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Girls, Is the attractiveness of a guy all based on personality? Aren't there other factors?

Girls so often say "size doesn't matter" but then say they want a strong guy who can protect them. Or a guy who knows how to take care of his body. Or that a guy is judged first by his face. We have more control over these things than penis size, but it's still nearly impossible for some of us. I'm 5'7" and 150 pounds, moderately fit and that's as tall as I'm ever going to be, and with a TON of working out and never eating things I want to eat I can maybe get up to 160 and be a Bruce Lee (who was actually a short guy). Anyway, my question is: how important are these things? Height, muscle, weight, and face.
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  • The physical aspects is definitely something important for the initial attraction. As a woman, I know the type of guy I am attracted to physically, or based off of first looks. But in terms of a relationship, believe it or not, looks are not the biggest factor. I know you've probably heard this quite a few time, but attraction is something that can grow over time. Speaking from experience, when I met my current boyfriend I was not attracted to him physically almost at all. Yet as time went on, and I began to fall in love with him for all his other traits, I can honestly say that he is now the most attractive guy I know, and I don't even look at other guys when I'm around him. We've been dating for just over two years now. So all in all. if you're speaking about initial attraction looks are important. But trust me, you don't want someone that is only attracted to you physically. Oh, and height is actually something guys tease other guys on more than girls use in terms of who's the best suitor. So don't worry about that.

  • 1. Attitude- If a guy has a positive attitude and seems confident with himself, girls will be willing to learn more about them because the guy is welcoming and inviting.

    2. Personality- Once the guy's good attitude is recognized, girls will begin to learn their personality and this is where the first phase of really liking a guy begins.

    3. Appearance- If the girl has taken the time to learn her crush's personality and likes who he is and what makes up who he is, everything about the way he looks will become beautiful to her.

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  • No, not all on personality. But if your personality sucks, it won't matter. So yeah, whether or not he's attractive matters, but it's really the combination of the two.

  • The initial attraction is always physical - especially when you don0t know them, but the majority - and how the rational woman decides about a relationship - is based on personality and their need to better themselves in life in general.

  • Looks matter but personality is more important. Also a huge turn on for me is a guy who smells good, dresses well and has a nice haircut. It can make you go from a 6 to a 10 😂

    • Good advice. Most guys I know try to dress like "gangstas" so I think they could use some advice from you!

  • Goes in this order
    1. Face
    2. Confidence
    3. Personality/has he got decent chat
    4. Height
    5. Body/muscles

    • its hard to be confident while also acting gentlemanly. if you walk up to a girl and say "hey, how you doin'"? its going to be clear you're looking to hook up and probably not for long. but if you politely say "hello" its just a lot less tough and more timid sounding, less casual, too.

  • As long as he's taller than me, don't care about the muscle, as long as he's not overweight and well duh the face is a factor. He doesn't have to be a 10/10 but you can read a lot from the face. Gives you insight on what a person is like.

    • well usually, but i think i have a very cold looking face but im actually just a teenage mr rogers xD

  • Initial attraction is there, and this varies from person to person. For me, I look at his eyes first, then the rest of his face before anything else. If he has nice eyes, and a nice smile, I'll be more interested and want to get to know him. His personality is what makes me want to stay.

    Height is a not an issue with me. Muscle is also not an issue... it would be a bonus but not a necessity. Same as weight, to an extent (I cannot be with someone obese. Chubby is fine). The face is more important to me, if we are just talking about physical aesthetics.

  • Whether a guy is attractive to me is based on physical appearance along with personality and other things. If he's good looking but I jerk to other people or just talks about people especially girls badly he's no longer all that attractive to me.

  • Obviously, everything is taken into consideration, including looks.

  • height isn't important, I like guys who are my height and taller (5'5")
    muscle matters
    face can't be too ugly

  • It's not just personality tbh. It's somewhat the face, the body is less important. Height could be important but for some but for others it doesn't matter if you're taller than them like I'm 5'2 and that's easy to be taller than lmao

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