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My boyfriend wants to eat me out?

I've been dating him for 8 months and he told me that he wants to eat me out and he would rather give pleasure than recieve it. I would have no problem giving him head but the problem is that I don't like the way my vagina looks and I never had a guy eat me out before. I'm not sure how to get more comfortable with him doing that because he tells me how much he wants to but I don't know how to feel more confident about it. I'm just worried that he won't like it. And I'm also afraid that it won't feel good or that I won't orgasm from it. What do I do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I can't comment on the look I guess.
    But it's a comfort thing, if you feel stressed and are thinking about it, you probably won't orgasm because you'll be too stuck in thought.
    I can't speak for all, but a LOT of girls I know and know of, love it, it feels great, and can almost guarantee an orgasm, especially if he is trying. But if it doesn't feel good, then he finds another way to give you pleasure and you just don't do it again!

    As far as looks, if you've had sex, then he's already seen it, he can already picture it from just putting his hand there. Just make sure you shower beforehand, clean it out, shave if that'll make you more comfortable/he's asked whatever. And be relaxed. And if you can, tell him not to talk about, don't ask about it, just be in the moment with him kissing you slowly, start at your neck and stay there a while and just move down slowly, start with his hand there, and when you're into it and horny, you probably won't even notice his head moving!

    • But we haven't had sex yet

    • Well I didn't know that when commenting. But it still applies, it's a comfort thing. Don't force yourself to go there yet. In the moment, if you're ready it'll just feel right. If he's kissing you and you're worried, then you aren't ready.

  • Try talking to him. The only way to solve relationship issues is by talking it out. I'm sure your vagina looks fine. I hope that doesn't sound weird. Vaginas come in so many shapes, sizes, and colors but I've never heard of a guy who turns down sex because the girl's vagina didn't look pretty (except if she has like a nasty disease). Vaginas and penises were never meant to look pretty. That's not their job. If you're nervous then tell him about. Your first time trying anything can be a little bit scary. But it can become less scary if you talk about it. About the orgasm part, you'll never know until you try. It might be the greatest feeling you ever felt, or it might bore you to death, but you'll never find out if you don't try it.

  • It feels amazing.
    Just make sure you have a shower. You dont need anything special just a normal wash is fine.
    Take a breath, relax and let your man do his thing. You won't regret it.
    In a boys mind there is no such thing as an ugly vagina. He already wants to eat you out. That means he likes your vagina. Its important that your relationship is 2 ways. That means giving and recieving.
    Dont worry about whether you orgasm or not. Sex isn't always about cumming. Its about pleasure and intimacy. The connection you will feel to your man once his face is buried in your pussy is amazing.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have to wonder if he understands that phrase 'eating you out'. Does he expect to just go face first into you and lick and slurp? Sounds pretty bad to me!
    The women I have been with have NEVER expressed any interest in just digging in there and slopping about!
    Most of the women I have known like very specific things, with their clit, or lips, or some other erogenous places on their bodies.
    I would ask him what he plans to do before 'submitting' to something that might be a bad interpretation from a bad porn movie!!
    Maybe just show him what you like to feel, and how to touch you, and then let him practice.
    One of my past GFs said that she liked how I touched her, mostly, like she was playing with herself with her left hand (she was right-handed).

  • dont worry that much. I'm a guy who love cunnilingus, too! :) There is nothing like a bad looking vagina. He will just be super happy and turned on if you let him eat you out! I have never seen a vagina in my life that I didn't wanted to eat out. And when he already ask you to do it, it seems that he really wants to do it.
    It is a great experiance, for both of you. And if you dont like it, you can just tell him. But I think it is an important step. He seems to like it, and you need to experiance if you like it too. So just give it a try, dont think too much about it :)

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  • I'm sure you're beautiful down there, most women are, you are just insecure because you've never had it done to you before, but it will make you feel great if he knows what he's doing, plus you will make him feel good by allowing him to give you pleasure. It's a win-win for the both of you. go for it!

  • Indeed you do need to relax, get comfortable and be open to the experience otherwise you might not have an orgasm. But having an orgasm every time need not be the goal, especially the first few times.

  • Trust me, he doesn't care what it looks like. It probably looks fine, anyway. Let the man eat you out. Ten seconds into it you'll forget all about that insecurity anyhow, because having your pussy eaten feels incredible lol

  • You need to grow more confident in yourself. I don't think any woman likes the way vaginas look
    Even my lesbian friends agree they look horrible.
    But sincd he loves you it shouldn't matter

  • As long as you're clean, he isn't going to care what it looks like. I doubt you have STDs or anything.

  • He WILL like it, and if you just relax, you WILL LOVE it. And you will discover how sexy your pussy looks to a guy and stop worrying about it.

  • Oh you'll like it alright! And guys dont care how your pussy looks like. they love it.

    • This!

  • You've been dating 8 months and this hasn't happened yet? That's one of the first things on my list--both giving AND getting!

    He wants to do it so just let him. The vag isn't the most beautiful body part but hell, who cares? He sure doesn't.

  • If he wants to do it, turn off the light, spread your legs, close your eyes to concentrate on pleasure and let him do it.

  • Let him. It's the only way to gain comfortably in doing it. You are overthinking it WAY more than he is, trust me.

  • Just commenting to see the answers later, don't mind me...

  • i can't really imagine a guy wanting to eat me out more than receive oral.. may have to ask a question on that.

    • Lots of guys would. But this is not an either/or question. I guy could eat you out and love every moment of it, and then you can blow his mind (among other things)

  • If I had an xper for every time I've seen a girl ask this exact question, I could buy a shirt.

  • he's your boyfriend he likes you for you he'll love your pussy. If he's a little bitch and complains about it he's not the right guy for you. End of story.

  • Just let him do it and stop stressing out about it. Women are weird.

  • You have to wash with Dawn antibacterial liquid soap to remove all the smell

    • there's always gonna be a smell lol

    • @idkwtftoputhere why is that I have been told if you take care of yourself 100 percent you can be smell free

    • whoever told you that is wrong. Despite how hygienic a girl may be, there will always be a smell but it shouldn't be unpleasant - if it is, there's a problem. There's a lot of discharge and bacteria in a vagina thus it will have an odour.

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  • Just let me there is a 1st for everything.

  • Tell him to slow down and focus on the clit. Or dump him cause god knows he's gonna just mash his face in you.

  • That is just vile that he wants to do that. Take him to see a doctor.

    • How is that vile?

    • @Thisperson98 just disgusting. I hope she doesn't let him actually to it.

    • Most people don't think it is disgusting.

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  • Don't feel forced into anything. But I used to feel the same exact way as you. Once it happened I realized that guys dont really care what it looks like for the most part as long as its clean. The first time is going to be awkward no matter what, just embrace it.

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