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Is it normal for my boyfriend to ask me for nudes everyday?

It's an everyday thing unless I see him that day and it's starting to get very annoying. He wants me to basically stop everything that I'm doing to strip and take naked photos. Why would someone need photos everyday if they 1) already know how you look and 2) have photos of you already? Then if I don't send him photos, he'll talk about how I don't love him or I'm a bad girlfriend. Guys: would you ask for nudes everyday?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'll answer this question in two parts.

    First about the pics: It is definitely more than normal if he asks for them everyday, but maybe he just has a really high sex drive or is crazy about you. And 1) Just because he knows what you look like doesn't mean he can create a perfect visual image in his head 2) Because its completely different to have you personally take a picture for you that he hasn't seen before (even psychologically) and 1 picture can get boring pretty fast.

    Secondly: You should definitely talk to him about it. Tell him that it's too much and that you're happy sending him but sometimes you just have other things to do. He shouldn't be trying to guilt you if you're too busy to take pics.

  • No I wouldn't need a nude photo everyday. Hell I rather never get one and you get naked in the bedroom a few times a week. I think the sex drive is pretty high, he enjoys have tons of nudes to reflect on during and after the relationship and/or he likes having a new photo to beat off to everyday. Either way it's kinda troubling.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Do you see him everyday?

    If not, men are very visual creatures.
    He's in his 20's, so he probably still jerks off once a day.

    He wants pictures because YOU turn him on. He wants to look at YOU when he jerks off.

    I mean, I'd take that as a giant freaking compliment. If you know he asks everyday, take pictures in advance for him. ;}

    Maybe in the early morning or at night.

  • I get him being super into you an all, but yeah that's a bit annoying, especially since he gives you a guilt trip afterwards. I wouldn't take that shit. I'd tell him that A) He has plenty and B) If he loved ME he wouldn't be a spoiled little brat who puts me down every time I don't do what he wants, and if he ever wants to get another picture (or better yet, more than that) he'll shut the front door.

  • Obsession.
    I'm very aware of this. Had LDR with someone who became obsessed with wanting pictures all of the time and even with Skype. After awhile, it's a freaking turn off. You'll get sick and tired of it and wanna find excuses to not see him, nor to send anymore pictures. Put an end to it and control him.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

  • If my boyfriend is asking to me to send nudes i won't be doing it, i'll just tell him that i'll come over and see it for himself. I actually dont like sending stuff through messages or anything that will leave an evidence because someone might see it accidentally.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Would you rather he ask other girls?

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    • Rhetorical question.

    • Show him your butt, what's the big deal? Trust me... I am an old Army boy. Pick a nice girl, and be nice to her. But nobody said you shouldn't want to see her naked.

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  • That's ridiculous.. I'd tell him it's getting annoying and to stop asking. If he doesn't respect that, then that's a big problem.

  • I think he's a control freak and gets off on you jumping into action when he snaps his fingers. Yesterday's nude is just as good as today's for him to jerk off to.

  • I don't think that he really need that anymore, he just like you doing it again and again.

  • He needs to grow up. Stop sending nudes... TO ANYONE... FOREVER!

  • I would ask for nude photos once, but that's about it.
    If your boyfriend wants them everyday then belittles you like that if you don't...
    Find another boyfriend!
    You deserve better respect than what he is showing you.

  • I think he's being really immature. You don't have to send him nudes at all if you're not comfortable. If he can't accept that you have a life and not always time to stop everything you're doing just to take nakes selfies, you should dump him 💁🏻

  • The only situation I ever heard that was akin to this was this punk that was daily sharing those nudes with "friends" that otherwise wouldn't associate with him. A new version of the Daily Show.

    • I hope not.

    • Then please post WHY if/when you find out

  • Just tell him that you decide when to send him nudes, you don't have time to do his bidding. He is being completely unreasonable, and do you know what he is doing with them?
    He could be sharing your nude pics with his mates, or selling them on the internet, yo need to take control and tell him he can go unless he does what you say!

  • No this is an unhealthy obsession. The nude pictures via mobile phones. And excessive masturbation connected to being exposed to porn.

    He is manipulating you and making you guilty to get what u want.

    Personally when it starts to happen more than twice. I'd just end the relationship on the spot. This guy has lost his mind to porn addiction and masturbation.

    • He is being inconsiderate of your feelings too.

    • He is probably trading with other guys too.

    • "He is probably trading with other guys too." Based on what?

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  • Definitely not. Few nudes can be OK, but definitely not daily. There's a big possibility he share these pics with friends to show off how he's the king.

    • Damn sounds like you have experience with that.

  • Not everyday no once in a while or if I haven't seen them for a while but definitely not every day

  • Nudes are for fools...

  • sure, as long as your his girlfriend lol why not

  • He seems like he's just using you because you're an easy target for nudes or maybe sex, tell him he's being fucking annoying and leave his ass, he might be asking other girls for nudes too.

    • do you guys not just have sex? I don't understand why'd he want nude photos everyday when most guys want sex.

    • Especially how he guilt trips you if you don't send any. I know I'd leave him.

  • It isn't I think you must kick his ass out of your life. He is such a horny guy.

  • No. Who asks for nudes EVERY day? I ask for nudes like twice a week max.

    • Probably because you’re getting nudes from men. HA. Nah, just messing with ya.

  • He cares about you, and thus he's attracted to you.

    Therefore, he can't get enough of you, sexually or romantically, so to him it's a form of intimacy. I'd be flattered, but if it's a real problem, talk to him about it.

  • Totally wrong
    U must not let him do it again
    He may threaten u if both of you break up

  • He jerks off with looking ur naked pics

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