Keeping a bra during sex yes or no?

I have small boobs 32b but I have a lot of stretch mark because I lost a lot of weight and after I take them back. Now I do a diet and my boobs have a lot of stretch mark and are really saggy too so that's make me really insecure. I prefer to keep my bra and not let my boyfriend see them.
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  • Girls don't seem to understand that we do not need perfect models. Appearances is not all we look for (most of us anyway). Your appearance is but only a fraction of what makes you attractive. When we judge women on their beauty in magazines or the girl who just passed us, it's all about how she looks, the other things like personality do not factor in. It is like judging a painting, the esthetics of it. I wouldn't want to be with that perfect looking woman if she was boring and had no interests other than her own beauty. Most of us want substance and will overlook such imperfections. If your boyfriend loves you, I am sure he will be much more saddened by the fact you do not trust him enough to show him your breasts than by the look of them.

    • yes, I know but he's so picky about it. Does they have a difference how you judge a person if it's only a one night stand or you judge her body the same as your gf?

    • I would say yes. The sole reason for a ons is to have sex. Imagine your dryer broke and you called a repairmen to fix it. If you had to judge the repairmen, you would do so only on the aspect of his work. That's all you know him for. You don't really care that the guy is a family man who never cheated or that he plays poker with his buddies every Friday. You only care about him fixing your dryer. Same thing for a ons. She will be judged on how she looks and her talents in bed. That is to be expected.

    • So he ll not judge me as hard as he do with his fuck buddy?

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  • We aren't picky about the details like girls are. Your saggy, stretch marked petite boobs become irresistably beautiful during sex. And its the nipples that really matter. Please take off your bra.

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  • Girl! He knows what you've been through and he doesn't care! I think what a lot of us don't realize is our significant others don't care about the areas we're uncomfortable with. I have stretch marks all over my thighs and my butt and my boyfriend seriously couldn't care less. He wants you. Everyone has "imperfections". If you're ever with a man who wants you to cover up because you have stretch marks is not worth your time.

    • The problem is he sleep with girls really good looking and all so I'm afraid to not be enough for him

    • He's with you for a reason, honey. You just have to trust him. And believe me I know it's hard but if you never truly trust someone you'll miss out on how amazing a relationship can be.

    • Thank you that's nice. It's just so hard, plus he used to be a player

  • It's whatever you feel comfortable with. I personally am a 36A/32B and I HATE my boobs. No guy has ever payed attention to my mosquito bites during sex. I guess they choose to ignore them because it's a turn- off. Anyway, I hope you eventually feel confident enough to go naked because your boyfriend is probably attracted to you just how you are

    • Thank you that's nice :) I think he was more attracted because of my butt too but I know how much him and guys loves boobs so

    • He wouldn't be dating you if he found you unattractive! It's hard being a girl.. So much insecurity :/

    • Yea that's suck. The things is he have so much high expection before we date he used to critic all the girls body he sleep with :(

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  • I like being touched there because they are very sensitive. Unless you have no sensitivity in them, I think its a waits of extra stimulation during sex. Let yout boyfriend decide if he likes them or not. And if he respects you and your body, he will accept you as you are.

  • You can if you want to it's your body, but you should't be ashamed of your breasts, you should rather be proud of what you have accomplished.

    • Amen!

    • Yes but I'm so young and my breast look like the one of a 40 years old... That's really not good. I'm afraid to deceived him

    • Your body is your body and he has no right to feel deceived. Sagging breasts aren't completely uncommon in young people, despite what movies and magazines are telling you, it is very far from every young girl who has round, perky breasts.
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      Maybe visit Ourbreasts. org and see the submitted photos, you'll realize you aren't the only one who is insecure.

      If you never learn to accept yourself, there of course is the option of a breast lift/argumentation, when/if you can afford it, but that shouldn't be necessary since all breasts are "acceptable".

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  • I like it off personally. Life's too short to be insecure.

  • What ever made you comfortable. You can always wear a sexy satin camisole or baby doll top to.

    • Thank you that's a good idea :)

  • I try to leave mine on as much too. I don't see what's wrong with it.

  • Boobs are boobs girl he will like them no matter how they look.

    • But the things is that he's very picky and before we date he used to talk a lot about other girls body and critic them a lot. I'm afraid to not be good enough for him

  • You asked this question the other day...

    • Yeah... pics or gtfo

    • No, it was another person. when i see her question I think of asking one too.

    • Okay. Well the answers will be identical because the questions are identical. Read her answers.

  • How does your boyfriend think about this?

    • I don't ask him. I'm afraid he ll dump me he's so picky about girls and used to critic a lot other girls body so

    • So he has never seen your breasts? Girl, he has to like all of you in order to have a healthy relationship. Don't be scared.

    • He never seen them, never see me naked and never see me in less clothes than a shorts and a tees. I know but I'm so afraid

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  • Boobs are like ice cream. No matter how many different types they are if you like them at all, then the odds are you'll love the ones you get to lick.

  • It would feel weird to keep a bra on during sex. I want him to grab my boobs xD I definitely don't have perfect tits either but most guys think they're pretty hot still ;)

  • Trust me---he wants to see your boobs.

  • Saggy boobs with marks are still boobs. Dig them

    • But I'm only 18 and have so ugly boobs. If a guys see it he ll just dump me :(

    • I am sure they are fine. One of my exes lost 60 pounds plenty of stretch marks. Those boobs were very nice. If only her quality of character matched those boobs

    • Hahaha... I like that..."If only her quality of character matched those boobs"

  • No take the bra off. I'm sure your boyfriend wants to play with them. I know I would and most guys woukd as well

    • Even if he see better?

    • he's your boyfriend he should like you for who you are and obviously attracted to you. If it's a problem he's an asshole and doesn't deserve you. Playing with tits and sucking nipples is a huge part of foreplay. Youd also be missing out!

    • If it's just me who miss something it's ok I just don't want him to be disappointed with me on how i look

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  • i wouldn't keep it on because breast licking is my favourite part of foreplay

    • Does that include nipple licking/sucking? Definitely hard to do with a bra on!

    • @Red_Arrow yess

    • My kind of lady!

  • No, I love it when guys play with my breasts during sex.

    • It's not what I asked...

  • Pics?

  • NO!

    Small breasts are such a turn on

    • I hope :)

    • they are!

  • Boobs are boobs its very rare for boobs to be ugly lol us men love boobs don't be insecure and let those puppies out.

    • But he saw a lot better boobs than mine

  • Yes I would because I'm shy AF. I'm a hoe but a shy hoe... A shoe 😂😂😂

  • let them hang free.

  • That just doesn't sound very comfortable, does it? I wouldn't care, and I'm sure most people wouldn't.

    • I would feel even uncomfortable if I doesn't have my bra on

    • Maybe talk to your partner about it? It might help you to feel better.

    • Yes, I will

  • Depends, some marks can be hella deep and turn off and if ur boyfriend is ok with small boobs He might be ok witj ur marks too lol

    • They're not that deep but other girls at my age has better boobs.

    • Like u can see them in dark deep or like u can only see em when u close to em deep

    • Only when close, they're pratically the same color of my skin

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