A girl who orgasms every two minutes and a girl who never had an orgasm, which would be annoying?

[Anonymous]

My best friend (who is also a girl) and I have very strange conversation today. Even if we are best friends we do not talk about sex, because in my culture it is extremely rare to talk about sex even if you are best friends! BUT today she told me she was dumped by her first boyfriend because she is ORGASMIC! We all thought that is a good thing many girls including myself cannot reach orgasm that easily. and her ex told her that since she orgasms too often that it isn't easy to focus and stay hard inside her because her down there clenched too hard every time she cums. they were together over a year and he never ever talked about it to her even if it is extremely rare to talk about sex she told me about it because it was very big shock for her and interestingly i have never experienced orgasms before, i have tried to do it myself or i had few boyfriends who tried everything we tried toys etc like my body is made of a stone. i get close to climax but it fades away pretty quickly and that feelings come and goes but not enough to make me orgasm i do not think i experienced orgasm becuase people say if you had orgasm you would know it. whenever i make love or try to enjoy myself i do not think i had one i know my culture people are pretty men oriented and they do not pay attention to women so it is rare for girls to enjoy sex but still i've dated sweet men and they couldn't make me orgasms i have some questions about sex 1. would guys really dislike when their partner orgasms too often? 2. would guys be bothered if their partner don't orgasm even if she does not mind not having orgasm and still could enjoy the time with them? 3. do most guys think they could make a girl orgasm pretty easily? (that's what I found from guys' attittude) do you think it is easy or pretty simple? 4. have you ever dated a girl either cannot orgasm at all or orgasms too mcuh? we want to know if we are freak or it is common :( Thanks xx

[Johnny-ire]

Hi, let me try to give some helpful info...

1 thoughtful guys concentrate on
giving pleasure to their partner. To be unselfish. I always give my partner as many orgasms as she can have. Which is usually between 3 and 5. Just once, she had 20 in one night. It was incredible for us both

2 I understand that there will be times when she doesn't orgasm. I take all the pressure away. Want her to be herself. Cuddles, hugs and kisses are magic too

3 the main sexual organ for the girl is not her clit. It's her brain. So, a lot of guys think all they have to do is touch or rub! Nope! It's romance, communicating, getting to know her, what presses her buttons, her desires, fantasies. Then playing with her mind and then her body

4 I've been with girls who don't orgasm. Or who sometimes do. I usually get them there, but it's not automatic. No-one has ever orgasmed too much for me. I just love it when they do...

I hope this helps xx

[pierre7i]

I would be very happy to be sexual with a girl who orgasms easily, even every 2 minutes... and when a girl orgasms whilst my hard penis is inside her vagina it feels really lovely... when she clenches her vagina as she orgasms there is a really beautiful sexual feeling in my penis !

It is a real shame you don't orgasm... perhaps you are too worried about cumming, you need to relax and simply enjoy the sexual experience with your partner... and when you're not thinking of trying to cum, you might just end up having a beautiful. orgasm !

[Asker]

Thank you, yeah i've tried I might see a doctor haha

[pierre7i]

Have you seen a doctor yet? If not, I'm a very good one ! ... lol... :-)

[pierre7i]

Thank you for choosing my comments as the most helpful opinion :-) :-)

[Asker]

Thanks

[pierre7i]

You seem really sweet and I hope you get to be able to have some lovely orgasms soon ! Good luck... and remember, just relax when you're being sexual with someone... and perhaps it's best to practice on yourself... have a nice shower, lay on the bed and drizzle a little bit of nice aroma oil onto your clitoris + labia, and massage it into those areas gently + as sensually as you can... close your eyes and imagine whatever you would like someone to be doing to you... You might not cum the 1st time, or the next time or the time after that but keep practising and I am sure you will soon have a lovely orgasm... after that, it should be easier for you to cum, maybe not every time but sometimes. :-) :-)

[pierre7i]

PS: please feel free to PM me at anytime if you want to talk anything through... I'd be very pleased to help with advice, guidance + my thoughts/opinions... I really do mean this, genuinely + sincerely.

[nothingtosee]

You don't need a doctor; you need a willing partner who wants you to teach him how.

[Anonymous]

The ones who never orgasm my ex was like that. It would really make me mad.

[Anonymous]

the one who can't never orgasm. I used to be like that, was so annoying

[nothingtosee]

OK, my turn. My thought's opinions:

Can a woman orgasm too often?

Answer? No. In fact, I think that would be a complete turn on! Me, and I think all, or most men would agree, giving a woman an orgasm is the most satisfying thing a man can do for a woman.

What if she doesn't orgasm?

Answer: That would be a shame, but I know, from experience, that it makes me try harder. For me, I was able to give an ex girlfriend her first orgasm by asking her to do some role playing. I asked her to play the part of a sex-ed professor and I'm her student. In her class she's going to teach me how to pleasure a woman with just my tongue. As I licked her, she gave me detailed instructions on how to do it better. She loved it! She took her time and made me practice over and over and over again. For several weeks, she did not have an orgasm, but the classes she gave me were such a turn on! I LOVED it when she told me to practice some more. Each time she spoke in details on how to do it better, and I LOVED it! When she finally did have an orgasm, it wss amazing and intense! For both of us! After that, I was able to give her an orgasm every single time!!! And multiples as well! So, bottom line, do not feel down about it. All you need is a partner who is willing to play the part of your eager student and you his teacher. I wish I lived close to you, I would LOVE to play the part of your student.

Is it easy to give them an orgasm?

Answer: Sometimes. It all depends on the woman. If she tells me ahead of time that I won't be able to, that's ok. That's a whole lot of pressure off of me. The sex can still be amazing.

Have I ever dated a woman who couldn't achieve an orgasm?

Answer: Yes. See answer above.

Bottom line, practice on yourself. Buy lots of sex toys, watch some porn. Ask a guy to be your sex-ed student! Have fun!!!

If you have any follow up questions, feel free to write me, I'm on yahoo dot com.

[Leena_2003]

I think it would be very annoying never to orgasm. I have never had sex but I can imagine is must be so frustrating not to get to orgasm. I masturbate almost daily and to orgasm is just part of my daily existence.

[nothingtosee]

Good for you! Do you own a lot of toys? What's your favorite?

[pepperhicks]

1. I have had girlfriend out of dozens who I had multiple orgasms in a short time. I loved it. I could make her cum twice to my mouth, then she wanted intercourse. If we had sex again the same day, she could cum again but just once. I have not been with a woman who could cum "every 2 minutes", but it sounds exciting.
2. If I was with the woman for more than once, yes I would be concerned if I could not get her to orgasm. I would try to figure it out though. I can make most women I have known cum from my mouth. Others need penetration to cum. Some cum more quickly with fingers around inside the pussy/anus while I eat them out. It is a really fun puzzle to solve.
3. It is not simple to make a woman orgasm, especially the first time. With experience I have a decent shot, but not every woman can or will tell you just what makes her cum, and women generally cum easier when they have an emotional attachment to a man. I can make my wife cum in as little as 4 - 5 minutes, but it took awhile to get under 10 minutes. She would not tell me that she likes her anus stimulated, but only in a certain way at a certain point during cunnilingus. It took some time trial and error to figure out.
4. I have had girlfriends who did not orgasm, just not in LTRs. If a woman is not comfortable with getting her pussy eaten, that makes it difficult off the bat. I also found that some women are really used to their vibrators, or did not have one but needed help to try. I have given a (new) vibrator to a few women. I give them space to play with it alone and then she tells me what she wants to finish. The most effective strategy I have found is the woman lies on her stomach using the vibrator on her clit. I eat her pussy and put my tongue inside. But at least a few want to be on their back using the vibrator and I suck their breasts. I am sure there are other ways. One thing I know is that every woman is different and I love to find out the differences.

[Bruce_VVayne]

None to me. An experienced guy can satisfy any girl if he knows how to treat, how to touch.

[Makeushiver]

Rhe idea of a girl who orgasms every 2 minutes is so mind blowingly sexy I can't think about it w/o getting turned on

[genericname85]

i´d take the one that orgasms often xD that´s actually kind of hot. a girl who never came is uninteresting for me.

[Asker]

Thanks

[jimreyn]

Never

[Seppelson]

A girl who never had an orgasm

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is like that. Orgasm after orgasm. Not only do I envy her for it, its such a turn on that I have a hard time lasting a while. I have always been able to last at least 30 minutes, but with her it's always 15-20..

[Anonymous]

1) I'd love it
2) somewhat yes.
3) I have had partners who came easily and partners who had never orgasmed. My skill had relatively little to do with it.
4) no such thing as too much. Cannot? Yes.