How did you discover your kink? When did you first notice you had it?

[Spockian]

In one of my earlier questions about kinks, one girl explained that she was really into being dominated. She said she noticed this when she was young, and gave the example that being forced to do other people's chores (especially while they watched) made her wet. I found that fascinating, and now I'm curious about others. What is your kink, and when did you first notice it?

[10dsw]

When I was younger I had gone for a routine dental cleaning and the hygienist was pressing her boobs against my head.

I became incredibly aroused by the thought of this woman pressing herself into me in a clinical environment. It seemed so dirty (even if it really was not) and mixed with the professional environment I had realized I had a kink. Definitely got the "insta-boner".

Nowadays I try to date girls who work in health care (it's not really hard finding them, I am a chemist) because they are the only ones who really know how to please me :)

[JRH1991]

Being tied up. or restraining people with cuffs. I can remember being a little kid and seeing people tied up or get their foot stuck be it train tracks or in between rocks and trying to get free. Never thought much of it and thought it went away as I got older Until I got sexually abused and cuffed to the bed by a close friend when I was 13. Thats where the kink in handcuffs and other restraint items came about but it came about several years after.

[Rocket_Queen]

I have a few and noticed pretty young, but I didn't u understand it then, and just thought I was weird. Not until I was older did I get it. An example, this older boy my mom babysat tackled me and like straddled me holding me down and told me to kiss him.. me being the stubborn individual I am, I refused and headbutted him lol. But I wanted to kiss him and definitely liked his style. I suppose that was the beginning.

[Spockian]

So is your kink being dominated?

[Rocket_Queen]

Yeah that was the beginning kink. Of course I kept the stubborn though, I don't want to submit, he'll have to take it. But I have a few now. I have a knife kink, I have a breath/drowning kink, s & m. The list has grown as time went on.

[Spockian]

Can you describe your s&m kink?

[JRH1991]

How old were you when this happened? How old was he.

[Rocket_Queen]

@JRH1991 Maybe 9 for me and 11 for him? Not really older now, but as a kid everyone a year older is "older".

[Evacutie]

I love being devoted and follow a guy and let him completely dominate me. I noticed first signs when I was in school. Every time we played a game where someone had to do something when he lost. I enjoyed receiving tasks. Later when I was 14 I had a guy who was 17. He was a little pushy and rough. I was surprised that I liked this in a way.

[foighveoirgho]

I like being a soft subby. Hitting and hurting isn't really my thing, but praise and hair pets are great.~ My girlfriend always called me a good girl whenever I did what she asked me to, be it sexual or not. I soon realized I really really liked it.

[AustinMan]

You first, then I'll share some interesting stuff.

[WillowTree]

Accidentally.

[genericname85]

It's when you see that thing and you get an insta-boner xD that's how you know.

[TheButterfly]

Just ran across it in porn and it turned me on a lot

[Maxemeister]

A misclick on the internet, at 11, before I discovered what sex is lmao

[Spockian]

So what is your kink?

[Maxemeister]

Secret

[anonman32]

after being intimate with my ex 2 times i already bought handcuffs, so very soon.

[Scared_Banana]

In...

[Dave88]

When she told me to do something and I actually did it

[Anonymous]

When o was 10 or 11 we where playing truth or dare and I ended up giving a girl a fake spanking and I reilize that I REALLY liked it