Why is penis size such a big deal but the vagina size isnt?

[Anonymous]

people are all caught up about the size of a man's dick but never question the size or the appearance of the women's vagina. It seems like in modern times, we've put the size of a man's dick on such a pedestal that relationships can end or flourish depending on it. If the dude is small then leave him for a guy that's bigger. but if a woman is too loose, no one seems to care. the men dont seem to care if the woman has a loose vagina. as a matter of fact, the woman would more likely say it is the guy who can't satisfy her so she would seek a better mate. such is her right. the Point is, where and when did this idea of a one sided judgement of the genitalia of men and women? Why is it more important to have a big dick than to have a small vagina? I've never heard of a woman saying her vagina is too loose or a man left a woman because of it.

[anonman32]

you know i was reading on a wikipedia page lately about 1001 nights. these are collected stories from the islamic golden age, and guess what? there is a little poem about how everybody is obsessed with penis size. this is in a different culture in a different time.

as a matter of fact, the vaginal canal can come in many forms and sizes and therefore it is also a factor to have good sex. as much as some women want you to believe not all vaginas can take every penis size AND have satisfying sex.

i would say that it is important to address this, why are there so many men worried about their penis? it comes from somewhere. we should point out that vagina size and shape is equally important to penis shape and size.

[jacquesvol]

If the girl has this size:

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There's a problem.

[BuchitaBuchys]

"but if a woman is too loose, no one seems to care."

Lmao ok. That's a blatant lie and you know it. There are all these "loose pussy" jokes everywhere.
Some guys literally believe that promiscuity affects tightness.
Men DO CARE if her vag is loose, that's why many men prefer virgins, because they believe they're tighter, amongst other things.

And women with big labia also get called "roast beef pussy". Do you really believe that labioplasty is so common because women are never shamed for their vaginas?

So there IS shame for women's genitals.
You just choose to ignore it because it doesn't benefit your "poor men!" Agenda.

Shaming small dicks and loose vag or outties is all wrong.

[AlwaysAGoodDay]

all vaginas are tight if you have a thick D :)

[Asker]

There's also penile surgeries. But societally I believe men are shamed much more for the size of our dicks and what it looks like. Everywhere you look on the internet or the media it's always the size of his dick and if "he's big enough" or "how to get bigger dicks" or "he's small so automatically he's a lesser man based from shit I heard from everyone else" I am sure women are shamed for their genitalia too however it's not as talked about and judged about than men

[Hidden_P]

Because women don't measure the circumference of them actual, horny, afterwards, etc. It's a bit harder than a tape measure. What we supposed to do, shove it up there and get a mirror and do a quick connect the dots?

Men obsess over penis size. Quite honestly women see dicks as tiny, small, medium, large and fuck no.

Stop being insecure. Women are too busy in the kitchen and doing your washing to measure our snatches as well.

[DandelionGirl]

So now you're gonna make a big deal about a womans vagina? wow, take bitchiness to a whole new level. If your penis is too small, its not the girls fault. Get a grip, grow a pair of balls or ten and go with your life. Stop trying to make an argument happen... no wonder all men are gay today.

[anonman32]

lol your insecurity is showing, you get a grip... down there lol.

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 woah... first of all, down there is perfect. I dont appreciate little boys being condescending and turning a situation inside out.

[anonman32]

"condescending little boys"? you attack the askers masculinity and penis size, you tell him to grow a pair and you attack his penis size. then you have the arrogance to call all men gay? it is you who is condescending here. you are a toxic misandrist.

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 omg lol, you're funny. Im neither of that LMAOO.

[Asker]

I am asking why the topic of men's dick is more dominant and more judged for than woman's vaginas. As in facts and ideas of how this came to be.

[anonman32]

because women are more insecure about their vaginal canal than men are about their penis. also you know you have a rotten apple if she attacks your penis when you discuss her vagina.

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 im not attacking anyone, oh and yeah my apple is so rotten... like you know what the hell I have.

[Asker]

We're getting off track here. My question is why do people, in their minds, hold the topic of men's manhood to a higher standard than women's. That's all. I wouldn't dump a girl if her vagina is loose or looks weird. I've dated mom's and that was never the issue. I want to know why society says the man is worth the size of his dick.

[anonman32]

@dandeliongirl i was talking in general. why do you think its about you, or do you have reason to?

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 because you labeled me as a misandrist, I'm not even close to that!

[anonman32]

you called all men gay.

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 in NY they are... can't find a straight man anywhere. Except maybe the gym.

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 but that doesn't mean I hate men.

[anonman32]

well yeah i personally think that its wrong to call us gay if we question some womens vaginal canal. there is nothing wrong with a larger canal or a smaller one for what you have. but not all people "fit" and its not always the fault of the penis. we are not gay for that. thats just my personal opinion.

[DandelionGirl]

@anonman32 based on his question, I don't hold a penis to a higher standard at all. If he's got a small penis then I won't judge him. Maybe other shallow women do but I have no say in his penis size. And it's not a woman's fault either if she's loose or tight, all vaginas are different just like dicks are. I don't like it when people try to flip the situation and blame it on the woman.

[anonman32]

i agree.

[JHAYES317]

If anything because the guy can’t change it’s dick, that would make it the woman’s fault no because she can do kegels

[Anonymous]

Wut? You're making all this up.

Also, tons of questions about labia size and color on here.

[Soteris]

But are people REALLY that obsessed about penis size unless its one of the extremes? Besides I dont think you fully understand what makes a vagina "tight" and etc..

[frenchtoast11996]

Yeah

[kjohns83]

Because all vaginas are roughly the same size

[mikemx55]

All penises are roughly the same size

[frenchtoast11996]

Lol @ women having nothing different to offer men. They all just have the same thing. A hole between their legs and they all feel the same. Just lol. At least men have different penis sizes.

[kjohns83]

@mikemx55 No they aren't... They vary from very small to very large, from like 3 to 9 inches

[mikemx55]

that's usually the difference between non-aroused vs aroused though

[kjohns83]

@mikemx55 No soft, there is variation in size... some guys are small and some guys are large. Obviously there is an average, but there's still more variation than with vaginas.

[JHAYES317]

False…there is a lot of variance actually. Not as much as penis size but it definitely still happens

[Mesonfielde]

Because vagina size isn't obviously visible at a glance.

[Bandit74]

It's always the guys fault for everything else, why would this be any different?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Victim complex of GaG lmao

[CasaNorba]

I agree with @Bandit74 all the way!

it is always the man's fault one way or another. haven't you notice that the same occurs with performance too. I rarely hear women being scorned for performing terrible in bed and another thing is why is there viagra and other sex enhancement products for men yet so far they have nothing for women?

[Tlala70]

I'd like my vag to be on a pedastle lmao

[wejustouthere]

Because men today are bitches and white nights who can't give women truth or accpuntability

[APRU5]

The thing is they thing big is better so first time they get it big so they get streached so when they have a smaller guy they dont feel it. But if she had been with regular guys then she might have felt it.

[frenchtoast11996]

Penis size?

[Sabathwolf]

Vaginas size does matter. My ex wife was so loose after having a baby that I could barely get any sensation from her. I could put my whole hand and half my arm in her.

[Anonymous]

it's the boob size that matters

[Anonymous]

Because in the western world, The woman is never wrong. Ever. That's if you want some pussy, anyway.

[Anonymous]

Well vaginas don't work that way...

[Anonymous]

Guessing because a vagina can't be easily measured. Perhaps the Japanese should invent a vagina gauge the measures depth and width and every girl should know her numbers and tell us before we start spending money on them. Since we know our size, we can spare ourselves embarrassment and just veer off.

[Anonymous]

Because it's not obvious to see like the penis