Why does it take my boyfriend so long to cum?

Question

Last night I was with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him a blow job and it took him forever to cum. It wasn't just me going on down on him though. We were doing 69 and I was giving him a handjob/blowjob and it took him so so long to cum and I don't understand why. Does it mean I'm bad at it? And right before he was gonna cum, he took my hand to show me the motion that he liked it at. And then when I started doing that motion myself, he came. I know that it's good cause now I know what he likes and I can do that motion from now on, but does that mean that throughout the whole blow job/handjob, he wasn't even enjoying it?

jesshkah · Accepted Answer

No not at all. There's just certain things that will bring guys over the edge and you just weren't doing those specific things. That doesn't mean everything else was BAD. It's like ice cream, you have your favorite flavor but you dont hate everything else.

Also when you're doing 69 the guy has to focus on you too and doing things for you so that's a bit distracting, and it might take longer because of that as well.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Some men take a very long to time to cum from oral. Are you having sex?

jacquesvol · Accepted Answer

Delayed ejaculation

Darkone1 · Answer

Yes,

reptocarl · Answer

He still enjoyed it. This is why communication and explicit instructions are vital for good sex. Never be shy about showing, telling or asking

oldanddecrepid · Answer

I think he likely blew his load a couple of time before getting together with you. A lot of guys will toss-off before meeting up with their girlfriend just so they can last much longer.

JSmuve · Answer

Yes?

Petiwolf · Answer

Well He might be doing some tricks. I used to think different things when my ex was giving me BJ, so it was making me last much much longer. I think He does The same.