Can you 'pop your own cherry'/ take your own virginity in a sense?

Question

Is it possible to stretch yourself out before having sex with someone so you can just focus on the pleasure side rather than it hurting?

AriadneSky · Accepted Answer

yes of course you can strewth things out so there's no pain during your foisted sex. but virginity isn't about pain its about penetration.

stretching things out before sex, its actually very common practice for Women for PRECISELY the reasons you mentioned.

just do it slowly over time you'll barely notice. works best if you stick a finger in while you're cumming from clit stim, bc your pain tolerance does way up while yore cumming. plus the muscles will read more to allow things inside.

after you can get one finger try to. i think an average obeys is there fingers wide so after you can comfortably fit three in i guess you're good to go.

though maybe try a dildo first. also just bc you're stretched doesn't mean you shoulnt go slow with actual sex bc sticking stuff into yourself is very different than someone else doing it someone who is probably going to be very excited. so be sure he goes slow. and stop f it hurts.

WillowTree · Accepted Answer

Tearing your hymen isn't going to help you. You're going to be so nervous the first time it doesn't really matter if you stretch it out now or later. You're a virgin by social definition because you've never had a penis inside you. Once it's over with you'll understand it wasn't that big a deal in the first place and THEN you can worry about making sex feel good later. Trust me. There are many more times after the first time that will feel good. This first time will become a blur in your memory bank. You're overthinking it.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

It's not necessarily the hymen or "cherry" that causes the pain. that is often torn from riding a bike, climbing a tree or almost any activity. Sometimes even a tampon. Often the pain of sex comes from an unlubed penis stretching you out and the friction of entry. That's why foreplay and being with someone you trust and are comfortable relaxed with is so important to release your natural lube.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

... If you think that there's any sort of 'cherry' to pop (ie. as if you're anticipating your hymen to tear), you should focus on maturing a bit further before getting physical with anybody.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well that's two separate issues. You can take your own cherry yes. But doesn't mean having sex won't still hurt. You can stretch yourself out buy that in its self will hurt so why not just have the sex.

Fearless_banana · Accepted Answer

It can get kind of gross. I don't believe you can do it yourself. I'll do it for you OP. Just send me your address in my PM box and I'll take the next flight out. I'm totally not creeping on you OP.

xDocilexFaeriex · Answer

Try it out!! I'm sure you could, but it might hurt a LOT!! I hear this is possible with sports!!

posted · Answer

If you have both a penis and vagina, yes.

becreative290 · Answer

Yes, your "cherry" is only a piece of flesh so to speak wrapping around the vaginal opening. If you horseback ride or get jabbed there by something, yes you can. But by fingering yourself or tampons, you can not.

teawrecks · Answer

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WalterRadio · Answer

Buy a small and medium dildo and KY.

99percentangel · Answer

It depends entirely on how you define losing your virginity. For example; if you define it by penis-in-vagina sex then no you can't do that on your own, you'd need a partner. But if you define it by inserting a certain object (such as dildos, vibrators and other kinds of sex toys) to break your hymen then yes I guess you could "pop" your own "cherry".

jacquesvol · Answer

You can tear your hymen yourself but you'll still be a virgin.

genericname85 · Answer

you can hurt your hymen or stick stuff in your vagina but you can´t take your own virginity (only by the muslim definition, that includes an intact hymen).

Regulatus · Answer

Unpeeled banana. You're welcome.

Maxemeister · Answer

Virginity is a concept that depends entirely on what you define it by.

anonman32 · Answer

fuck yourself with a dildo.

TruExo · Answer

That's like saying me whenever I tug my man beast. Did my hand take away virginity?

Anonymous · Answer

Before I lost mine I used hair brushes for years. When I had sex for the first time, there was no blood or pain at all

Anonymous · Answer

Sure try a dildo maby

Anonymous · Answer

It won't hurt if you're ready and do it right. And no, whatever you do you can't take your own virginity, even if you stretch yourself or break your hymen you're a virgin til you have sex.