Hard time cumming?

ya so I have a really hard time like cumming, not that its a problem or that I'm uncomfortable but it just takes a really long time. as in 3 straight... Show More

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  • ok generally it is a little off putting when you're fooling around with a guy and he doesn't cum...it makes me think that I've done something wrong, he didn't like my technique...something along those lines. Why do you skip out on foreplay...it's more or less an essential part of sex...and why is head not an option?...my advice would be to masturbate to find out what it is you like and what it is that makes you come and then use that in foreplay.