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How to get casual sex with average looking women?

Most of women told me that they had casual sex only with particularly hot guys and that doing it differently doesn't make much sense. I've also asked guys about their casual sex and pretty much it all boiled down to the fact that their sexual partners were their girlfriends, while if they managed to pull some casual sex, it was with some ugly, usually fat and drunk girl. I also know a guy who is constantly fucking new girls, but he looks like a male model. So basically, if you aren't hot (and from statistical view, hot guys are few % of male population), just forget about casual sex with non-ugly, non-fat, average looking woman?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Look, I have always desired casual sex not unlike you, however I have realized as I have aged that, despite my fantasies, it's not really who I am as a person. I say this because I'm not particularly outgoing and in all fairness I don't circulate much or rather I didn't when I was single. My point is, while I have never been a big fan of being a "player" the fact of the matter is if you want to play you have to get on the field (ironic because I don't play sports) anyway, in order to achieve success in having more casual sex, you have to actually circulate (socialize) my logic following this route; more, the more you circulate the more women you will meet, the more women you meet, the more likely it is you will meet some who are receptive to casual sex.

  • Average women tend to have more of the worst kind of girls (which makes sense given there's more of average), cause most guys are ok with average women because, well, there's more average guys, and those guys that are above average, most tend to be a bit scared of approaching hot girls because it's more difficult to be rejected by a hot girl than an average one.

    Anyways, this means average girls think they're above average, due to the attention they get, so they become bitchy, conceited, and will only go for hot guys. So if you want an average girl, you gotta be hot.
    I'd recommend you to go for the most attractive girls, they tend to be the best.

    • so have you banged any hot woman in a casual way?

    • Yep, I haven't had sex with average, except for one.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've seen people of all shapes, sizes and looks that have casual sex, its just finding that person that you mesh with and want to be on the level with.

    • have you have seen it? Were you present at such events?

    • yeah I know some people who sleeping with not the most attractive people

  • Ask a average woman if she wants to have casual sex?

    • that's bad idea^TM. If you aren't attractive and ask that, you can quickly be seen as perv and they get insulted/feel threatened.

    • Do you say yes to head either giving or receiving or to casual sex? Ever turned it down or accepted?

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  • I am of the firm belief that if you want casual sex all you need to do is approach as many women as possible. Basically I believe there are plenty of women who would respond well to it simply because no one else is.

    • did it work for you?

    • I have not tried because I dont want to.. and I am very very shy~ Anyway this is something I have seen other people try with varying degrees of success like for example a woman that got like 5-8 other women to say they would not mind having sex with her. (not sure if she went through with any of them)

    • > doesn't get a lay > gives advice about getting laid OK.

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  • Casual sex with average looking women is not difficult for average men, it just takes a lot of effort. I'm not particularly attractive and am a bit overweight, and I calculated it takes roughly 30 to 40 hours of responding to ads, writing ads, writing emails, flipping tinder, etc, for each sexual encounter. So when I spent all my free time after work each night, and most of the weekend, I was having sex with a different girl each week.

  • The number of actually attractive girls who have casual sex isn't as high as people like to believe. In fact the prettiest girls I've seen/known dont go in for that. It's usually the ones that are just the high side of average.

    To get them you just need some alcohol, a slick tongue (pun intended) and to be in shape.

    • did it work for you, and if it did, was she average looking?

  • You can get any girl with these components:
    -courage to talk to women
    -self confidence that you are the shit
    -ability to touch women comfortably

    I taught on of my friends who went from NEVER had a girlfriend his whole life to his 30s to dating regularly and has a stable girlfriend.
    His swag is better than mine.

    • probably he just became attractive by lowering body fat.

    • No, he didn't.

  • Ask them.

  • Average women think they are hot. Just stick to ugly women :D

    • they are not hot, but most of them are perfectly fuckable. for a female, average male as ugly.

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