Guys, Why do men like spanking a woman's ass during sex?

My guy friend smacked my ass and pulled my hair when we had sex and I liked the pain of the spanking and surprise of him doing it unexpectedly doggy style which is my fav sex position (which my ass is considered nice by my guy friends-all 12 of them). I liked the feeling of him being rough with me which that was my first time having sex like that. Anyways I am wondering why men do that and y they like smacking a woman's ass during sex.
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  • I would say they see things like that in porn and emulate it, but the concept of spanking as a sexual fetish has existed for far longer than Internet pornography. If I were a betting man I would place money on there being a specific psychological explanation for those behaviors, but I'm not entirely sure.

  • Biologyyyyyy. Thats why we find the opposite gender attractive in the first place, it's just how certain people are wired. I can't find any conscious reason I like doing it. I like girls asses and I like giving it a slap every now and then, even during.

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  • It's a kink that a lot of men have. I'm a bit sadistic sexually so spanking her and knowing she's enduring it and liking it is a huge turn on.

  • Not all men get any pleasure from doing that. I have never done it and I don't understand it.

  • Who knows? We like it and we don't know why. There is something that is so slappable about a woman's butt... We like it the same way you do.

  • Touching it is nice in general, probably because we like how it feels and looks. Slapping it during sex can be nice. I guess it adds some intensity and shows desire maybe.

  • Because they like being dominant.

  • I've always wondered to. Does nothing for me at all. Women will do it to themselves to, why? I always just though it was for the guy but I've had women ask me to spank them so they are obviously getting something from it also? It's a turn off for me.

  • Dominance and pleasure through pain ( for you and for us in different ways ) and turn on.

  • its a turn on for us men to feel like were dominating the girl.

  • Not all men are into spanking women and I would speculate that the reality is that not many men want to do that.
    It has been my experience that a far greater number of women want to be dominated, tied up, tortured to varying degrees and generally live out a rape fantasy.

  • Dominance. she's gotta be punished 😉

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