How should I deal with my sister and her boyfriend?

My sister's boyfriend was reading about a man who shot off his penis with a gun. My sister said that sounds like something I would do and laughed. I asked what she meant by that. Her boyfriend said because I was lacking. I asked how do you know that? She said i pee too. fast. I don't appreciate then joking like that. My stepmom and younger sister were in there yet said nothing to them to get them to stop. I felt like decking her boyfriend but I decided to walk away and let it go. They always do this. My stepmom, sister, and her boyfriend all have smart ass mouths. What should I do. Should I go off and tell them I don't appreciate what they are saying? Should I just take it? Or should I just stay to myself?
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Plus they are the parents of my soon to be nephew. I feel like their smart assery is going to interfere in my relationship with my nephew.
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@Empatheticlady @ginny_weasley @AleDeEurope can you all give me a idea
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If you think they are mature enough to listen then say something like "hey, I don't really appreciate these comments/remarks and would really appreciate it if you didn't say things like that to me because it bothers me."

    If you don't think they are mature enough to handle a conversation like that - then I would just ignore it because if you say something they just might make even more comments to bug you.

  • I think you should just tell them that their "joking" is not okay and especially when talking about your privates and anything personal is not okay. She wouldn't like if you picked apart her or her boyfriend so they shouldn't do tit o you. The only reason why they find it so amusing really is because they're immature.

    • I mean who's business is it. anyway

  • I would have a word with your sister. It's one thing if you say it, another that her boyfriend does.

    • And they never seen my member

    • I should hope not but from reading it I thought you were 13 not 25. Don't go running to mummy. Or you do what siblings do - retaliate. It isn't based on truth, you don't have to see your sisters minge to insult it. Come on dude.

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  • (from the way it sounds) If you tell them you don't appreciate what they are saying they will more than likely continue to disrespect you. To gain their respect, bring the heat and fight fire with fire. You will more than likely enjoy yourself and they will respect you. Surely you can outsmart your younger sister.

    • Yeah but she's carrying my nephew. I don't wanna do anything that might jeopardize anything

  • You need to get the hell away from these disgusting people. I have seen you around here. You're such a good guy, and so kind as well. They may be family, but you don't have to put up with their shit.

    • I hate to say they aren't as kind.

    • Yeah, so just stay away from them. And don't ever contact them. I have seen you post questions about how your family mistreats you, in some or the other ways. So you just gotta move out (if you're staying with them), and cut them out. It's better to be alone, than with a 'family' who don't give a hoot about you.

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  • Stand up for yourself. They continue to do these things because you say anything and just let it happen. Tell them how you feel and ask that they stop the rude insults.

  • You should have let them have it.

  • Tell them straight up that theyre being immature and you dont like the way they talk about you. Although they may be joking, its just so immature.

  • Buy a positive pregnancy test on amazon and give it to your mom she won't be hanging out with her boyfriend for a while.

    • What is that going to prove

    • Nothing. Just leave it somewhere for your mom to find. If your sister is underage then she'll be in trouble.

    • She's 22 we all know she's pregnant anyway

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  • Stand up for yourself. They'll continue to do it if you don't

  • Tell them you don't like it, be honest.

  • You gotta stand up for yourself and not take their shit anymore. They're saying those things because you take it. They don't respect you.
    So stand up and tell them it's the last time they disrespect you that way, that you're not gonna tolerate anymore of their shit.

  • what the hell does you peeing to fast have to do with anything seriously. if you have a full bladder of course it'll go quickly, your sister is being disrespectful and I would tell then you don't find it funny and they need to knock the crap off.

  • Your own sister said that? That's not normal, it's hurting you and that's not okay. You need to ask them to stop, period.

    • Why is this in sexual behavior? 🙄

    • No idea

  • Tell them to fuck off

    • Aye. This. And use the word 'cunt' a lot. Directed at them.

  • Obviously tell them you don't like it and that they should stop.

  • You're 25. Tell then to fuck off and then leave.

  • This is why we need gun control.

  • Seriously, you're obviously upset by this and don't like it. Confront them about and make it clear you feel uncomfortable.

  • Damn. You should say im already short enough why would i make it smaller or gone by shooting it. Dumb fucks. If you had a small dick you wouldn't shoot it you would try all ways of enlargment.

  • You should say something. Simply because if you don't you'll regret it. I know I still do

    • If you're looking for a way to do confront them.. just do what comes naturally. Don't think. Just do. And what I mean is deck the punk. Or don't make any facial expressions. Don't look angry. Just sit there with the blanket face you can muster at the time. But I'd definitely deck them. They need to put some respek on it