Why does my guy bestfriend gets horny around me?

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I have known him for 6 years already. We become really close and we help each other a lots. Just recently, he acted so weird towards me. He asked me to sit next to him explaining him about the lessons like physics, and he took the chance to touch my calves, he caressed him lightly (I didn't know back then, I thought it was just something unintentional). And he repeated doing it, I asked him what's wrong, he answered frankly "there is always some sexual attraction between boy and girl even if they're close friend.", I told him I never think of this sort of thing with anyone or him. He smiled and still repeated it! I pinched him and pulled his octopus hands away. He wispered me sexily. (I got goosebumps). And just this afternoon, he kept touching my calves, my outer thigh, rub my rub, and he looked at me in the sexy way. I told him that no matter how many he does it, he won't turn me on or gets me horny, I pinched him again and pulled his hand away. He whispered to me sexily like 'are you shy?'. I told him that I'm not shy, since we're close friend and we're frank to each other from the start. He stared at my chest (my boobs are small), and his crotch gets hard, so he tried to reach for my calves again, I told him "Bastard, STOP." He said he's getting hard, he grabbed my hand and place it on his crotch and didn't get success because I pulled my hand away and I said 'stop messing around, stupid' and I came back to my lessons. He begged like 'help me, I'm getting so hard.' I just put on my headset and ignore him. He said to me frankly again! "I want to touch your boobs". He stared at my chest or something, and I place my hand and hide the showed chest. He said softly "Damn, you hide it!". Briefly, he would take every chance to touch me but he rarely successes in doing it. (My chest are quite flat).

Why does he he behave like this? It's just so sudden!

ConfusedByLife · Accepted Answer

Yeah. He wants to fuck you. Period.

What's troubling here is that you are telling him directly to stop doing physical things and he isn't stopping. That's not OK, ever. Tell him if he wants to be your friend, he has to do what you say and respect you.

The fact that you say you got goosebumps from his sexy talk combined with you somewhat baffling statement that you don't "think of this sort of thing with anyone or him" suggest to me that you're not being completely honest with yourself. Few people are completely asexual.

The fact that you've kept him around suggests to me that you may be flattered by his attentions on some level.
But don't let him keep touching you if you really don't want it. Draw a line, and stick to it, and make him leave (or leave yourself) if the line is crossed.

si2foo · Accepted Answer

okay lets start from the beginning

you 2 have known each other for 6 years he probably has thought about fucking you since the start of your friend ships he really wants to date you but probably never knew how to ask you out i would say this is his attempt at trying to make more out of this situation

as for you being flat chested i can tell by the ammount of touching he did to your legs he is a leg guy and probably has thought about having your legs wrapped around him in some way

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not sure. It baffles me when guys say they aren't attracted to their female friends. I've hooked up with almost every guy friend I've had, or at least caught them checking me out...
Sounds like he's pushing boundaries. Let him know you aren't comfortable

Xfitchick · Accepted Answer

If he is attracted to you, he has the age to behave like that. But you do well to correct if you don't like. If he doesn't get the message than the only other option is to stop helping him until he behaves normal again next to you.

parvulus · Accepted Answer

He wants to fuck you and doesn't care whether you want to or not. If this isn't a troll, and if you have any common sense, stop talking to him and stop seeing him, period. Otherwise, you might end up raped.

Applepie97 · Accepted Answer

This doesn't sound fictional or made up at all! #whatthehelldidijustread

mooky06 · Answer

His head (up top) shuts down and the head (below) takes control.

Kaylyne · Answer

Isn't it pretty damned obvious, he wants you.

NerdInDenial · Answer

He wants to have sex with you

bisexualfem269 · Answer

he may lust you!

nostalgic · Answer

Sorry but this was funny, this sounds like a script or something. But if you're not trolling he clearly always liked you, and finally grew the balls to make a move. You obviously feel something for him if you're writing about him though.