Men reject hot virgins?

[Anonymous]

im really looking for honest advice- this is not about the woman having flaws, or anything about her. Let's say there's a smoking hot woman- i mean she's a 10 ok hotter than a 10. Gorgeous, super nice caring sweet... let's say a great catch. She's great. Nothing wrong with her. The guys she's meeting though- i guess a lot is wrong with them, but this female is a virgin too- b/c she can't seem to find a guy who will even be a boyfriend- all the men she meets try to use or abuse her, or just mess with her head... recently, she met a guy- who she started liking who tried to tell her he wanted all these things... he was chasing her sexually and they had some oral sex a few times, but when she was interested in losing her virginity to him, he started playing more games and sort of stopped seeing her--they both talked about it too- why would a guy who's pursuing sex leave when a girl says she wants to have sex... it makes no sense. He really tried to bring her down and mess with her head, treat her like dirt.. he also had a really small d*ck--did he do this b/c he was insecure? another guy she sort of dated- tried to take her virginity a few times but he wasn't doing it the right way--he wasn't slow or cared and it didn't happen. Another old guy she dated, just wanted to control her and made fun of her virginity and didn't have sex with her- but he said she was the hottest woman he had ever seen. Why the hell are these guys abusing a beautiful hot virgin, just trying to put her down and terrorize her? the old guy admitted he was jealous of her--

[NexAngelus]

how can a guy be jealous of a female... we a guys not females. females are jealous of other females.

my biggest thing is trainning. think of it like a puppy. they are so cute but u have to potty train them, they chew on everything, and are just a pain in the butt overall. u have to weigh that to how cute that puppy is to how much work they are.

now to how much they fuck with u? thats just pathetic. tiny dick was probably just scared because he was proably a virgin and probably thought u were saying that to fuck with him. when i was in HS i open admited i was a virgin and everyone thought it was a hilarious game i played to fuck with people. and this went on even after i had a steady girlfriend in HS. others talked about it, the girlfriend ran around bragging about what we were up to all the time so i never understood it anyway. but he might of thought u were going to judge him as maybe he sucked at sex.
2nd guy clearly was a tool bag, has no care at all for how u feel? shit i treat girls i give money better than he treated u... some guys should of just been swallowed by their mothers.
as for the old man, well depending on his age, he probably had erictile disfunction or something. he clearly wanted to play around with u but was scared of somethng.

guys are a lot more shallow than a lot of people think, and usually that shallow does fall back on themselves as well. if someone does not know how to communicate in a relationship or does not trust there is no real relationship. u had clear issues in all these relations, hope u learned something at least.

now for my 2cents on this: taking u at ur word, a 10, this would make the juice worth the squeeze as i love :) to say. oddly enough most people dont think about sex a lot even though they act or talk about it a lot... meaning they are lost when it comes time for sex. odd right? this is where u are getting confused. u dont realize this yet. u might not of had sex but u might be thnking about sex more than these other people, thus being on another level. its not hard to tell especially when u are around the person a lot. u need to find a guy that cares about u and likes sex as much as u. u get both of those u will be happy.

[Asker]

wow.. thank you finally for an intelligent opinion- seriously... thank you!! you're the only remotely normal person here. The rest are freaks that escaped hell or something... the 1st guy- i dont think he was a virgin because, from what I know he had several relationships in the past, BUT she did say that he mentioned about how "you can please each other without penetration." Does that mean that, he wasn't too interested in sex really because of his small dick? I'm sure maybe he did suck at sex... and the old guy- he probably did have sexual dysfunction- though I believe he had sex with othres, but he would say that, she was the only one that 'got him hard." Or maybe he couldn't get it hard... anyhow... this does make a lot of sense... thanks for being normal too!!

[Asker]

But the thing is, the 1st guy was pursuing sex and he talked a lot about things he wanted to do with women, i think. But the minute the girl wanted sex, he took off. Do some guys just get scared of sex or performance? or they're all talk... it blows my mind, that guy would run away the minute a girl wants sex. It seems to make no sense.

[Asker]

so the small dick and old guy- were both insecure and lacking in performance probably, so rather than try to have sex with her, they wanted to mentally abuse her and break her down due to their lack of being able to perform or insecurities, make her want them and lead her on, thinking that's the only way they can save their egos or themselves from embarrassment?

[NexAngelus]

performance ;) im like not normal at all hehe. that first girlfriend would come over and jump on my bed and get my karma sutra book collection out of the head board. then she would flip around till she found something that looked interesting and we would try that for the day. some people have high sex drives i apparently make them look low. but we both thought about sex a lot. even though both of us were virgins actually... even though no one believed me lol. if something came up one of us would try to figure something out to work around it to keep the other happy. both of us seemed to have a keep the other one happy mentality as well which also works very well. but even now at my age, there are real tests u can do, to test a female during sex to make sure she is NOT faking things. i spend a lot of extra energy doing this stuff to make sure i am actually making her "happy". as there was only one girl i could not and i would not have a relationship with someone i couldnt make happy.

[NexAngelus]

it would kill me every time we had sex, like literally. i have to know she is satisfied just as i am or its just not the same. but as u have sex more and more with that person, u will get to know what they like and how they move and little things like that. the sex will get a lot better. so its kind of funny that people who dont want to be in relationships. statistically u have more and BETTER sex in a relationship. so if u wanted a relationship... u have a relationship. if u wanted sex... u have a relationship. lol so why people dont want a relationship is beyond me.

[Asker]

oh ok.. wow well, I guess women out there are looking for a guy who's normal and thinks that way. I think its hard to find for a lot out there. The whole situation is just shocking. I personally dont have a lot of sex with my husband but we did that many years ago. We're just too busy with kids now. My cousin is really really struggling because of these crazy guys out there. I feel so bad for her and she's frustrated and even going to a therapist about it but no one will give herr answers. I'm just going to do what I can to find out why these people are acting this way. life's too short to play games like this. But thanks for your help you're a gem, the others here are mentally ill and sick people

[Asker]

i agree too- I know some guys just want a one time thing and to ditch a girl- but I think for a lot of guys is about lying to a girl or playing her. There are some sick people out there. It baffles me why a guy wouldn't want that. the few Bf's I had wanted sex a lot to a point where I got sick of it. These weirdos are running away from it- not sure what is going on

[FakeName123]

Everyone has flaws. And thinking you don't have is also a flaw.
Additionally if a pattern in someones life repeats, that is no coincidence, but means you are part of the problem.

That being said - some guys will refuse to date a virgin, but I doubt its overly much.

[Asker]

no this isn't about the woman who's being abused having flaws.. as most nasty men will try to put her down... the guys are psychotic.. i mean seriously

[FakeName123]

Your replies show that you have some serious mental issues. But hey, if you are so hot - you surely could show yourself off and let us judge.

[Anonymous]

First off, a lot of guys out there are players, and liars
A lot of guys are insecure too. These guys your talking about sound like
they have some SERIOUS mental issues. For a guy to reject a woman who is pretty and a virgin is odd, but playing games with her

She's meeting some jacked up people, or they're insecure and have issues. Honestly it's hard to answer this one

[Dog19]

Stop being a fuckIng asshole. Leave him alone, you need therapy if you want him to die just because he's trying to help you.

Your the nut job here miss.

[YoungAndInnocent]

You are crazy. What's with all the physco insults? I hope "your friend" stays away from you and I wish her luck.

[This_is_my_username]

I feel as though this Q has been posted before... I'm not sure though.

[BiscuitesSwag]

Your mental issues are the problem. 😷

[thatkaruguy]

i not joking this time but seriously you might want to consider going to a therapist. you have some issues

[WalterRadio]

You might try a different older guy.

[TheWaterBear]

Watch out, man. Read her replies. She's nuts.

[Asker]

you're nuts the waterbear... really sick people here.. scary ass place... her ex was 55.. so no not older men

[TheWaterBear]

I've seen this same exact scenario posted many times in the last two years. You have issues, asker.

[Cosytoasty]

Oh you're back? Someone has let you out of the nuthouse.

[TheWaterBear]

@TheOneLol I've seen her several times before... same old story about how she (or in this case "her friend") is such a hot person who is a 10/10 who gets treated like crap by everyone, while ugly women get treated nice. Yawn.

[TheWaterBear]

The irony of her scathing, psychopathic rants combined with her telling people that THEY are the crazy people... is delicious.

[99percentangel]

Um most men I know and especially on here only want virgins.

[Asker]

so why would men reject a virgin who's gorgeous a model a great person and just want to abuse her and mess with her head...

[99percentangel]

I have no idea. Did this actually happen? or? I doubt any guy would reject a girl like that.

[Asker]

yes it happened- to someone who is super pretty and a great person, multiple times

[99percentangel]

She must be going after all the wrong guys..

[Asker]

that doesn't explain why multiple guys are doing this to her, i know someone else who just gets rejected off the bat- and she's really beautiful too..

[99percentangel]

Maybe there is something wrong with her because everything you said about her sounds like she's perfect so I don't understand why guys would reject her. There has to be something wrong about her then, but I mean I honestly don't know I would have to meet her in real life.

[Asker]

no i dont think so- she's a really good person.. so is another good friend of mine who looks like someone men would be chasing. I know plenty of ugly women with mental disorders who can get any guy they want

[99percentangel]

@asker I really have NO idea. I just wish her luck and hope she gets better chances with other guys.

[Asker]

most women I've met are controlling, psycho, bipolar not on meds, the guys are screwed up too.. so ur saying that kind beautiful women with no issues who are getting abused by crazy men are the ones with issues... where do u people come from

[akadatank44]

I wouldn't reject a hot virgin especially the way you described her. Sounds like a cactch!

[Iron_Man]

I dont ever reject virgin women, I respect them

[Asker]

that's good- but what would be the reason for men to do this to women

[Iron_Man]

I guess they won't put out is why

[Asker]

but the virgin wants to have sex and is getting rejected

[Iron_Man]

I guess he never liked the girl well enough or he thinks she would be lousy in bed.

[Asker]

i dont thnk a virgin would be lousy in bed... or that doesn't make much sense but ok

[Iron_Man]

That being said is a long shot he probably does not like the virgin gurl. You keep asking me all kinds of questions so I had to throw out many examples

[Asker]

all these guys pursued her, so they did like her... theyre the ones who chased her...

[Iron_Man]

Then they respect her virginity and don't want to take it from her but they are attracted to her and they want her in there life.

[Asker]

they don't... theyre playing head games with her and abusing her badly--most are acting like sociopaths

[Iron_Man]

Then that's pretty messed up those losers. Tell her to stay away from them.

[Asker]

i agree... these guys are crazy but trying to figure out why theyre acting this way.. thanks

[orphan]

post a pic.

[anonman32]

virginity should not have to matter.

[TheOneLol]

1) You are not perfect
2) Those guys are idiots

[Asker]

this doesn't even answer the question, and its not about me... you people here really stupid

[TheOneLol]

All guys like virgins more. I won't bother explaining why but know its the truth with 90% guys.

[Asker]

whats wrong with all the psychotic men here--abusing people asking questions... this place is scary. So many sociopaths here it's disturbing... all the sociopaths will get blocked right away. didntknow a question like this attracts so many mentally sick and ill nuts

[BluntlyHonest]

Heyyyyyy it is youu agaaain

[bobtish]

I dont care

[Anonymous]

Maybe she's crazy or something... Just guessing.

[Asker]

no she's not crazy--she has a masters degree and is a pretty cool person who goes to concerts, has fun travels etc... the guys are crazy obviously. these are unhelpful and stupid answres

[Opinion Owner]

Some crazy people have masters degrees too.

[Anonymous]

Men want sex.

[Anonymous]

So you really still wanted to have sex with that guy after you discovered he had a small penis? And how small are we talking? Statistical average?

[Asker]

this isn't about me its about someone i know who is even a pageant contestant and guys treat her this way... and yes she wanted sex with him cuz she felt a connection to him but then he took off

[Opinion Owner]

"you're the only nutjob who needs a therapist... also try jumping off a cliff.. you have no life... deranged freak" "lol... no YOU have mental issues... where do you creeps even come from... harassing women on their postings.. you're crazy.. this isn't even about me its about someone close to me... weirdo.. im married... get lost cock sucker..." You seem to have some anger issues.