My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob/deep throat?

I've never done anything sexual. I've been talking to this guy in met on a dating sit. (He knows I've never done anything sexual) he seems to be ok with it. But, he keeps telling me he wants me to give him a blowjob and he's pretty big. He wants me to get it all the way in. I don't know how to do that. How can I give him the best BJ/deep throat? Please explain! Feel free to message me with the details.
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He's asked if I could get it all in my mouth. And I told him I would definitely try. But, I don't want him to be mad at me if I can't get it all in my mouth. He also told me he could walk me through it.
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  • the best one i received started with the girl licking slowly my whole dick from balls to the tip of it. then started sucking slowly only the tip, slowly went dpper and deeper. dont be shy to get crazier and spin ur head while his sick is in ur mouth and u going up and down on it. DONT USE TEETH! hold the shaft with one hand and suck the rest. go faster and faster. when its already in ur mouth, use ur tongue to play with it. when u get a bit tired dont leave it just like that, use ur hand to keep jerking him, fast. during the bj use ur hand to jerk the rest of the penis which isn't in ur mouth (if he's not too small).
    thats it i think. if i wasn't clear enough or u have ore questions, message me. good luck

  • 22 and never done anything sexual? Well time to start sis
    Just watch porn and read Cosmo or whatever lmao

    • Well, I'm waiting for that special someone. I don't want to do anything like that with just anyone. But, I feel like he might be that special someone:)

    • Bang away op

    • I think you should be allowed to do whatever you want to do. Your decision to reserve these things for someone truly special is actually admirable. I’ve always been in a sort of similar mindset to you, but to me it was more like someone I truly deeply love. But now I’m too horny to wait for things for so long and I don’t even know how other girls do it like I’m dying. So all I can say is - you do you!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Kidding, right?
    Let's begin with... WTH you get out of this?
    Comparing doing this to/for a stranger that comes with no health certificate and once naked doing sex is allowed full access to you, to do with as he pleases, once he takes his salesman mask off.

    Compare that to being with someone you've known for awhile & others know to be a sterling guy and then the both of you want to explore more intimate things...

    • maybe she wanna learn on someone she's not gonna be serious with so it doesn't negatively affect a relationship she cares about. go back to bed.

  • Don't do it, you don't need to degrade yourself to that. Tell him if he wants any of that he better put a ring on your finger and start providing for you, as the privileges of a husband only come with the responsibilities of a husband.

  • if you want to know oral se why are you starting with mouth fucking. it not fun. and you dont learn anything--except maybe how to not throw up, or that you can't help it.. he just pounds it in to your mouth.

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  • If you never tried it before it probably will be bad for you unless you don't have a gag reflex.

  • watch a porn.

  • You have to build up to it, don't do anything you're uncomfortable with! I'm sure he won't mind you practising a little and going slow!

  • when your sucking take a deep breath in through your mouth then realize your a dirty whore who needs to find jesus

  • If he's big he will know that most girls can't get it all the way in their mouths

    • it is always the big guys that are most confident and dominant cos they know all the girls will choke

    • @neilsmart not always!

  • Ride his face first and then ask him again :D

  • You better get it all down your throat or die trying.

  • Lol ima ask my girlfriend, she has no gag reflex, she lay's down with her head hanging off the bed nd I push my penis in all the way,, Wow really awwsome, bt most woman gets gagging..

    • that is really hot lol. Lots of guys have done that to me

  • Only do It if you want to do it. Don't let him "make" you do it

    • I mean I want to do. I want to know what oral is like. But, I just don't know if I can get him all in. I don't want to gag or throw up lol.

    • Just take it slow. It's your first time so if he's a nice guy he should understand. I've never received one so I can't say what it's like

    • And @AthleticMom is right. You really should save it for someone you've been with for some time. Not someone you've just met. He sounds a little creepy to me and those dating sites are full of them