How do you feel about bondage sex?

[Anonymous]

My Girlfriend *loves* to be dominated, and wants nothing more than for me to use her however and whenever I want to. She likes being tied up or held down or role-playing where she is restrained, spanked, or flogged. She loves the attention, and the feeling of helplessness, and she says that being taken control of makes her see me as super macho and dominant, and that really gets her going. When we play with that stuff, I try to do different things all the time. I've tied her up several different ways oh the bed, but also to chairs, ottomans, railings, over counters, and anything else I can think of. She really wants one of those pipe stand things like they use at Kink. com so I can tie her up in a bunch of different positions, but I don't exactly have a dungeon to put it on, so I have to make due. LOL. Last weekend, I just used some rope to tie her wrists to her ankles, so that her legs were spread and her hands were restrained. This is a good one because it's simple but versatile: I can have her on her back, or flip her over so her ass is up. Anyway, I blind-folded her and then put my headphones on her with music playing so she couldn't see or hear, and then spent about an 90 minutes playing with her. I licked, tickled, spanked, squeezed, slapped, fingered, sucked, and flogged her, and she never knew what was going to happen, and she eventually got so aroused that her whole body was flushed and she was wiggling around on the bed begging for me to touch her. Then, I went and got some ice cubes and teased her with those for a little while, at first just letting the water drop onto her from them, and eventually rubbing them around her lips and mouth, her nipples, under her boobs, and down to her vulva. She was so close to orgasm that she was shuddering. When I finally started to bang her, she came instantly and probably 7 or 8 more times over the next 20 minutes or so, and when I finally untied her, she continued to shake and spasm for a good 5 minutes at least.

[Anpu23]

Sounds hot. Have you two done a BDSM checklist? If not do one together, it may give you more ideas.

I've been in this scene for quite a while and I just got to ask, are you being safe with your ties and knots? You know lose enough for two fingers and never directly on a joint, but rather on the muscle? Also keep a pair of scissors by the play area in case things go wrong?

Other than that, remember safe sane and consensual.

[summiter]

Way hot... great job! How was your orgasm? fun also?

[ravidricha96]

My friends with benefit has had his face bound directly to my feet before. I've never restrained him otherwise though.

[anonman32]

yeah i know you from that one question where you forced some one to do things with your feet.

[ravidricha96]

@anonman32 Yes. Lol. Whenever I ask. He knows my feet better than the back of his hand at this point.

[anonman32]

thats really funny lol.

[ravidricha96]

@anonman32 Yea, lol it is. He's only been free of my feet for 1 day throughout the entire summer so far.

[anonman32]

but only your feet and nothing else?

[ravidricha96]

@anonman32 Well we're friends with benefits, so he gives me oral, I sit on his face, that's about it. He's been doing stuff with my feet unhappily for longer than we've been that though. He's had my feet in his mouth more than he's given me oral all summer. XD

[anonman32]

you are cruel lol you dont do anything for him.

[ravidricha96]

@anonman32 The facesitting is for him. XD. I don't usually get much out of it. Sometimes I grind a little, but mostly he's like just a comfy seat for me and nothing more. And the oral, like he likes giving it to me, but I'm the one who benefits more there. The feet is his own fault, he lost the bet, he gets to enjoy the taste of any girls' feet when requested. XD. And it's requested a lot. Although to be fair, I am really cruel, because my feet are nasty. XD.

[Lora96]

That sounds really hot 😜. What are you and your partners favorite positions?

[LadyTerror]

That got way more graphic than I expected.

But yeah I'm into it.

[nothingtosee]

Wow, that was hot! Have you ever given her a ruined orgasm? Just as she's about to cum you slow down, or barely touch her? Or even stop just as she's experiencing an orgasm? Or, place a vibrator on her clit, turn it on and then leave the room. Or, as you're licking her, or fucking her, make her have a conversation with someone over the phone. Tell her that she's not allowed to tell the person with whom she's talking to know that you two are having sex. When she cums, she'll have to hide the fact that she's cumming!

Or, have you thought about inviting another woman over and letting her use her as well? Especially if she's blindfolded. She'll want to know who the other person is, or was. Or, if you want to be really naughty, invite a man over and let him fuck her while she's blindfolded. She won't know if it's a real cock or a dildo.

[Stephbs2]

I would fucking love that

[countrydude]

Yeah I think thats hot. I have tied my girl to the bed a lot. Awesome orgasms for her. I have been bound a couple times its ok but I prefer to be the one in control.

[Evilpumpkinman]

sign me up, but honestly the fact that other people are doing and i'm not get's me kind of butthurt

[bcromartie]

Boring.

[masterkamasutra]

copied from a bdsm porn?

[Asker]

no I didn't

[Anonymous]

I need to get into a relationship...