What's the deal with young women today showing off how many guys have screwed them?

The amount of guys they have been fucced by, without a relationship. Look I'm talking about young women today having a problem where they show off about how pathetic they are, about how loads of guys keep fuccing them but are "bastards".. ? And these girls are telling everyone that they keep being so stupid to let "bastards" screw n' shoo them. I was at a university party, so yeah I'm on about university girls and these girls attitudes and sentiments generally make me feel so sad and hopeless. Girls are obsessed with getting drunk and playing drinking games at parties (because they have low confidence and self esteem, over flowing inhibitions and feel too insecure to just simply have a conversation about sex whereby they feel they need to use a game as an excuse to do so perhaps?). Well it was about 50% girls and 50% guys. The girls start playing some bull$hit game, and within a few minutes it has evolved into all but one of the girls in the room just shouting about how many guys have mutha fuccing fucced them for fucc sake. No they used the pathetic beat around the bush term "slept with" but the principle is right fuccing there man. How did the guys in the room respond? Unimpressed. All of us were quiet, awkward, embarrassed and ashamed for the girls, it was blatantly obvious that this made all the guys very uncomfortable.. and sad it is sad. Disappointing because y'know a lot of us were brought up to expect that we could find love with a beautiful, classy, respectable lady who is strong, confident and has actual self esteem. A real fuccing woman for fucc sake I've had enough of this $hit that is the generation I am a part of. The girls in my generation, mostly.. are just really disappointing. Look I believe in naughty, kinky sex, sexual freedom not sexual repression, a healthy sex life. But I also believe in what I described in the above paragraph, and I am ashamed to see women drunk and seemingly showing off about how many guys used them for a quick fucc?
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  • They are just very disrespectful females who are not women. They are not mature and show they would rather use a man for their pleasure, and don't care who they hurt. Then when they get called whores or a slut, they either get offensive, be proud of it, or say 'stop slut shamming'. But in reality when they see other women who don't act like them get the guy the other ones are interested in screwing around with, is actually happy and actually marry them with children on the way. They get pissed off and jealous. In truth a lot of guys don't have respect for those kinds of females, and actually ignore them when it comes down to marriage. My father used to be involved with those kinds of women when young, and now has complete disrespect for them. Now he's 53 and says he is very proud that I'm not like them. You have to be a better example for people. And I have received many compliments from guys who've also said they're glad I'm not doing like other girls are, even though they had sex with them. And wished other girls could be like me so they wouldn't have to feel forced to be somebody their not. But it's up to these girls to see what a real woman is supposed to be like. This is NOT sexual freedom, this is sexual bondage.

    • That's a very intelligent answer, and I can see you are courageous, proud and outspoken in your individuality. That's an awesome quality. Thank you.

  • I think it all depends on the person. I have seen both men and women behave in such a way. They act as though it is some kind of contest or competition to see how many people that they can have sex with. I believe that those kind of people are the ones whose minds have not developed beyond a juvenile high school mentality. Having sex with as many as they can gives them some false sense of accomplishment. I never understood it. This is why I date older and most of my friends are much older than me as well. Maybe you need to change who you hang out with.

    • Thank you.

  • The same as young men today, think its a competition to see how many women they can screw. So they mark them down on their shag tally. But men aren't happy when its the other way around. Both genders can be just as bad as each other in this sense. Using people at their disposal and being open about their love lives to all of their friends. Its not "fucc" darling its "fuck"

    • Sorry I habitually use internet curse to avoid being censored. I'm angry, but moreso sad. But anger is a by-product of sadness anyway.

    • Yeah, tell me about it. I'll be turning 25 this year and each year I feel like im becomeing more and more crabbit. lol.

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  • lol let them have their drinking games, i know better than that.

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  • Um men do the same thing. Girls like sex , we dont have an entire sex toy industry dedicated to women for no reason. Anyway, most girls just want sex nothing serious especially in their teens to 20's to early 30's. Yea, its a game for some but so is it for men. So if you get on women you need to have a convo with your sex as well.

    • I didn't say men don't do the same thing. I didn't mention fuck boys in my question at all, because they are not relevant to my question. I'm asking about women.

  • That's not something I have experienced...

  • Maybe to feel loved? I don't know. But it's stupid though.

  • 😑 Don't know but why don't u ask the girls that dose da 😛😛 p. s not all young girls dose that 😒😒

  • What, and men don't do that either?

    • I didn't say men don't do the same thing. I didn't mention fuck boys in my question at all, because they are not relevant to my question. I'm asking about women.

  • what's up with men showing how many woman they've screwed.
    #NOH8 #MYBODYMYCHOICE

    • I don't know. I don't do that. I think it's pathetic.

    • I don't either! but I think if we are going to judge one gender for their "sexual wrongs" (if you wanna call it that) than we need to judge the other, too!

  • Tl:dr

    I guess they're being like guys who feel the need to tell everyone how many girls they fucked

    • Are there young women who don't do this though? I mean.. I have like... two young women friends who don't do this excluding those that have autism.. it seems like the vast majority of women of our generation do this and it's really disheartening.

    • There are, yes.

    • Well how do I find them?

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  • Get over yourself, you act like they care what you think and have to live by YOUR standards, lol. Ignore and move on, d00d.

    • "Get over yourself" is a redundant term. It doesn't mean anything. It has no definition. It does not make sense. It is a signifier of mis-use of the English language while seemingly still believing that the English language is being used properly (in other words it is neither proper English or slang. It is nothing. It makes people cringe when they hear it.. presumably for the person saying it).

    • Your entire reply was moot then, lol.

    • Hahahaha. You're a hoot!

  • its funny how guys do something and then find that same act REPULSIVE and unbearable when a girl does it
    not just sex... even burping and spitting and stuff like that.

    guess what? girls are also turned off, unimpressed and grossed out by guys who do that

    i get what you mean... i just dont get it when guys talk about these things like they are entitled to something
    like i wouldn't go to a party and drink and the the next day go tell everyone how there was a party yesterday and everybody was drinking instead of focusing on their studies lol

    anyways, if you want a good woman, dont go where bad girls gather and then complain

    • You mean there seems to be an undertone of an opinion that guys can talk about who they screwed but girls ought not? I don't believe that myself. I very much believe in gender equality. Unfortunately a lot of people here seem to have gotten offended because I'm not complaining about the fuck boys too. I've had enough and seen enough of fuck boys and don't feel the need to talk about them generally. I don't associate with them, and they are a non-issue, hence why I didn't mention them in my question. The subject of my question are the girls who make up a shocking number of the girls I know and consider friends.. who much to my surprise and for me personally my disappointment, turned out to be kind of female equivalent of fuck boys. I think I was looking to be reassured that the majority of girls my generation are not like this.. well in my experience they are see and I find it disheartening, because I care a lot about sentimentality and humbleness.

    • ooohh ok well like i said , dont go to a strip club looking for your future wife lol there are PLENTY of people our generation who are far from being sex toys (or using others as sex toys) lol but i dont think many of them would hang out at college parties

  • So if a guy and a gal have sex, the guy is using them? It can go both ways, bro. You don't believe in sexual freedom. You feel that sex is something guys take and girls give up. Free your mind or own up that you only value relationships.

    • Also, if you don't like parties and party people (they usually date each other) find a new damn scene dude.

    • I.. thought I did own up that I only value relationships. Sorry did that not come across? That's exactly what makes me feel so hopeless.. and I'm talking about girls who are explicitly desperate FOR a relationship too, yet contradicting these claims in their drunken hollerings about all the "bastards" that had sex with them and they did not end up in a relationship with.. which appeared to be most. I like parties. I have a blast. I just don't appreciate the ridiculousness and shamefulness of drinking games, and as I stated, all the other guys were the same. Very soon after the start of that drinking game, all the guys just went non-conformist and refused to play. Soon thereafter just started talking about $hit, screwing around, ignoring the girls.. ended up in the other room having a discussion about Pro Wrestling before we went out haha.

    • You're not envisioning me as one of those sad sacks who goes to a club and looks all awkward and doesn't dance are you? Please don't. Just because I'm rather square where relationships are concerned, it does not mean I am a square. I go nuts at the club, dance the fucking $hit out of the place, no inhibitions whatsoever. And I don't get drunk as I don't believe in it. This is what I'm finding so frustrating, that so many people at university, especially the girls, are so inhibited, insecure and in short supply of self esteem. How did this happen to them? Who did this to them? It's such a horrible energy to be around. I'm saying these girls were all so negative too, except for the one dressed as Harley Quinn and the one who was not showing off about how many guys have screwed her. This one girl is a close.. friend.. except everyone finds her irritating because she's always complaining about everything. It's just so sad that so many young girls are like this. Like they're all broken..

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  • Same thing that's up with guys who do it and have always done it maybe?

    • What I can't understand is how a party with zero fucc boys, a social circle with zero fucc boys, turned out to, much to our collective surprises, be made up of many.. "fucc girls"? Would that be the appropriate term? A lot of the guys I know seem to have an issue with it, that the girls who are not the female equivalent of fucc boys seem to be an extremely rare species. Thing is though unlike fucc boys these girls don't seem happy about the fact they got screwed n' shooed, they seem bitter and angry, but they want to drunkenly tell everyone about it? It doesn't make sense..

    • And there's tons of gatherings with really good girls and fuck boys in attendance. It doesn't make a difference. And so many fuck boys seem bitter too. "I'm gonna fuck and leave girls whenever I want, because fuck girls, they're all bitches" and go on about whatever girl broke their heart and blame that for why they're now dicks. I'm not saying the girls are right, I don't agree with that kinda behavior, but I hate it just as much when men do it and really really hate how people go on about females behaving like this but not guys, because when it's guys "boys will be boys"

    • I very much dislike fuck boys too. They don't annoy me so much though as I just keep out of their way and merrily condescend them, take the piss out of their cringeworthy haircuts haha, and because I'm not gay, whereas with the girls it's a case of me being so disappointed to find it so difficult to find a truly humble, modest, sentimental woman who has a lot of respect for herself. I think when you think on it, it would make sense really for most of the people who complain about fuck girls to be guys, and most of the people who complain about fuck boys to be girls (and boy they sure do! .. these same girls actually.. well actually that's what these girls at this party were doing it seems - complaining about fuck boys making them into fuck girls and doing it in a way where it bizarrely seemed like they were showing off about it).

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