Ladies does it annoy you if a guy doesn't let you take control while making out or during sex?

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I dont know why but for some reason I always enjoyed being in control during these scenario.

in the past whenever I made out with any of my Exs I always liked to take the action. I would enjoy kissing them in their necks but whenever they tried to reach for my neck I would lean in closer so they won't reach for mines and let me continue on theirs and whenever they try to touch me somewhere else during the act I would kinda push their hand away and if they insisted I would either slap them away or grabbed their risk and pinned them against the wall so they won't insist further.

during sex whenever we were in doggy I would grab them by their hips and kept my arms stiffed so they won't back into me and do the work for me. I rarely allowed them to go on cowgirl and whenever I let them I would always tried to turn them around into missionary just because I like to be the one in control.

but I dont know, do women actually find this annoying? a guy who likes to be in control during love all the time?

Azara · Accepted Answer

yeah its annoying and then its obnoxious and then its just disrespectful and i break up with him what you're describing is bullshit. im tactile so if i can't touch someone its fcking boring and im assertive so if someone tries to control me it pisses me off and turns me off. i feel combative not sexual.

i dont mind both of us taking charge intermittently but there's no way in hell is out y with what you described. I don't know why you think its so cute.

bet leading does not mean blocking her moves. it means starting off so she has something to react to. try watching a dance where the lead slap the other person overtime they move lol.

i dont see se as a situation im going to be letting him let me do things. we either flow or we dont.

WillowTree · Accepted Answer

I prefer a 70/30 split. I'd rather let him dominate me but when I want to take over and ride him, he should let me do it until I get tired. If I feel like stopping to blow him to kingdom come he should just lay back and enjoy the mini-break. I would be annoyed if he never let me do anything. Sometimes I want to be the one to make him moan and squirm or I want to change into a position that is comfortable for me. He might not be stimulating my body enough and I want to move his hand there. Or I might want to reach down and touch his balls to give him a thrill. I think full on dominance is too much. May as well be fucking a blowup doll.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

I prefer when the guy takes control, however, what you're describing seems to be a bit much. You don't even like being touched by her or the cowgirl position? That's one of my favorite positions so I would be bothered if my guy never let me do that. It's possible for the guy to still be in control while the girl is on top though.

Smmyskittles · Accepted Answer

Exact opposite. - I'm going to challenge you for power and push you, test you, piss you off [[ Proud to be a Brat ]] So, this, sounds hot. Don't stop, keep doing it.

AlexMcGlynn · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend certainly finds that annoying so we split out sessions to two halves when the mood is right of course, I would top first then she would force me to bottom.

bcromartie · Accepted Answer

Annoy. Interesting word choice. I like this.

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

Doesn't offend me if a guy wants to be in control but I like to please him too, so if he never let me do anything for him ever it'd bother me.

fauchelevent · Answer

I would find that annoying, yes.

SarahsSummer · Answer

Tl;dr I'm sure many women are dom's but I prefer him to take the lead.

EllieLexis513 · Answer

No, it annoys me when he wants me to take control. I hate being in charge during sex but, then again, I'm not really into sex in general.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

I rather have the girl take control.. since it's more important to me that she enjoys our time together.

neilsmart · Answer

the guy should always be in control and I let the guy do whatever he wants

redridinggirlTR · Answer

i get annoyed if the guy doesn't take the control.

BullMush · Answer

Yes that'd be annoying and selfish.

datgirl · Answer

I would actually like that very much.

sicosico · Answer

Not at all I like him to be in control

Pulcinella · Answer

Yes, it's very annoying, I prefer to be in control.

Anonymous · Answer

no, I like for him to take control, and dominate me

Anonymous · Answer

If it's always like this, every single time, yes, it would be a problem

Anonymous · Answer

Na, I like that

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah that would not work for me like at all. I personally like to be in control during love all the time as well. I can't get there unless I'm on top so it really would not work for me.