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If he tells me I'm tight does it mean he wants me to loosen up a bit?

I'm a black girl dating a white guy for the first time. We had sex for the first time two weeks ago and ever since he keeps talking about how tight my vagina is and not even his two other girlfriends (one of them virgin) were this tight. This is making me feel insecure, when he tries to have sex I can't even cause all I can think about is him saying "you're so tight". He's also my first boyfriend so I'm not an expert when it comes to relationships. Is this a bad thing when guys tell you so many times that you're very tight with a little smile on their faces? Is he making fun of me? Maybe letting me know that I should loosen it up a bit? If he thinks I'm tight why does he keep trying to have sex? Mind you that he can fit two fingers inside, sex is not painful, he fits perfectly.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Wow, I'm so jealous!!! Haha. Because I'm a white male & I've always wanted to have sex with a black girl!! If I wasn't so shy back in the day, I probably would have already had sex with one. Lol. But knowing what I know now and that I'm not as shy anymore, I would have a blast!!! Lol. But as far as your boyfriend saying how tight u are with a smile on his face, isn't a bad thing at all! I'm assuming he has a nice size dick? And if I was him, I wouldn't want u to loosen yourself up. But you would still be tight for me too! Lol. 😊

  • You females are just as paranoid as us guys lol. Telling a girl she's tight is supposed to be a compliment my dear. It means your vag isn't loose like mother goose... Its a compliment... or you can ask him if he likes that tight little pussy (dirty talk) and if he makes a sexual/happy face like he normally does he LOVES it (which he probably already does) based upon what you wrote.

    • I was freaking out, even cried! Dating for the first time is so hard cause I never get these types of compliments

    • Don't worry he loves it be easy and enjoy (thumbs up).

Most Helpful Girls

  • I always assume it means (& granted I don't have a penis so I don't know what it feels like lol --nor do I enjoy PIV sex): "the walls of yr vagina feel good against my cock". Like it must be friction right? Or maybe it's just a thing guys say. 'You're not a slut'. Some guys are turned on by 'virgins' -- kinda icky to me to be turned on by inexperience but eh.

    Anyway yeah he's not making fun of you; it's a compliment if anything

    • thank you so much for your words

    • yr welcome :) thanks 4 MHO

  • Tightness to a guy is a positive thing. It feels really good to them. You have nothing to be upset about hehe!

    • The gratuitous (and irrelevant) race reference in the very first sentence pretty much convinces me that this is a troll. ... not to mention that the post isn't even consistent with itself ("he's my first boyfriend" ... "dating a white guy for the first time") uhhh if yr gonna troll, at least try to remember what you wrote 4 lines ago 😂😂

    • @redeyemindtricks where's the lie? He's my first boyfriend and happens to be the first time I've been with a white guy. If you can't help don't even bother yourself with that

  • I m pretty sure he meant that in the good way.. Don't worry

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  • Tight is a wonderful thing as long as you're not in a lot of pain. Are you?

    • I'm not!

    • So do your Kegels religiously so you'll stay good and tight. It begs the question of you being tight everywhere.

  • Oh don't you be insecure over this , he is paying you an ultimate compliment

    • thank you

  • Tight vagina is not a complaint for many guys!

  • He is complimenting you.
    A tight Vag is prized , as it grips the penis more firmly, giving him more pleasure.
    That is why he keeps trying to have sex with you, among other things, like your beauty and personality..

  • Nope. The opposite. It's a great thing. He could possibly be saying it to reassure himself that he's big enough for you as well.

  • It is a complement.

  • No he's giving you a compliment don't worry

  • Yeah... Also if he says you are pretty or beautiful he's saying he wants you to smash a hot iron into your face.

    • okay

  • A vagina is made to constrict or relax to accommodate a wide range of penis sizes. He's being juvenile at best, and shouldn't be discussing your sex with anyone else. Totally rude and disrespectful.

    And no, it has nothing to do with being tight or loose and everything to do with his immaturity.

    • "and shouldn't be discussing your sex with anyone else." what do you mean?

    • Well evidently he is only saying this to you. Perhaps you should ask him what he's getting at. Maybe he thinks he's complementing you.

  • It's a good thing don't worry

  • Nope just have more sex with him and that should loosen you up lol, its a compliment

    • the lol didn't let me understand if you're making fun or actually helping me... thanks (?)

    • helping

  • No guys like that shit more

  • It's a very good compliment don't be ashamed, now if a guy says your very loose then I would be upset

  • He mean you feel very good to his dick!!! To lose of a girl doesn't do any thing for a guy.

  • Useless dick, just saying weird things, there is nothing called too tight. its not a brick hole!

  • Are you dating him BECAUSE he's white?

    • throwback to 5th grade

    • What?

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