghetto though. Trashy muthafuckka's
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  • Clearly, you haven't met many hoodrats. Black women have a bad rep, it's true. You're pretty much romanticizing black women, like "Oh no woe is me" and demonizing black men. You're using generalizations just like those black guys are who are talking bad about black women.

    Though, black women are 3 times as likely to respond to black men than other races on OkCupid, according to their stats. And yeah, black men usually go after Latinas.

    But you act like the same guys dating white women are hating on black women. You just hear all this bullshit coming from a bunch of different sources, the qualify it under this big umbrella of "black guys". You gotta specify what type of black guys, otherwise you're just doing the same thing they're doing.

    • You sound like an idiot. Most black men marry black women. That's facts. Over 80% of black men marry black women. You act like Latina is a race. The same guys who date white women are the same ones bashing black women to uplift and praise white women, which shouldn't even be necessary. But since most of them are self hating it's not surprising that they do.

    • You sound like a black woman. And an idiot. Umad bro? According to various dating apps, black men want Latina women more than black women, even though black women are 3 times as likely to be receptive. Here's one of them: blog.okcupid.com/.../

      You're kinda proving the black women are shit stereotype, and the reason why 80% of them are single. There's some percentage for you. And I'm assuming your black, since your panties are in such a bunch.

      I wonder why black women are so undesired by literally everyone? Check Oprah for the source on that percentage, by the way. "That's facts." That, would be a fact.

      Are you angry because no one wants to fuck you? It's okay. I recommend taking up knitting.

    • And still you can't understand that LATINA IS NOT A RACE. There are black Latina's, white Latina's, and mixed Latina's. Latina IS NOT A race. Facts prove, most black men marry black women. And black men are the most unmarried group of men. Sweetie, no one wants black men either besides black women.

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  • Those black men feeling more free to say bad things about black women, because they black to, so SJW are not going to say nothing to them because of that, also those black men are trying to justify the fact that they are a traitors to their race by bushing black women.

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  • Black guys will talk crap about black women to me thinking it'll give them a chance. I shut that shit down real quick. My best friend is one of the most beautiful women I know. Her mom cared for me when my own parents were too busy to. And guess what? They are black. Not all black guys that date outside of their race are haters of black women. My ex is black and he wasn't like that. But there are definitely guys out there that hate black women and anyone that says there isn't is blind.

  • It's out of self hatred. Very sad. Dont bother with such lame dudes.

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  • Internalized racism?

  • Maybe they are trying to express why they like you more?

  • Right!! I never had to deal with it, but I see it happen a lot.

  • Because white women are fastes to jump out of panties. They are the biggest sluts in general and when they see black cock, they lose control.

  • It's called self hate. Guys like that usually don't even want to be black.

  • Well, it is an issue and I noticed a greater number of black women going after non-black men as well.

    One black woman said that she was happy with her white husband, since her black ex-boyfriend was a lazy good-for-nothing thug who lived off of her paycheck.

    • Black women largely don't prefer non-black men. We don't find them attractive. If you know one who does, its b/c she was hurt by a black guy and hates black guys now

    • Black women are very loyal to their race, even after all the shit they get from black men.

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    • @Berethor Personally i like that black men are dating out. Let's be real, black men are basically useless. If white women or other races of women want them, they can have them. In fact I get excited when black men date out. I honestly feel black women rather be single than marry outside our race. Black men are useless, cheat, and aren't good providers so if white women want them. They can have them. You want see me mad about it. I'm noticing more and more black women who feel the same way I do. In fact most black women are single, because they want to be

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  • "I notice whenever black men date non-black girls, its usually not out of love or mutual respect, its because he's bitter about black women in some way shape or form"

    Lol what? You sound very bitter in some waybshape or form

    • No one's bitter. Its something I've noticed. Black men and white women have a near 200% higher divorce rate compared to white-white couples

    • Even check youtube or go online. Black men ranting about black women all the while dating white women. If you're so happy with a white girl why are focused on black women. Leave black women alone

    • So you're saying that anytime a black guy is dating a white girl its because he is bitter towards black women? Lol that maybe the most ridiculous thing I've heard on this website And i hear a lot of dumb shit here

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  • Don't take people serious. İf you give importance on what people think then you can not be happy. Live your life and don't give a shit to anything.

  • Oh dear this again!! Maybe you should delete your social media.

    • So I can't go on Twitter, Youtube, forums, outside, or watch TV. Because it's a daily occurrence.

    • It's not for everyone, especially people who lose their shit over stuff they see over the Internet. Like seriously of all the things to get worked up over and you choose this.

    • Typical hotep response. Of course black girls are fed up with being demeaned, degraded, and shitted on for no reason. DAILY. And its coming from a majority of black men. So if this doesn't apply to you, then walk the fuck on out out of my question. But if it does, I must've hit a nerve.

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  • It's called attention whoring, delusional entitlement, validation seeking and a constant need for racial affirmation.

    • You're 100 years old. I didn't know they people in retirement homes use the internet

  • White guy checking in.

    You mad bro?

    • Of course, now I'm an angry black women for simply wanting to not be bothered. What kind of male logic?

    • Yeah. You're mad.

    • Oh wait you're a white male. One of the dumbest creatures in existence. Go back to your cave please

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  • I grew up in the suburbs, so I don't have much in common with inner city folks. Black women don't typically like me. All the black women I ever tried to hook up with shut me down. Meanwhile whit women would ask me out, and showed genuine intrest in me.

    • If you like whomever race, let it be out of love and not self hate.

    • So that statement makes you think I hate myself?

    • No...

  • I understand what you mean I always hear about how black men dislike black women, I have no clue why but I've heard about it.

    • At least you don't live under a rock

    • Thanks ahah, don't worry about it though, every other race likes black girls :)

    • I don't care if they like black girls or not. I just want people to leave black women alone.

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  • I don't complain about black women, and I'm dating an Asian woman at the moment not a white one. I asked out a black woman before my current girlfriend but she said 'no', she's just one woman though, I don't have a problem with all black women. I still work with the black woman who rejected me and everything seems to be going just fine. and I liked her 'fro by the way.

    Yikes I've never of heard most of the stuff you mentioned above and had to Google a lot of it.. while I'm not surprised that such things exist, my typical web haunts don't bring me across negative content like that, I'm curious why yours do; what do you search for, or who do you socialize with that causes this shit to pop up frequent enough that you felt you needed to post a rant on GAG?

    Sorry you've had such bad experiences with us, but I can't help with everyone else. Don't know what their prob is but best of luck dealing with it, take care!

  • Thank you for typing five paragraphs to validate your hypothesis. It made it so much easier to not take your question seriously at all.

    • I didn't actually state my hypothesis. if you read the question it was why they keep bothering black women if they hate them so much. Why not just leave black women alone and go be happy with Becky and Sarah?

    • Which black women are being bothered? All black women? The black women I know aren't being bothered. You're either totally delusional or denying the fact you're projecting an insecurity under the guise of a massive social issue.

    • The black women you know have never experienced colorism, back handed remarks, told they're pretty for a dark skinned girl, only valued for her body but not her personality? They must live in Eutopia.

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  • cuz they're racist against black women.

  • As a black man, I just mind my own business.