Why can't some men stay hard in condom?

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  • A lot of the guys are claiming that it desensitizes, which is bullshit. Unless it's a really low quality (cheap) condom, it wouldn't be perceivable. If the condom is too small, that might be the issue. Given the amount that the average condom stretches, it's highly unlikely. I'm guessing that the men who can't stay hard in condoms are turned on by "raw" sex, so they see condoms as an automatic turn off.

    • Not bullshit sorry. Unless you have a dick and yoive wrapped it you really dont know how it feals. That said I don't know about other guys but I've never lost a hard on with one on but it does still desensitizes our dick a bit. Some guys can't cum with one on. Kinda like if we were to igbore yijr ckit the whole tike or barely pay attention to it. Now that's not an excuse to not wear one.

    • Like I told a user above, try a female condom and tell us how it feels.

    • You can't possibly know what's bullshit and what's not without a dick, you've got absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

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  • They're full of shit. It feels better without a condom so they don't want to wear one. They tell you they can't stay hard in a condom hoping you'll let them go without. I'm sorry, but I have never actually met a guy who COULDN'T stay hard using a condom. And I got around in my youth lol

    • It just a random question lol

    • Yeah that I believe. It does desensitize our dicks but I've never lost a hard on. Lol don't be silly dudes wrap your willy xD

    • im not no glove no love lol @akadatank44

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  • it's either nervousness or a sensation problem. usually the men with a sensation problem its because they're circumsized and already have less sensation than men intact. either way, if you jerk him off a bit as he's putting the condom on, it should stay hard after

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  • I guess a lot of it could be psychological. There is an enormous pleasure to be got from direct physical contact. Add a condom, and although there is the same physical release at the end, there is something about the psychological satisfaction that goes astray.

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  • I'm sure a condom acts as an insulator to the sensations and pleasures of skin on skin contact for guys as much as it does for us. I hate condoms!

  • If a guy can't stay hard in a condom, especially at your age, then he has some really serious problems!

    • what? I've never been able to stay hard in a condom

  • Many different causes. Most likely not physical.

    - Anxiety
    - BEcause it can feel like shit
    - Makes you not feel the sex
    - putting it on wrong
    - If he has foreskin that foreskin ca nbother you.

  • Performance Anxiety maybe?

  • Been thinking the same

    • Try a female condom and tell me how that impacts sex.

    • @Thisperson98 it makes it even safer. less risk of herpes and warts. ;)

    • @thewanderingme also not having sex with someone who has a STD is even safer.

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  • They should be. Maybe he is jerking off too much.

  • Get a plastic bag. Closer your eyes. Touch a sensitive area on your body with your hand. Focus on how it feels. Now put the plastic back over your hand and touch the same area again.

  • Because you can't feel shit. lol

  • its just a turn off for me. id rather just not have sex.

  • Put a latex glove on and see what you can vividly feel and what you can't.

  • why can´t you taste your food, if you put it in a plastic bag before putting it in your mouth? XD

    • Studies have shown that condom use doesn't limit perceived stimulation.

    • @LittleMissCuriousity For females maybe... I know that I normally last an hour to an hour and a half in the sack raw, when I put on a condom it doubles at minimum and the sex stops being fun after a while.

    • @LittleMissCuriousity what "studies" ? that kind where they didn´t even have men participating in it? it CLEARLY does limit the percieved stimulation. if you ever had a condom on your penis, which i doubt you´ll ever have, you wouldn´t have the shadow of a doubt about that.

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  • Desensitizes our dicks.

  • Is that a problem? haven't heard of that

  • Cause you can't feel shit

  • I have trouble staying hard in condoms because I dont feel anything.

  • Feel something without a glove on then put on a latex glove, then try to feel that object.

    • feels the same. stupid/lame excuse not to use condoms.

    • @thewanderingme feels the same for you maybe.

    • like I said in my response, the only time it causes any sensation issues is when a guy is circumsized and his Weiner already doesn't feel as much because of the circumcision

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  • its about time they start developing condoms that are designed to go with a foreskin.

  • Lmao never EVER wearing condom

  • Might be the wrong size condom, Or it could be that wearing the condom makes them nervous or causes anxiety and that can weaken the erection.

  • got to have the right size or its too tight if he's thick try magnums they are perfect

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