Oh yeah totally.
Even for guys who tend to pop quickly the first time... it's not that hard to "revive" them (as I wrote on yr other question, a couple of days ago I think) -- at which point they generally have better endurance.
It's true that the average round of fucking lasts for less than 10 minutes, but that's not because the guy can't hold it -- at least, that's *rarely* the reason, anyway.
I'd say the major reasons why that happens are...
1 • Honestly, first and foremost, it CAN just... get kinda boring, after a certain length of time.
Most couples don't constantly switch things up -- they find 1-2 positions that are comfortable, and tend to get into a familiar "groove". And, I mean... unless the circumstances are VERY special, going at it in the same one or two positions isn't gna be terribly fulfilling if it goes on for half an hour or more. (It can even get to the point of being like... tickling the same spot for an extended period -- meaning, in the extreme, it can even rub raw or get uncomfortable.)
2 • Some people -- especially if they're sleep-deprived, and/or if they've got kids that go to bed just 15 or 30 minutes before they do -- just ain't got time for that.
3 • Most men don't stay at PEAK hardness for more than about that long. If a guy is fucking you for half an hour, then, in most cases, he's going to be semi-hard (or like 80% hard, or whatever) for a big fraction of that time.
This can be a BIG psychological issue for guys -- because LOTS of guys, even guys with considerable sexual experience, seem to think that you need to be at peak hardness to "satisfy" a woman... and so they'll psych THEMSELVES out of longer fucking sessions, because they'll be super self-conscious about fucking when they're anything less than 100% hard.
What's even more mystifying, is that lots of these are guys who *know* that lots of women don't cum from mere penetration, and that more stimulation is required -- yet, somehow, they persist in thinking that they have to be 100% completely hard for penetration.
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I'd say that just about ANY guy can fuck for almost an indefinite period of time, given that he has a reasonable -- and confident -- attitude toward fucking with an erection that's between 60% and 100% hard for some of that time. And given that he wants to... y'know... *make love* for at least part of that time. <3 (And given that his girl knows how to revive him again if he pops early.)
What would fucking at only 60-80% hardness for a while feel like? I don't see why that wouldn't be annoying for the guy. And so... you're basically saying that most guys really do last only 5-10 minutes? Because I actually prefer that time too!
"What would fucking at only 60-80% hardness for a while feel like?" For a boy? ahha uhmmmm... I couldn't tell ya. You've NEVER had a guy inside you at less than 100% maximum hardness before? srsly? It still feels really fucking good.
of course that's part of sex. But usually only steadily building up towards him orgasming. I meant for a long time, staying that way. But what would... I mean can you feel how much softer the semi hard penis is when you do it for that long?
Yeah there aRe guys who can. It takes a guy that is fit and experienced and often a guy that youve been with a few times so you guys work well together. Im fine with far less than 30 minutes as i can usually orgasm after I've been with a guy for a while. And yes soreness can be a problem if you aren't used to it or aren't doing it well.
There're some guys who can, experience ones. The soreness depends whether she able to keep herself wet for that 30 minutes but usually after 45 minutes, I would start feeling uncomfortable XD
Its all hype in MY life.
standard with men I date = two minutes
rare marathon records = ten minutes
This is exactly my experience too! Do condoms make a difference with them or not, in your exp?
(laughing) No. Tbh, this is all I have ever known so I am used to it. Wbu?
"standard with men I date = two minutes" What the actual living fuck? 😂😂😂
I have retarded ejaculation. It takes me entirely too long to cum and it sounds like a blessing but it really is a curse. It's embarrassing AF when a girl ask you if you are almost there and nowhere near lol. That's why it's hard for me to keep a sexual partner. They think it's their fault that I take so long and get insecure about it. On top of that.. most girls don't really want to fuck for longer than an hour. I keep it interesting and have a lot of endurance though so I just try my best to embrace it. It's a huge ego boost when a girl is completley dead after sex and sends that "I'm sore af asshole" text the next day. If I could choose I rather just cum like a normal guy though.
What about for BJs?
A blowjob is sort of foreplay for me. I wouldn't want to just get head without fucking.
You get off from Bjs I meant?
Probably but it seems like most guys make this claim so at least some of them must be lying. Either that or they have a poor sense of time.
I agree you're like the only semi honest guy.
It's also possible that gag attracts lots of guys who just happen to have great stamina :p
Nope. And ten minutes of sex is not bad.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I've been with a lot of men. 30 minutes is short in my experience. And yes I'm talking full erection and Intercourse.
very very true. i've had sessions much longer than that even. its possible. just depends on ur mind set, i suppose.
Umm... yea... lots of them...
and why don't the girls get sore? its called lube lol.. they can either self lubricate or it will be done for them. One of my exes was constantly wet regardless of length.. it was ridiculous... could go hours and she wouldn't dry out.
I am one of those guys, no condom needed. Although, being drunk would not make me last longer, but quicker.
The answer is yes. I can actually last longer, with a full erection.
However, this is more of an issue than a gift. It's unhealthy. The girl has to be verbally crafty and understand the mental buttons to push (I only seem to respond to explicit signals), and I have to be in love with her. Otherwise, it's a waste of time. I get nothing out of hookups so I don't pursue them.
Yeppp, I can vouch that at least one guy can last at least half an hour during sex.
Absolutely possible and no, condoms not required.
definitely. the longest i've ever had sex for was about 6 hours.
Yes because you can practice and work on being able to handle going that long.
I have lasted a long time especially if I have had a lot of sex recently or masturbated recently. If round one is too quick I can always slow down for round two or three.
Of course. It just takes practice and knowing what you're doing.
Sex is a skill, you don't master it at 19.
lots of young guys here say they did.
No doubt they also thought they mastered cooking, the first time they cooked toast.
Lots of a guys can? Especially more experienced guys. It's not about just having actual penetration.
yeah, I was talking the penetration time.
Then yeah guys, especially older and more experienced can last that long.
That doesn't hurt the girl?
Do you mean your surprised they can last half an hour or ONLY half an hour?
It's easy once you learn that sex isn't all about climbing on and pumping away at full speed lol.
I can and I don't have to wear a condom
I can and almost always do. In fact, I'd say that most of the time I don't reach orgasm at all. It's a blessing and a curse for both me and my partner. For her, it's good that it can last longer but there is such a thing as too long and it can make her insecure. For me, there's obviously a lack of orgasms but at the same time I feel like it makes me better in bed because I can get more practice in each session.
I doubt it.
XD thanks.
I can't speak for everyone but I usually last from 30mins to over an hour depending on how horny I am and if my need to cum is bigger than my focus on lasting for as long as I can. The longest I've lasted so far in one sex session was 2 hours straight.
Yes, some of us have really high stamina, or trained ourselves to 'hold out' until our partner orgasms first. Either way answer is yes.
An if you don't believe that we can always test that theory ;)
You are black , there's nothing to test. It goes without saying 😎
@takumii Lol shh I want her to test meh XD
yes we can. it´s a question of wanting to and training. some guys just go full speed and cum in a few minutes. you can have the mindset of "this is gonna take a long time" and go slow but steady. going slower as you´re closer to cumming and going faster as you´re closer to going limp again xD it´s a game.
Half an hour is short for a few of us.
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