As a BDSM submissive, how do I become more assertive in my life OUTSIDE of the bedroom?
1. How do I act assertive, instead of as a pushover at my job? (I tell my fellow employees what to do/my bosses tell me what to do)
2. How do I speak up to my Dom, outside of the bedroom; as a B. D. S. M submissive? (I fear he will get mad/we'll fight--we never got in a HUGE fight yet!!) *Note* We still didn't make rules/our limit lists... but we have a good idea of our limits.
3. Aren't submissives usually dominant outside the bedroom?
4. Are we only to be submissive to our Dominants?
5. I am a lot stronger than I appear, and I want to express this side of me too; just not sure how! Will learning how to be assertive outside of the bedroom HELP me become a better submissive IN the bedroom?
Can you please help me as much as possible? Thank you, to you all! <3
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